We wooden do that to a new guy. We don't pick on folks until they been around a loooong time...three-four days or so. Figure they've put down roots by then, an' started spreading their branches, so they're fair fodder for the fire. Just don't take some of the things to heart an' get your ash in an uproar an' start weepin'. Just brush yourself off and smile. Given time, you too will blossom and flower with the rest of the mob.
(SIDE NOTE: I'm really startin' to stretch here. Anybody else want to step in an' bail me out? Please???)