Allen and Rachel's blended family was faced every day with the same challenge: being comfortable with each other.
For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.
Isaiah 41:13
Blended Marriage
Allen and Rachel's blended family was faced every day with the same challenge: being comfortable with each other. They found resistance to change from their children ages 4-13. The children were apprehensive about new siblings. They were feeling like they lost their parent to someone else.
Allen and Rachel's blended family is like an investment. One day, small contributions will add up to a lot of interest. The return was not immediate, but it was steady.
The parents began to see success as they spent more time with all the children. They had picnics and went to sporting events. The exercised together and worshipped every Sunday morning as a family
The greatest gift Allen and Rachel could give to their children was to love each other and demonstrate that love through their daily words and actions to one another.
30-Day Challenge
If you could do ONE THING and know that it would make a significant, lasting, possibly life-changing difference in your life, would you do it? Dr. Carlson shares the power of ONE THING and why you should get started doing your ONE THING today.
Today's One Thing
Write out a mission statement for your family. If you have one already, revisit it.
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And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, "The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness."
Exodus 34:6 NIV
Step Up
The curly-headed two year old lifted herself from her mother's lap onto the next rung of the play set. "I do it myself," she proclaimed. The mother patiently smiled as she considered her daughter's limited information. Without her lap lift of several inches her little one wouldn't be able to climb up to the next level, but she really thought she was doing it by herself.
Have you ever fallen into the trap of thinking you're functioning on your own? Usually at some point you end up realizing that God has been there all along, patiently giving you the lift in the direction you needed. He carefully picks you up when you stumble and fall and sets you back onto the right rung as He steadies and guides you just like a loving mother would.
Has God been nudging you in a particular direction? What will be your response to Him today?
Today's One Thing
Thank God for His patience and acknowledge His help, and take the next step you know He wants you to take.
Going Deeper
I Peter 3:9, Romans 2:4, Exodus 34:1-11
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The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
2 Peter 3:9 NIV
God's Patience with Job
Have you heard the term, "the patience of Job," and wondered what it means? It comes from the story in the Bible of a man named Job who lost his family and all of his worldly possessions. He went from being a wealthy man with ten children to a poor, childless and hopeless man. Through all his losses he refused to turn his back on God. He did, however, have a bit of a discussion with the Almighty.
With great patience God listened to all of Job's groanings of despair. Then God reminded Job that He is God and Job was not. Job admitted he was wrong. Don't miss the end of his story in Job, Chapter 42. It's a must read!
Aren't you thankful for God's patience? Aren't you glad you're not God? Let Him be in charge and don't give up on Him even when times are troubling.
Today's One Thing
Be honest with God about what concerns you and trust Him with the outcome.
Going Deeper
Job 42, Romans 8:28, Romans 15:4
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Before the mountains were born or you brought forth the whole world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.
Psalm 90:2 NIV
He Is Big Enough
As she buried her toes into the sand and felt the lapping of the tide cover her ankles, Jan looked out at the ocean that stretched to the horizon. She knew it continued past the point where it met the sky and that it kept on going, but its vastness was beyond her grasp of comprehension.
This is only a glimpse of how big God is. He spoke the world, the mountains and the oceans, into being. He has no beginning and no end, yet He desires a personal relationship with you. He cares about the things that linger on your mind day and night. He cares about the people you anguish over. He understands the work you never seem to finish.
He is much bigger than all of these things and He wants to help you. He wants to give you His peace that is beyond your understanding.
Today's One Thing
Talk to God through prayer about what concerns you today and receive His peace and rest as you focus on the truth of His words in your Bible.
Going Deeper
Psalm 147:5, Isaiah 40:28, I Peter 5:7
He says, "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth."
Psalm 46:10 NIV
Stop and Listen
Steven Curtis Chapman tells the story behind his chart-topping Be Still, recounting his frustrating airplane ride to Africa with his family for ministry work.
"Nothing I thought I was going to feel was going on inside of me. But somewhere around the time my son spilled his second drink all over my lap, I had opened my Bible and read the Psalm that tells us to 'be still and know that I am God.' That's what God is saying: rest and listen, and still your heart in the midst of this."
Sometimes it's easy to lose the forest for the trees, and forget that God desires presence more than performance. The good news is your Heavenly Father is always present and available.
Today's One Thing
Slow down and really pay attention to the moments God gives you to see the work He's done today.
Going Deeper
Psalm 139; Romans 8:31-39
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Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
Hebrews 4:16 NIV
The Immediate Connection
"There's nobody can beat me talkin' to the Lord about me."
Those words were preached by Dr. S.M. Lockridge in his best-known sermon from the 1970's. He continues to audience laughter: "Now, I appreciate you prayin' for me, but when it comes to prayer, I don't trust you. Nobody can plead my cause before God like I can."
Maybe you feel like others can reach God more easily because, well, maybe they just have a better relationship with Him than you. The doctor's point is clear: Prayer is the single most powerful tool God has given you for direct conversation with Him, and there's no one who can talk to your Father about you more accurately than you.
God is available at all times, to all people, for all requests. Talk to Him today; He's waiting.
Today's One Thing
Today, talk to God somewhere prayer might have seemed usually out of place.
Going Deeper
Heb 4; Phil 4:1-9
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Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27 NIV
Tight Rope Peace
As Nick Wallenda walked on a tight rope across a 1,500 foot tall gorge near the Grand Canyon he gave praise to Jesus. In front of the whole world he prayed for peace and asked God to calm the 20 mile per hour winds. As he gingerly stepped foot over foot for more than twenty minutes with his life literally on the line, he talked to His Lord and focused on Him. He made it all the way across safely.
Hopefully, you're not walking on a tight rope today, but you may feel like you're struggling to take the next step. Are you overwhelmed with anxiety? Or unsure of how much further you can make it? Do you feel like you're walking a fine line?
Follow the example of Nick and focus on the Lord Jesus and He will direct your steps. He will bring you to peace and safety.
Today's One Thing
Choose to keep your focus on Jesus when you are tempted to become anxious. The more often you do, the easier it gets.
Going Deeper
Matthew 11:28-30, John 16:33, Proverbs 3:5-6
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For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.
Ephesians 5:31
Where Does One Start and the Other Stop
Unfortunately for many, marriage is no longer sacred. It is perceived by some as just another of many relationships you encounter during your journey in life. Your decision to live an intentional life in Christ by making Him your Lord and Savior, means you have chosen to live according to God's perspective. It's taking those truths found in His Word, believing them in your heart so that they become habits of your day-to-day life.
From God's perspective, marriage is sacred. God's design means two people coming together as one spirit, soul and body. They are joined together—intertwined in such a way that no one can tell where one starts and the other stops.
You spouse becomes your best friend, your confident, your trusted companion. It's not uncommon for those married for years to know what the other is thinking or complete one another's sentences. Although they may not always agree on everything—they are united as one.
Does your marriage look like the marriage God intended for you to have? Are you committed and willing to forsake all others in order to love one another?
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING can you do today to show your spouse that they are your most prized relationship here on earth?
Going Deeper
Ephesians 5:21-31; Hebrews 13
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Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him.
Psalm 34:8 NIV
Good Enough
What are you missing in your life? Is there something you have been wanting for a long time and God hasn't answered that prayer with a "Yes" yet?
