That charge is only about 2/3rds of what Hogdons recommends, its probably hovering on the virg of squibbing, or some other badd joojoo.
Either raise the powder charge, or switch to a different powder. Max load of trailboss might be just the ticket for this.
If she can't handle the recoil from the 250's or 200's with adeguate powder charges, with slip on pads or a past shoulder pad, etc, then it may be time to consider something in a 38 special,or 32-20.