My return from Milwaukee did not last for long. The night after we got back we got a phone call from my wife’s sister. One of my wife’s nephews was killed in a motorcycle accident, so we got a flight back to Wisconsin. Spent the next2 plus weeks attending the funeral and seeing to my MIL. Once she seemed to be doing OK emotionally we came back. So far things seem to be stable back there, so we should be home for a while now.