Nick Vujicic is a motivational speaker. He trusts God with his whole heart. He trusts Him so much that he travels around the world encouraging others to put their hope and trust in Jesus. He tells them that God can use them no matter what. When Nick speaks people pay close attention. They hang on his every word because Nick has lived all his life with no arms and no legs. He was born with a congenital condition and has never known life differently. It's not that Nick has never questioned God's goodness in his life. He has. Still, he has concluded that in God he trusts. God's goodness is good enough for him.
Imagine for a moment life without arms and legs. What would be different for you? Does that thought invoke lots of things to be thankful for?
Today's One Thing
Thank God for His goodness in your life and choose to let Him use you the way He wants to.
Going Deeper
Psalm 100, Psalm 135:3, Psalm 145:9
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Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him.
Psalm 34:8 NIV
He Goes On and On
Close your eyes and imagine being with God where there is no pain and no sorrow. Think about complete joy and peace that goes on and on and on. It never ends. It's difficult as a human being to picture that since you are trapped in time limitations, but God always was and always will be. There will come a day when you, who are in Christ, will be in His presence and away from earthly struggles forever. Can you picture it?
God knows everything that concerns you, has the power to take care of you and is everywhere you go. He is infinite. He loves you and has your best interest in mind. You can trust Him no matter what happens. There is much more going on than what you can see in the physical world. He sees it all and knows exactly what you need. You can trust Him.
Today's One Thing
Spend a few moments thinking about God's attributes. Thank Him for taking care of what you need today.
Going Deeper
Genesis 1:1, Revelation 4:8b
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And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28 NIV
It Is Well
How are you today? For Horatio G. Spafford all was quite well until an unfortunate series of tragedies struck his family. In 1870 he and his wife lost their son to scarlet fever. A year later he lost much of his property in the Great Chicago Fire. Then all four of his daughters drowned in an accident in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean.
Later, as Horatio crossed over the area where his daughters' ship had sunk, he wrote the words to the famous hymn, "It is Well With My Soul." Horatio knew the despair of loss, but he didn't give up his trust in God. He looked forward to the day he would be with Him. He trusted in His goodness.
Is it well with your soul? Do you trust God in the face of difficult times? Do you believe He is good no matter what happens?
Today's One Thing
Thank God for the good things in your life and tell Him you trust Him with the bad things.
Going Deeper
Psalm 31:19, Psalm 107:1, I Timothy 4:4
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I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
John 16:33 NIV
Victory
The two-fingered peace sign is thought to have originated as a "V" for victory during World War II. The symbol was painted on walls signifying freedom from occupying enemy forces. It was adopted as the symbol for peace and freedom in the 1960s.
The peace God offers is much more than the absence of the enemy. In the Bible Jesus promised there would be trouble in your world. That's a given. As He was preparing to leave the earth, Jesus also promised His Comforter, the Holy Spirit, to be there for you. He is your peace in the midst of all that life throws at you. It's not the lack of war and trouble He promised, but His peace in the midst of the battles of your life. You're not alone in Him. You have all you need to win.
Today's One Thing
Make a commitment today to stop looking for the end of conflict and look to God through His Word, the Bible, and prayer for your peace and comfort.
Going Deeper
John 14:15-27, Acts 1:8, Acts 10:36
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About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them.
Acts 16:25 NIV
A Different Kind of Freedom
"This is going to sound real stupid coming from a man in prison, but for the first time in my life, I'm free."
Those words were spoken from an inmate's Alcoholics Anonymous group, by Whip Whitaker in the movie "Flight" (2012). After finally admitting to his addiction and being sentenced for his felony, Whip found freedom in captivity, finally being able to rid himself of dependence on alcohol and drugs.
Paul and Silas were in prison for completely different reasons, and they found freedom in the arms of their Savior. As they praised and worshiped, the other prisoners and even the jailer saw the amazing power of God. Despite being behind literal bars, the deeper freedom of God proves that your circumstances don't determine your ultimate fate, instead it is the Lord's saving power at work in your heart. Even now, you can choose Him and break whatever chains bind you.
Today's One Thing
No matter where you are or what trials you face, ask God to help you realize the freedom that comes from His power alone.
Going Deeper
Acts 16:16-36; Rom 8:18-29
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And Joshua set up at Gilgal the twelve stones they had taken out of the Jordan. He said to the Israelites, "In the future when your descendants ask their parents, 'What do these stones mean?' tell them, 'Israel crossed the Jordan on dry ground.'"
John 16:33 NIV
Take Time to Answer the "Why"
If you've ever had a 3-year-old, then you've been asked the question, "Why?" more than a hundred times. Children are looking for guidance and opportunities to learn. It's easy to get busy with life and miss the little moments you are given each day to answer the "whys" of life. As a parent, you are responsible to tell your children about God and His goodness.
In the scripture above, Joshua, the leader of his people, took the opportunity to build a memorial in honor of all God had done to bring them out of slavery. He instructed parents to take that little moment and answer their child's "why" with the story of God's faithful deliverance in bringing their families out of slavery in Egypt.
What stories of God's faithfulness do you want to share with your children today?
Today's One Thing
Take the time to build God's truths in their hearts each time they ask "why?"
Going Deeper
Joshua 4; Ephesians 6:1-10
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For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
John 3:16 NIV
Teach your children well
As a parent, you may find it hard to discipline your child—it takes time, energy and effort on your part. And it may prove painful. Say you told your son he had to be home by midnight. So, he's 10 minutes late. Do you give him grace? Or do you take away the car keys for next weekend?
Each parent makes those difficult choices. But if you want to raise a responsible adult, your children have to expect consequences for good and bad choices they make. As an adult, there are consequences for your choices. If you don't pay the electric bill—it may be shut off. If you don't put gas in your car, you may have to take an unexpected walk in the heat or rain.
As you help your child learn that his actions bring consequences—praise for good decisions, and discipline for bad choices—you teach him what it means to live an intentional life.
Give your child the best foundation for life as you guide him through lessons with consequences today. When it's hard to be the disciplinarian, remember you are giving a gift that will last him a lifetime.
Today's One Thing
What is the hardest thing for you when you discipline your child? Ask God to give you strength and wisdom to train your child His way.
Going Deeper
Hebrews 12:11; Colossians 3:21
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For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
John 3:16 NIV
Gentle Hands
Holding her fist inside his half-closed palm, she nodded against his chest, eyes drooping. At three years old, little Casey trusted her daddy to love her through thick and thin. Though unable to forget the challenging childishness, Dad found that the stolen, sweet and quiet moments, smoothed the rough edges and mollified the frustration.
Good daddies frequently overlook their little ones' offenses against them; ultimately the relationship means more than just obeying or doing what they should.
Your Heavenly Father works like that in your life. He is the all-powerful, holy and jealous God of the universe, but not a moment goes by that He doesn't hold your hand in His, cradling you gently, withholding His wrath. Choosing to show mercy; He lavishes His love on you every day. For God so loved the world... He didn't punish... He gave.
Today's One Thing
Today, accept the Lord's gentle restraint. Rest in Him and find peace, knowing His love outweighs His judgment.
Going Deeper
John 8:1-11; James 2:1-13
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Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground outside your Father's care.
Matthew 10:29 NIV
Cre•a•tion [kree-ey-shuhn]
Dictionary.com defines Creation as
the act of producing or causing to exist; the act of creating; engendering;
the original bringing into existence of the universe by God.
We are meant to experience every aspect of God's glorious creation, from the mountains and forests, to lakes and oceans. There is a beauty to a sunny day with a cool breeze, feeling the summer heat on your back after getting out of a cold swimming pool. There's a wonder in the intricate detail of the iris of an eye, and the way the pores on the skin open and close to insulate the body.
