First thing, I am related to no one in Elk County and I almost feel like I shouldn't post here, as my life is just so.so.
My name is Judy Harder
I was born and raised in Topeka...........My parents are George and Virginia Bates and I have a younger sister (4 years younger) and a younger brother (11 years younger) who all still live in Topeka.
I graduated from Seaman High in 1960 and worked for a while at the Stormont-Vail Hospital in the new-born nursery.
Got married in 62 and had 3 younguns right off the bat.......well not bat......but working with all those newborns I told people that it was catching.
I had 3 under 3 and became a housewife and mother. Raised them and myself and husband..........did a fair job with the kids..........2 boys and a girl with the girl being in the middle.
Bob, Jr lived in North Carolina (he passed on when he was 39; his wife Jenny passed on just 30 days before he did from fighting cancer) He had an aortic anurism. My daughter lives in Wisconsin and my youngest is in Florida somewhere. Not sure where as he got in trouble and spent time in prison and refuses to talk to me. I am dealing with it.........God has been with me the whole time and is seeing me through it.
Robyn has 2 boys 21 and 15 and David has a daughter and a son. The granddaughter lives in Austin Texas near her mother and I have lost contact with the grandson.........somewhere in Florida.
I have been on disability since I hit 50. (I am 64) Have fibromyalgia, several different kinds of athritis and restless leg syndrome and a few other auto-immune diseases.
I am also a survivor of throat cancer. In fact I am cancer free........and in my 4th year of recovery.
As I said I raised 3 kids and myself and didn't manage to get the husband raised, so parted ways in 74 and married a man from Longton and moved over here.
We had moved to Independence from Topeka, because Bob's brother and wife lived there and we had wonder-itis.
Anyway after that marriage didn't work out I worked for Mercy until I met Charlie Croney and we married and I moved (with teenagers) to Longton.
It took a few years, but have found out that I am a small town girl at heart.
I do enjoy going back to Topeka to visit and this past year I toyed with the idea of moving back.
As I said I don't have any family here and when I get ill or blue or needing some help I feel I may need to get closer to family.
If the time comes when I need the help, then I will move back up there.........But, for now as long as I can I will stay here.
Love the fact I can walk down the sidewalk or out in the rural area and know that someone is aware of where I am.
I will update this later........I love animals, am an outdoor person if and when I can, love to visit and or listen to people.
If anyone is in Longton you can find me at cafe or at least they will know where I am.......and they care...
Hugs and God bless...............Judy