Thank you everyone, we'll get through this, we always do.
She will stay another day, they won't let her go home till she poops. (Just what you wanted to hear.) But they have to be careful because they took the biopsy through the rectal wall. She told me to stay home and run the kid around because she don't need anything and will either watch TV or sleep. A long walk to her room, I can get a volunteer to run me up there but I feel weird having someone older than me pushing me in a chair. I know, some people age better, I can walk but it wears me down do bad I have to nap and I have stuff that needs done. We actually have been doing this since our troubles began. It sounds harsh in a way but if we are doing fine and not in any danger of dieing soon does the other one need to walk all that way and sit in nasty hospital furniture.
We're to tough to sweat the small stuff.