There is a beautiful range of emotions which weave in and out of the human heart. Like a piece of ironwork shaped by a master smith, God-shaped people are indeed fashioned after God Himself. He loves you more than anything. More than every tiny bird that falls, and no less than an entire galaxy that winks out of existence in the heavens.
Today's One Thing
Meditate for 10 minutes on how much the Creator God knows you, down to the tiniest detail, even better than you know yourself.
Going Deeper
Genesis 1; Psalm 8
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Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.
Jeremiah 29:12 NIV
Sometimes, the Answer is No.
Country western superstar Brad Paisley's song No, says, "Make no mistake, every prayer you pray is answered, even though sometimes, the answer is, "No."
It's easy to be frustrated with God for not delivering things you've very carefully determined are best for you. Perhaps you've wondered, why pray if God's not going to answer the prayer?
19th century theologian Andrew Murray says, "Prayer opens the way for God Himself to do His work in us and through us." The point of asking God for things is to accept that He is the only one who can answer, and therefore the only one who knows the best way to answer; yes, no, or later. God's promise is to listen, and the work He does in your heart during prayer is the true miracle of faith.
Today's One Thing
Give God the leeway in your life, to change your heart, asking for the right things, and to accept His knowledge of what's best, even when you don't understand.
Going Deeper
Psalm 51:1-12; Jeremiah 30:4-11
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No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.
Matthew 6:24 NIV
God's Good is Better
Sometimes faith is a battlefield. Once a desire takes hold of your heart, it can be extremely hard to remember that God has better plans... ones that may be more difficult to accept because it means that you have to give up something and put Christ in place of that desire.
It's impossible to serve both God and yourself; only one can truly be the master. God's plans are so much more infinitely wise and ultimately caring than yours. He wants to be at the very center of your life. "Money," as in today's verse from Matthew, can take so many different forms: children, food, shopping, movies, sex, drugs, video games, even romance... You make a choice each day to keep God first place in your heart.
Remember, God's good is infinitely better than your best. Choose to let Him lead and guide the choices you make.
Today's One Thing
Think about an area of your life you may need to consider releasing to God so you can experience His goodness more fully.
Going Deeper
Romans 8:31-39
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And the Lord passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, 'The Lord, The Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in faithfulness...
Exodus 34:6 NIV
Not an Angry God
In 2013's summer release of Man of Steel, Kal El, aka Clark Kent, is perhaps portrayed more humanly and tangibly than any Superman story to date. His human father, Jonathan, meticulously teaches Clark to control his anger, and to keep his good character a high priority. As Clark embraces the identity of Superman, he is remarkably slow to anger, even in the face of his foes' merciless and violent attacks.
God's response to you is similar. Though humankind often times treats God with disdain and indifference, His way is a merciful and patient judgment. Indeed, slow, patient breaths is a great picture in the meaning of the Hebrew word for "long-suffering." The Lord does not huff and puff in anger, and He always perfectly mixes His disapproval of sin with His mercy and patient love for His creation. Praise God that Jesus took the punishment for our imperfection!
Today's One Thing
Start today by acknowledging how much God loves you. Even though you fail, His anger is measured by His grace and mercy.
Going Deeper
Psalm 86; Luke 7:36-50
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For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope...
Romans 8:20 NIV
Loving His Mercy
Jim and Brittany were in a slump. Times were hard enough with the recession, with their house upside down and benefits cut from their jobs. The year of 2012 followed suit with so much heartache: a young brother's death, two pay cuts, a miscarriage, depression, and families at odds with each other.
Finally one night, Brittany cried out, "Please Lord. We are losing. We just need one win... just one."
Have you ever been to that deep, dark place? Why does God allow that?
God didn't even spare His own Son the pain and shame of torture and death. The only way for us to understand the pain it cost for our freedom is to experience a little of that burden ourselves. To know His hope, you must know His joy, His peace, and yes, even His pain. He doesn't always spare you from hardship, but neither did He spare Himself from His cross.
Today's One Thing
Seek out and meditate on God's mercy, knowing that even in trials, His mercy is apparent.
Going Deeper
Romans 8:18-29; James 1:1-16
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And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:7 NIV
That One Little Message
Have you felt lost in today's rush? Most people have. It happens so frequently in the mad scramble of emails, phone calls, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest... you name it, and it can steal your time. People talk so much in the cacophony of social media, communicating with everyone, and yet it seems they barely connect.
But what happens when you get that note, that email, that phone call from someone who really cares. Their words are sent just to encourage and support you. You appreciate that person you can lean on and cry with. Suddenly the social media "connection" that is promised, but rarely delivered, washes away like the sand, and the pearl of true relationship becomes obvious.
Your Heavenly Father longs for this connection with you, and He offers a peace that can drown out the shouts of a world that can often be the loudest voice in the room.
Today's One Thing
When you talk with God, visit a quiet place, away from even your computer and phone; be still and cherish the silence.
Going Deeper
Phil 3:7-21; John 14:15-31
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Truly he is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken.
Psalm 62:6 NIV
Beautiful Scars
The beautiful young woman lay unconscious in the hospital bed in the ICU. Her grief-stricken family stood around her as the doctors tried to revive her from the coma, induced by severe head trauma. Finally, the quiet conversation took the most feared turn; the girl would not awake. Their niece, sister, daughter, friend, once full of life... was gone. How do you handle something like that? How do you not simply lose your grip on reality?
For all the twist and turns of grief, even though traumatic events can seem to shake the earth beneath your feet, the promise is clear. If we make God our rock and our defense, we will not be moved; we will not be torn from a foundation upon which the hope and power of Christ rest.
The rains may fall and the winds may blow, eroding and shaping the landscape of your life, but nothing can dislodge your solid trust in the sacrifice of Jesus. Not even death.
Today's One Thing
In your most shaking experiences, meditate on how God anchors you to a solid, life-giving hope in His Son.
Going Deeper
Psalm 62, 63
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May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Romans 15:13
Praying for Your Spouse
The Lord is a God of love and wants your life to be filled with joy and purpose. He loves hearing from you in prayer and delights in helping you, your spouse and your family.
Your marriage brings joy to the Lord, and he wants to help you find solutions to challenges you encounter. By praying for your spouse and praying together, the two of you will find what pleases Him. His direction can be clear for your marriage. It will bring all the other areas of life into focus.
If you haven't prayed in a while, don't worry. He is always ready to have a conversation with you. By asking for His guidance, you'll feel your relationship grow. It will help you and your spouse walk hand in hand.
The key to connecting with God is to begin talking to Him, several times a day. Talk to him like a friend. That's what you are to Him. Tell the Lord about your thoughts and concerns. He is never too busy to listen.
Today's One Thing
Pray for your spouse. Pray for success and blessings from the Lord.
Going Deeper
John 5:15, Hebrews 4:16, Psalm 139:13-16
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Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.
1 Chronicles 16:34
Thoughtfulness
God is a thoughtful provider. He gives you everything you need from the grandeur of nature to the miracle of life. His creations are inspiring. His plan for salvation is perfect.
In your busy life today, there can be little time to be thoughtful. The line between helpful and hassled can blur by the sheer volume of work to be done. But you can slow the world down and step off the fast ride.
Take a deep breath and experience the goodness of life, God's majesty. You can help others, through thoughtfulness and intentional kindness. Even if you have to go out of your way to help someone, do it.
