Glad I found this. A day late an a dollar short as usual, but I'll say my bit.
Dad was a hardass. Sergeant in the Marines over in Guam. Went from that to a college football coach at UC Davis. Linebackers was his specialty. His idol was Vince Lombardi, my middle name came from him. There were times I hated the man, but now I see how well he did his job.
We're like best friends now. I got him into single action shooting recently, an he calls me everytime he comes back from the range. When my Mother got sick, the insurance company said they'd pay for a home nurse. Dad said no, he'd do it himself. I went down to visit and watched him change IV's and colostomies. He was better than any home nurse could have ever been. That was his wife, and damnit, he was gonna take care of her. We'd set out on his back porch every evening and have a beer and just talk about old stories, and some I'd never heard before.
He's a great man and I understand and thank him now. I hope he'll live to be 112 years old.
Leo