You can be a bright light and an inspiration through demonstrations of love and respect. Thoughtfulness makes others feel special, blessed by the goodness of the Lord.
Today's One Thing
Choose to be thoughtful today. Pick up the tab for the next person in line at the coffee shop. Give your seat on the bus to someone else.
Going Deeper
Hebrews 12:29, Romans 12:2
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The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against him.
Daniel 9:9
Need for Mercy
Ed came home one afternoon to find that the TV, stereo and some jewelry had been stolen. His wife, Beth, rushed home from work. After the police left, Ed and Beth prayed, "Lord, we have no insurance and cannot afford to replace these things. Please return them to us." Then Ed's heart softened as he reflected on how he was an ex-offender and had gone to jail for embezzlement. He told, Beth, "We must first forgive."
After the thief had been arrested, Ed visited him. He forgave him and gave a Bible to his brother who had assisted in the crime. Soon the robber told police where the stolen things were hidden. Ed even testified on the thief's behalf when the he pled guilty to the burglary. Most of all, the young man invited Jesus Christ into his life!
When you experience the reality of God's mercy in your area of weakness, you become more sensitive to those who need mercy. Thank God for His bountiful mercy and experience the joy of showing mercy to others.
Today's One Thing
Be intentional about forgiving someone who has wronged you.
Going Deeper
Romans 11:32-33; Matthew 9:13
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He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.
Psalms 147:3 NIV
Broken No More
You can't take a pill for this. Surgery won't help. And you certainly can't run away from it. It's a broken heart.
Maybe someone you loved left you or was taken from you. Or someone you trusted betrayed you. The pain runs deep and you may not imagine ever facing a day again without it.
But Jesus is the Master Healer. Not only of flesh and bone, but of your spirit, your most inner being where the brokenness resides. In Psalms 57:1 we are told to take refuge in the shadow of His wings until the disaster has passed. He wants to shelter you in your time of need. He understands your hurt better than anyone else. He knows where it comes from and He alone can walk you through it.
Because of Jesus there is a light at the end of the tunnel, a rainbow after the storm and a silver lining behind every cloud.
Today's One Thing
Put on your favorite worship music, close your eyes and let the Holy Spirit minister healing to your heart.
Going Deeper
Isaiah 63: 1-3; Deuteronomy 31:8
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Who has measured the Spirit of the LORD, or what man shows him his counsel?
Isaiah 40:13
All the Answers
Many consider Albert Einstein the smartest person in history. His theory of relativity came from an essay he wrote when he was 16 years old. By age 26, Einstein had published five major research papers in an important German journal. For one of those papers he received his doctorate. Einstein's discoveries about the atom advanced the arenas of energy and medicine. He also was awarded the 1921 Nobel Prize for his work on theoretical physics.
Many scientists spend their lives trying to understand and solve the mysteries of life and the universe. But for God, there are no mysteries. He is the only source of all knowledge, understanding and wisdom. So remember you don't need an IQ like Einstein's when you know someone who knows all the answers! As you read the Bible and pray, ask God to reveal His wisdom to you. He has so much He wants you to know and understand!
Today's One Thing
Thank God for His knowledge of your past, present and future.
Going Deeper
Job 15:8; Romans 11:34
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Let us then approach God's throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
Hebrews 4:16
Ocean of Mercy
A young mother was enjoying the California ocean with her young baby. Suddenly a large wave hit her and the backwash engulfed the baby and swept her back into the ocean.
Three skim boarders saw what happened and raced up the beach. One of the three dove in and rescued the baby in the frothing surf. He grabbed her just as they were hit by another large wave. He lifted the child to the surface knowing she had not had a breath for the last three waves. He fought his way upstream and handed the child back to her relieved mother.
It's often easy to take God's mercy for granted. That is, until you experience an overwhelming wave of difficulty. Yet, God is there to sweep you up when you feel like you're drowning in challenges. Once again, He faithfully shows you His great love and provision. So thank God every day for the blessings and the challenges. As you do, ask Him for opportunities to show others His mercy in tangible ways.
Today's One Thing
Thank God for how He has shown you His mercy recently.
Going Deeper
1 Peter 1:3-5; Ephesians 2:4-5
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Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.
John 14:27
Prescription for Peace
A year ago Eugene and Kirstin didn't know if they would make it through the night. The couple decided to go to a midnight movie with some friends. Soon after the movie started, a masked gunman walked in the theater and opened fire. Eugene pushed Kirstin under the chairs. Eugene got shot in the hip and in the knee. Then the shooter's gun jammed. With Kristin supporting Eugene, they escaped the theater with their friends as the gunman pulled out another gun.
One year later, Eugene has recovered and the couple decided to marry on the anniversary of the shooting. Kirstin and Eugene know their relationship with Jesus Christ has helped them turn tragedy into a special day. Eugene said, "Our faith is definitely a big part of the story."
There is only one true prescription for peace in difficult times...knowing God is in control when all appears otherwise. He is able to work all things together for your good. Nothing can hinder his plans for you!
Today's One Thing
Practice trusting God this week for every event in which you feel fearful or out of control.
Going Deeper
Jeremiah 29:11-14; Isaiah 26:3
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Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.
Proverbs 4:7
True Wisdom
In 1953, there were only 100 computers in use around the world. Today, there are more than 110 million computers in homes, schools, and offices. Some of the most sophisticated supercomputers now can perform nearly 32 billion calculations per second and can store a billion characters in their memories. They can do in one hour what it would take a desktop computer forty years to perform. Yet, the more technology we have, the more we realize how much we still do not know.
God not only knows everything but His knowledge is never superseded or made obsolete by new discoveries. He will give you wisdom to handle your situations when you talk to Him, read the Bible and pursue counsel from others you know and trust. So seek God's wisdom every day and build your life on the foundation of His truth.er for your good. Nothing can hinder his plans for you!
Today's One Thing
Learn something about God by reading the Bible and share that with someone today.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 2:6; James 1:5
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Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.
John 13:17 NIV
Secret Service
Jan looked around her house and was amazed at how clean it looked. She had been working long hours and with a forty-five minute commute, there hadn't been much time to keep up with housework. Yet her house looked clean and her floors, of all things, were immaculate.
Months later Jan learned that a friend of hers had been secretly mopping her floors while she was away at work. Her friend knew this would release some of Jan's stress and found a way to serve her friend without her knowing it. Stunned, Jan pondered that one would even think of doing such a thing. To help in this way would have never entered her mind.
Do you have a friend in need? Is there a way you can help to meet that need?
Today's One Thing
Ask God to show you what you might be able to do to help a friend today. You will both be blessed.
Going Deeper
John 13:1-17, Matthew 20:28, Luke 22:27
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Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character."
1 Corinthians 15:33 NIV
Friendship Check-Up
Have you ever found yourself in a place you never intended to go? Maybe one thing led to another and before you knew it you were participating in things that had no place in your life. Was it a "friend" who encouraged you to go in that direction?
There is a story in the Bible about a young man who found himself far from home. He hung out with people who were living wildly and he spent all his inheritance. When his money ran out, he took a job feeding pigs. One day he realized the pigs were eating better food than he was, and he decided to make a change.
It is important to evaluate the character of the people you spend time with. Choose friends who are serious about their relationship with God and they will encourage you in that direction. You will find yourself on the road that leads to places you truly want to go.
Today's One Thing
Evaluate who you're spending most of your time with and determine if you need to make a change in order to grow closer in your relationship with God.
Going Deeper
Luke 15:11-24, 1 Peter 5:8-9
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Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not people, because you know that the Lord will reward each one for whatever good they do, whether they are slave or free.
Ephesians 6:7-8 NIV
Do It for Him
Have you noticed it's easy to think that freedom is doing what you want to do—doing what makes you feel good? That's not as satisfying as it may first appear. When "self" is indulged it just usually wants more, and the thirst is never fully quenched. Yet, there is such joy in serving others. This doesn't come naturally; you must rely on God's power through His Holy Spirit to lead you.
Jesus lived the example of giving up His own desires for God's will and His love for people. He served in the ultimate way so that humans can be truly free from the bondage of self-focused indulgence that leads to wanting more and more.
Do you find yourself dissatisfied? Tweak your perspective. Ask God for His help, and discover the reward of freedom in service to others.
Today's One Thing
Choose to do something for another and enjoy God's rewards of focusing on someone else's needs.
Going Deeper
Galatians 5:13-26, 1 Peter 4:10
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Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
Philippians 2:3-4 NIV
Selfless Act of Love
The young lady knew her friend would die if she didn't get a new kidney. She announced to her family that she would donate one of hers so her friend would have a fighting chance at life. They were a match, so the plan was put into place. A few months later they both went through surgery and spent two months recovering.
Other than one's very life, it doesn't get much closer to laying down your life for your friend than to give up an organ that you may someday need. What an incredible act of love.
Maybe you don't need to give up a kidney, but is there some way you can serve someone near you today?
Today's One Thing
Express your love by doing at least one unexpected act of kindness today for someone near you.
Going Deeper
Matthew 7:12, Philippians 2:12-18
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The King will reply, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.'
Matthew 25:40 NIV
Reach Beyond Yourself
Mother Teresa gave her life to serving and loving the poorest of the poor. She chose to be the feet and hands of Christ, reaching out with His love to the unwanted and uncared people of Calcutta. She gave up a more comfortable life to hit the streets and take care of the needs of others.
Is serving others a part of your life? Do you look for ways to meet the needs of those around you? It may not come naturally to you, but there are hurting people all around you. They may look like they have their act together, but if you look a little closer you will see their needs. Is there a small or big way you can show the love of Christ to them?
Today's One Thing
Look for a way to serve someone in need today. Tell them Jesus sent you.
Going Deeper
Matthew 25:34-40, John 12:12-17
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But Jonathan had taken a great liking to David and warned him, "My father Saul is looking for a chance to kill you. Be on your guard tomorrow morning; go into hiding and stay there."
I Samuel 19:1b-2 NIV
Jonathan Friendship
David had a kind of friend that everyone needs. Jonathan, who knew his own father was jealous of David, risked his life for his friend. Jonathan's father, King Saul, was so infuriated that he set out to kill David. Saul had turned his back on God.
Jonathan warned his friend, David, knowing how his confused and angry father might respond. He questioned the king boldly about his behavior, reminding him of David's good works for him. Jonathan stood face to face with wrong behavior and targeted his father's behavior with the truth on David's behalf. He then spoke with honesty and love to his friend, David.
Are you that kind of friend? Do you have a friend who is honest with you and seeks your best interest even when it's not easy?
Today's One Thing
Be a "Jonathan" kind of friend today by speaking honestly and with love, to your friend.
Going Deeper
I Samuel 19:1-7, Proverbs 27:6
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Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
Ecclesiastes 4:9 NIV
You Need Others
Are you an independent spirit? Do you try to function without needing help from others? Have you lost trust in friends who have let you down? The truth is you need good, healthy friendships. God didn't create people to be alone. He made you for relationship with others.
Even the struggle to work out differences is actually a good thing. If you attempt to see your friend's side of things and to learn from each other, that is the essence of the Proverb that talks about iron sharpening iron. God uses friendships to refine you and take you places He wants you to go.
Don't be an island. Choose your friends wisely and work through challenges with patience, and you will grow to appreciate good relationships.
Today's One Thing
Reach out to a friend who challenges you to grow in your relationship with Christ.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 27:17, Proverbs 27:6, Hebrews 10:25
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I can do all this through him who gives me strength.
Philippians 4:13
True Strength
Paul Anderson holds the Guinness world record for the most weight ever lifted by a human being. In 1957, Paul lifted 6,270 pounds with his legs and back. However, he was not always physically strong.
Paul was diagnosed with kidney disease at age five. His parents were told that he couldn't play outside and would likely be weak and frail all his life. Paul's mom put him on a special diet and encouraged him to excel physically all through his childhood and teens. He played football in high school and began experimenting with weight lifting. Paul made bars out of tractor axels and wheels and even used a huge safe on a special leather strap to do squats on a platform in his yard, just to be able to train with enough weight to get stronger.
Paul won the world weightlifting championships and was the first man to ever squat over 700 pounds. He was also the last American to win a gold medal in the super heavyweight division. Then Paul spent the rest of his life doing demonstrations, telling others about Jesus Christ and operating a youth home to help young men live productive lives.
Paul Anderson's feats were amazing, but his true strength came from his Heavenly Father. God promises to empower you with strength when you are weak. So as you face trials this week, ask Him to help you overcome them with His supernatural strength!
Today's One Thing
Say "I can do all this through God who gives me strength" throughout the day.
Going Deeper
Psalm 73:26; Isaiah 40:31
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For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.
Ecclesiastes 12:14
He Rights Wrongs
When Raleigh Washington joined the army, he was quickly promoted from captain to major and then lieutenant colonel. Raleigh was on his way to becoming a general when he was falsely accused of misconduct. Although none of the accusations were proven, Raleigh was given the choice of retirement in lieu of being discharged. He refused to admit he was guilty in order to receive his retirement benefits. Raleigh chose not to become bitter and entered school to become a pastor.
When he graduated, Raleigh met a lawyer named Jeff who learned about his military case. For nine years, Jeff worked to reverse the army's decision. Finally, Raleigh was reinstated for one day so he could retire and receive all the accrued retirement benefits. His record was cleared and every document against him was destroyed.
You may encounter injustice in any place at any time. But God is aware of every injustice and He has His own way of righting wrongs. Even if someone deals with you unfairly, remember God will perfect those things that concern you.
Today's One Thing
Tell God about unfair treatment you have received recently. Then let go and leave it to Him to deal with the one who wronged you.
Going Deeper
Jeremiah 51:56; Jeremiah 17:10
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The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
2 Peter 3:9
Justice and Mercy
God is just. However, He often delays His justice so people can come to know Him. For example, Dr. Cyril E.M. Joad, the former head of the Philosophy Department at the University of London, and some of his colleagues, may have done more to undermine the faith of the collegiate world of recent generations. Dr. Joad taught that God was an impersonal part of the cosmos and that there is no accountability to Him. Yet, God did not strike him dead or give him a crippling disease. Before he died, Dr. Joad became a zealous follower of Jesus Christ. Most likely many of his followers started a relationship with Jesus Christ as a result of his testimony and writings.
Gods delayed justice is an opportunity for Him to show His mercy to many. Follow your Fathers example--examine your motivations in the way you deal with difficult people. Look for opportunities to extend mercy!
Todays One Thing
Thank God for ways that He has shown you mercy by delaying justice.
Going Deeper
Galatians 6:7; Romans 2:1-4
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Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
Matthew 5:16
Reflect God's Glory
Jesse had his first taste of alcohol as a child and became an alcoholic by fourteen. By age thirty-six, Jesse was a drunk and drug user living on the streets. After a tragic train accident and then a suicide attempt, Jesse landed in jail. While he sat in his cell, Jesse reviewed his life. A man named Leon was his cell mate and helped him read the Gospel of John three times. For the first time, Jesse heard the truth of God's Word and trusted Jesus with his life. When he was released, Jesse began a ministry to share his faith with homeless people.
Just as Jesus Christ dramatically transformed Jesse's life, He also can do the same for you. Like Jesse, your life can then reflect God's glory shining through your love, mercy and grace toward others. Imagine what a difference you could make in the lives of your family, friends and coworkers!
Today's One Thing
Make an intentional effort to extend love, mercy and grace to a stranger today.
Going Deeper
Psalm 105:1-4; 1 Peter 2:12
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He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.
Isaiah 40:29
Unlimited Source of Strength
James Hudson Taylor was a pioneer missionary who shared the message of Jesus to the people of inland China. On the outside, Taylor may have appeared as a pillar of strength. But the pressures and demands of growing ministry responsibilities were taking their toll. He felt overwhelmed and frustrated. Taylor struggled and felt powerless against temptation.
Then Taylor received a letter from a fellow missionary, John McCarthy. McCarthy encouraged him to rest in the fact that Jesus loves him. He encouraged Taylor not to strive or struggle to do the right thing but to just trust in God for power and peace. Taylor realized how fruitless and vain his previous exertions were and he took McCarthy's advice.
As a result, the difference in Taylor's life became apparent to everyone around him. Whenever he spoke, a new sense of peace seemed to flow from him. Troubles did not worry Taylor as before. He spent more time in prayer and thanked God for being the source of his strength to handle his pressures and temptations.
God is not only the unlimited source of strength but He will give it to you when you trust in Him.
Today's One Thing
The Bible says, "The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace (Psalm 29:11). Think about that today when you experience stress.
Going Deeper
Psalm 28:7; Ephesians 6:10
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Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1:9
God Always Listens
During NASA's Apollo 13 flight, three astronauts were scheduled to walk on the moon. Just after they blasted off, there was an explosion on their ship. The astronauts aborted their plans to make a moon landing and it appeared they would not have enough engine power and oxygen to return to earth alive. For agonizing hours, they orbited behind the moon, out of reach of radio contact with Mission Control in Houston. All over the country Americans prayed for the safety of the astronauts. The country breathed a sigh of relief when radio contact was reestablished and Apollo 13 successfully landed home.
It's important to remember that God is no less present behind the shadow of the moon then right beside you right now. He hears you, sees you, walks with you and cares for you no matter where you are. Your Creator is not limited by time or space or height or depth. He is always with you whether you are taking giant steps or baby steps of faith.
Today's One Thing
Think about a difficult situation when you were thankful for God's presence.
Going Deeper
Isaiah 65:24
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Am I only a God nearby, declares the Lord, and not a God far away? Who can hide in secret places so that I cannot see them?' declares the Lord. 'Do not I fill heaven and earth?' declares the Lord.
Jeremiah 23:23-24
God is Present
With current technology, you can be physically present in one country while seeing and talking to someone in another part of the world. In a sense, you are "present" through your face on the screen although you are not physically in the same room with the other person.
The Bible says that God is Spirit. He doesn't dwell in three-dimensional space as we do. He is present everywhere in the fullest sense at the same time. God is no less present in one portion of the world than any other. There is not a sliver of space anywhere in the universe where He is not powerfully present with all of His wonderful attributes. Most of all, no matter where you are and what you are doing right now, God is present with you.
Today's One Thing
Thank God that wherever you go today, He is right there with you.
Going Deeper
Psalm 139:1-10
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He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.
Isaiah 40:29
No Favorites
Special interest groups often seek preferential treatment because of their cause or agenda. Many people around the world suffer because of treatment given to others based on their ethnic preference, gender bias, religious prejudice or socioeconomic class discrimination. Others live in fear if they do not give preferential worship to the gods of money, sports or beauty. Too many young people have been led into a life of misery because they believed others would accept them if they joined a special clique or group.
In today's society where bribes, corruption and preferential treatment prevail, the Bible says that God does not show favoritism. Only He is able to help us rise above our sinful preferences to become impartial in our dealings with others.
Ask the Lord to help you exhibit more of His impartial views in your attitudes and actions with friends, family and co-workers. When you emulate God's perspective about equality, you will experience greater freedom.
Today's One Thing
Ask God to free you from prejudice as you intentionally show kindness to a stranger today.
Going Deeper
Romans 2:5-11
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Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted.
Isaiah 53:4 NIV
Beautiful Scars
Looking at the almost stitch-like marks on her own forearms was eerie for Jessica. The lines of past pain reminded her of the emotional pit that had encouraged her cutting habit. As a younger woman, she struggled with the loneliness, self-doubt, and societal pressures of the world, and in her darkness, she shut down her feelings, trying to hide from the deadly roller coaster of depression. Jessica described her cutting as "the only way to feel," after deadening herself to all emotion.
Looking back, she remarks, "I settled for pain because I thought joy was impossible, but I finally realized God is in control of both."
You may have struggled similarly. Perhaps your scars are only on the inside. But no matter what marks you bear from this broken world, Jesus has already healed your scars with His, and He has already borne the greater suffering.
Today's One Thing
In your lost and forgotten times, remember that Christ brought hope into your life for exactly this moment.
Going Deeper
Isa 53; John 5:12-26
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But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repay their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God.
I Timothy 5:4
God's Plan for the Next Generation
your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you." God's definition of honor includes the care and protection of the elderly, as well as the young. Older adults have had experiences that often produce wisdom, allowing God to use the elderly to teach the young.
The story of Ruth and Naomi illustrates God's desire and intent for his people. Naomi was left a widow in a foreign country. Too old to remarry, she decided to go back to Judah and live the remainder of her life among relatives. Ruth, one of her two daughter's-in-law – both widows themselves – chose to go with her and care for her. Why? Because of her love for and devotion to Naomi, her mother. Honoring Naomi by following her guidance, Ruth marries Boaz, Naomi's wealthy relative, assuring Naomi's care, protection and provision.
Caring for the elderly is God's plan for future generations. The wisdom they offer is essential to guiding the young through the difficulties of life. They are God's faithful teachers.
Today's One Thing
Honor and care for all the elderly in your life and let them know they are loved and have a purpose!
Going Deeper
Proverbs 23:22, Ruth 1-4
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He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, "Quiet! Be still!" Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.
Mark 4:39 NIV
Peace Amidst Chaos
Go to your cupboard and get a glass. Pour it full of water, place it on a flat surface, and stare at it for a minute. What happens?
The water settles, the bubbles float, then pop, and then... Nothing, right?
But if you were to look at that glass through an electron microscope, you would see the most random chaos of molecules shooting around so fast there would be little sense to it. Microscopic physics are at work everywhere, and though all seems peaceful, so much more is happening undetected by the five senses; from invisible chaos comes visible order.
Sometimes, that's how God works in our lives, especially through relationships. Today may deliver stress from your closest friends and family, or a complete stranger. But keep in mind the Lord moves powerfully through the presence of other people in your life. There is stillness despite the clutter, and perspective despite the anguish. Those moments are precious.
Today's One Thing
In today's chaos, take time to be still and seek the peace of God during trying times—especially in your relationships.
Going Deeper
Romans 2:5-11
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But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repay their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God.
I Timothy 5:4
God's Plan for the Next Generation
God has a heart for the elderly. In Exodus 20:12, God commanded the children of Israel to "Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you." God's definition of honor includes the care and protection of the elderly, as well as the young. Older adults have had experiences that often produce wisdom, allowing God to use the elderly to teach the young.
The story of Ruth and Naomi illustrates God's desire and intent for His people. Naomi was left a widow in a foreign country. Too old to remarry, she decided to go back to Judah and live the remainder of her life among relatives. Ruth, one of her two daughter's-in-law – both widows themselves – chose to go with her and care for her. Why? Because of her love for and devotion to Naomi, her mother. Honoring Naomi by following her guidance, Ruth married Boaz, Naomi's wealthy relative, assuring Naomi's care, protection and provision.
Caring for the elderly is God's plan for future generations. The wisdom they offer is essential to guiding the young through the difficulties of life. They are God's faithful teachers.
Today's One Thing
Demonstrate honor and care for the elderly in your life and let them know they are loved and have a purpose!
Going Deeper
Proverbs 23:22, Ruth 1-4
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And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.
2 Corinthians 3:18
A Reflection of Him
When you look in a mirror, who do you see?
After stressing out over her body while trying on wedding dresses, Kjerstin Gruys, now 30, decided to give up looking at her reflection for a year.
Kjerstin said, "I covered all the mirrors in our house and I learned a simple makeup routine, sans mirror. When the day of my wedding arrived, in October 2011, I was still going back and forth about looking at myself in the mirror. But I ended up putting my trust in others. When I turned to my group of family and friends after I was all dolled up and asked "How do I look?" their reactions reaffirmed my decision. I felt so great that I didn't think seeing my reflection would make me look or feel any better than I already did."
God is not concerned with your physical appearance but with how you are a reflection of Him to others. Your Heavenly Father wants you to be a mirror that accurately reflects His glory. So the more you know God, the more you display His characteristics of love, joy, peace and patience. As a result, you demonstrate a clear picture of who Jesus Christ is to those you interact with each day.
So the next time you look in the mirror, ask yourself "whose" reflection you see!
Today's One Thing
Ask God to reflect Jesus through your actions today.
Going Deeper
Romans 4:18-20; Philippians 3:20-21
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From Him and through Him and for Him are all things. To Him be the glory forever! Amen.
Romans 11:36 NIV
"For Real" Love
Merriam Webster's number two definition of love is "attraction based on sexual desire; affection and tenderness felt by lovers." Convenient, but shallow. We could accuse Merriam Webster of perpetuating the false advertising that leads so many to confuse true love with trivial things.
John Mayer, on his "Where the Light Is" live album, attempted to explain his idea: "...I don't mean like Hollywood Roman candle hot pink love... I mean I got your back love." That's not far from the truth. Real love is divine, unconditional, self-sacrificing, active and thoughtful. But even that sounds, at very least, difficult.
Loving like that is not easy. But since we're not divine ourselves, shouldn't we seek the ability for divine, thoughtful, unconditional, self-sacrificing love from the one who created it? After all, from Him and through Him and by Him are all things. But the greatest is love.
Today's One Thing
Don't try to achieve perfect love. Instead, remember the Love God showed you, and share it with others.
Going Deeper
Matthew 28; 1 Corinthians 13
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But you, Lord, are a shield around me, my glory, the One who lifts my head high.
Psalm 3:3 NIV
A Good Place to Start
Hugely popular star of BBC's 2005 reboot of Doctor Who, David Tennant, is quoted in a 2011 interview: "I'm a good person, I hope. But I'm never as good as I want to be, never as nice as I want to be, never as generous as I want to be."
For all the love lavished upon celebrities by their fans, it seems the puzzle is missing a piece. Fame can make you happy until you realize it won't meet the need to feel genuinely love and respected. It's true that in the midst of appreciation and admiration, real love and respect can get twisted.
People have a longing to be "the most" something. The most kind, the most generous, gentle, stable... the most loving, or respectful. While trying to be the best, it's important not to forget the ONE Who is best at it all, gives you the ability to succeed.
Today's One Thing
Live today with the knowledge that God is the source of your everything, and the only way to making a lasting difference.
Going Deeper
Hebrews 9:11-28; Psalm 3-4
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"What should we do then?" the crowd asked. John answered, "Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same."
Luke 3:10-11
What Will You Share?
From the time you were a toddler, you were probably taught to share. Even after we become adults, there are time when sharing is difficult or doesn't seem fair. It goes against human nature to give what you perceive belongs to you.
The truth is all we have has been given to us from God. So it stands to reason that all we have is His in the first place. From every breath you take to every dollar you spend—it all comes from His hand. It's His grace and mercy that provides everything that you want or need. You are a steward of all that He has given you.
When you begin to see yourself no longer as the owner of your life but the caretaker of it, it paints a different perspective. God owns everything and is the source of all you have. When you give what you have away—God is the one who can bring you more. When you become willing to share what you have with others, it opens you up to receive His blessings in abundance.
Today's One Thing
Who has the Lord placed in your life recently and what would He have you share with them?
Going Deeper
Matthew 5:3-12; John 3:1-20
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...The gate of the inner court facing east is to be shut on the six working days, but on the Sabbath...it is to be opened.
Ezekiel 46:1
The Rhythm of Relationship
Get up. Go to work. Work hard. Give your best. Clock out. Go home. Eat dinner. Put the kids to bed. Free time (what's left). Go to bed.
No conversation, no connection, no relationship. Brutal. Dangerous.
Think back to the beginning of the universe. God spent six days creating the world, and then He... rested. Does God need to rest? No. He's God, completely self-sufficient. But he chose to rest, and enjoy His creation. He desires to enjoy His relationship with you. Likewise, He instructs you to respect the Sabbath as a day of remembering His relationship with you.
So in respecting God, also respect the connection with your spouse, and prioritize it. Today's new rhythm: Get up. Connect. Grow. Live. Love. Experience Hope.
Today's One Thing
Today, take 60 minutes to pursue healthy relationships, both with God and others.
Going Deeper
Colossians 3; 1 John 4:7-21
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Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Build Each Other Up
Janet was always at work early. She tried to be an encouragement to the women she worked with. She decided to open the board room early for a prayer time. She knew that some of the people she worked with were Christians and with the recent budget cuts and layoffs she felt discouraged and experiencing loss because of the friends who were forced to leave the organization.
She wasn't sure if people would join her, but she was committed. She sat down at the table and opened her Bible. A few minutes passed and no one came to join her. She turned the pages of her Bible and silently prayed, Lord, if it's just you and me here I believe our time together will make a difference in the atmosphere of my work day.
Just a few minutes later, one by one, five of her coworkers quietly joined her. She smiled as they took their seats around the table. She began by reading Jesus words in Matthew 18:19, Again, I assure you: If two of you on earth agree about any matter that you pray for, it will be done for you by My Father in heaven.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING has the Lord put into your heart to do that will encourage others? Will you do it today?
Going Deeper
1 Thessalonians 5:1-11; Matthew 18:15-19
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Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
Deuteronomy 11:18-19 NIV
A Parent's Highest Call
At some point we must acknowledge that when it comes to raising our children, we're forced to rely solely on good counsel, inner wisdom and our own instincts. Although the advice and examples of others can aid and comfort us, we can't depend on someone else to tell us what to do in every situation – primarily because there's no guarantee that our child will respond exactly like another.
So what's a parent to do? Where do we go for insight and understanding? Psalm 111:10 tells us the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Effective parenting starts with respect for God. In parenting we must be prepared to defer our desires and wishes for our child to God's. We also must be prepared to help our child view life through this prism, too.
Because every child is an individual and unique creation, God has a plan and a purpose for each of us that is both the same yet different from any other created beings. Helping your child discover and conform to God's vision for him or her is the highest and most sacred calling of parenting.
Today's One Thing
Spend some time today asking God about His plans for your child. Pray about how He wants you to lead and guide your child according to His purpose.
Going Deeper
Deuteronomy 11; Proverbs 3:1-4
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Do to others as you would have them do to you.
Luke 6:31
Bigger Than Yourself
Serving God compels you to become passionate about something bigger than yourself. It is a position of the heart in which you willingly say: "God, I am at your service."
When you walk with God, you see Him everywhere—in the changing colors of autumn, in the sparkle of a baby's eye. You hear His voice telling you how to parent or help a friend. Life is bigger than yourself.
God wants you to find ways to serve him within your means. If you've experienced success in your job, share it with others. If you're good with your hands, volunteer with a local non-profit.
Getting involved at church is another way to "Do to others." When you go to church and serve God, you gather with like-minded believers. The power of group thinking and positive reinforcement open a world of opportunity. And it makes the Lord smile.
Today's One Thing
Talk to women and the pastor at your church about creating a service group for church members, with the goal of helping congregation members in need.
Going Deeper
Mark 12:31, Romans 12:9
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The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching.
1 Timothy 5:17 NIV
The Right Influence
Ed and Paula were a blended family. When they were first married and the kids were still teenagers, Ed found every excuse possible to skip church. He owned his own body repair shop and used "work he really needed to do" as his opportunity to skip church.
A few years into the marriage, Ed began to see a change in his family. Something was different and it had something to do with the church. The kids were becoming more involved and leaving early for youth services in order to take other friends with them to church. Paula had stopped asking him to come with her to service and seemed more upbeat and excited about the many new things the church had to offer.
Ed became even more curious when the new Senior Pastor made a special trip out to his shop one afternoon. The man was warm, open, and comical. Ed thought, He's not like any of the pastors I've been around in the past. So he asked, "Why the visit today, Pastor?" The pastor smiled, "Well, I wanted to see what was so exciting out here that you'd rather be here than with us on Sunday mornings."
Ed was taken back with the pastor's bluntness. Even though Ed didn't respond with a visit to the church right away, the pastor's visits increased. His father had been a mechanic and so they found common ground. Eventually they became good friends and one morning, Ed surprised Paula by getting dressed for church and taking his family to service. He didn't miss a Sunday after that.
The Apostle Paul often wrote letters expressing his thankfulness to those who spoke into his life and prayed for him. How has your pastor made an investment in your life? Have you told him about how his example, messages, teaching or influence means to you?
Today's One Thing
Take time this week to email, text, call or visit your pastor. Tell him specifically what his commitment as a pastor has meant to you.
Going Deeper
1 Thessalonians 1:1-10; Hebrews 5:1-3
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And he said: "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven."
Matthew 18:3 NIV
Lessons from the Little Ones
One Sunday morning at church, Dena took her four-year-old to his Sunday school class. Her son, Jase, was the only regular attender that was a boy; normally the room was full of little girls. This particular morning a new little boy was there and he was a little different—he didn't have any hands.
Dena stood back and watched as Jase hung his coat on his hook and then walked directly to the table where the new little boy stood and introduced himself. She was actually a little nervous about how he might respond to the child.
Interestingly, he looked at the little boy and said, "I'm Jase! Who are you?" The other child said his name was Michael. Dena gasped when Jase blurted out, "You don't have any hands so what can you do?" The little boy was not upset with Jase's words but proceeded to show Jase how he used the end of his arms to move things around. He pulled out Jase's chair and his and they both sat down. Jase pulled a toy car out of his pocket and showed it to Michael.
Dena let out her breath and realized that another mom she didn't know was standing behind her. She introduced herself to Michael's mother, who replied to her, "We're new in town and it looks like Michael has his first friend."
In the eyes of God, we are all His children. We are all unique with different gifts, abilities and challenges. It's important to see one another from the perspective of what we can do—and not what we can't do—as we grow together in our faith.
Today's One Thing
What are some things you admire in someone else that perhaps you can't do? Share that admiration with them today.
Going Deeper
Mark 10:13-16; Matthew 18:1-9
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Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.
1 Corinthians 11:1 NIV
Point Others to Christ
Dex, who owned a local auto body repair shop, had been known to drink too much, cuss and tell inappropriate jokes. Instead of attending church with his wife and children—he hung out each Sunday morning at his small community donut shop drinking coffee and exaggerating about his own great adventures when he was younger.
Days before his daughter gave birth to his first grandson, he began to ask his daughter questions about God and faith. The next Sunday morning Dex was missing from his place in line at the donut shop. He had found his place next to his family in church. At the close of the service he went forward and asked Jesus to change his heart and life. He became a member of the church and went with his family to church—not just Sundays but Wednesday nights too.
His buddies noticed a difference over the next few months. Dex's cleaned up his language and stopped telling inappropriate jokes. He even did his best not to add to his stories. One by one his friends came to him and asked, "What changed." To which Dex replied, "I want to set the right example for my grandson. I want to follow Christ so that if he follows in my footsteps I'll know I've helped point him to God.
None of us get where we're going alone. Just as you probably heard someone else's story or had the opportunity to walk alongside mentors God has brought into your life, make sure that you give back with an example for others to follow.
Today's One Thing
Is there someone the Lord has put on your heart to help grow in faith. Ask the Lord to show you how you can make yourself available to them as a friend, coach and mentor.
Going Deeper
1 Timothy 41-16; Romans 13:11-14
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When hard pressed, I cried to the Lord; he brought me into a spacious place. The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? The Lord is with me; he is my helper. I look in triumph on my enemies.
Psalm 118:5-7 NIV
What's your story?
Pastor Allen sat across the table from Shane and Tiffany. Newlyweds, they were having some challenges with extended family relationships and their finances. They came to their pastor for some help.
"I believe my faith grows with each obstacle I face," the pastor said. And after 30 years of marriage, raising three children and going through all the ups and downs life can bring—I have a lot of examples of God bringing me through." Shane and Tiffany listened more closely. Each time a new challenge to my faith taunts me to doubt God and his faithfulness, I bring up a story of a time God was there for me," he continued. It assures me He will help me make it through whatever crisis stands in my way today.
Shane and Tiffany were encouraged as he went on to share several stories that were specific to their two faith challenges. He demonstrated how God did amazing and very miraculous things in his life. He assured them that it wasn't because he was a pastor, because God would be faithful to get them through just as well.
Do you have stories of God's faithfulness you can share with your friends and family? You may be amazed just how much your own story will inspire and encourage others in their faith as you are willing to share!
Today's One Thing
Build your faith by remembering the times God has been faithful in your life. Take those stories and as transparently as you can, share your experiences with others.
Going Deeper
Psalm 118:1-18; 1 John 1:1-10
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Within your temple, O God, we meditate on your unfailing love.
Psalm 48:9 NIV
Sharing Faith and Family
Alexis was really nervous. She had invited her girlfriend, Mariah, for a Friday night sleepover and because she wasn't a Christian, like Alexis' family was—she was a little unsure how her friend would respond to her family's choices.
When her mom called the family together, Mariah smiled and exclaimed, "You guys actually sit down at the table. "Yeah, Alexis said as she set out the plates and silverware. "We pass the food and everything."
Wanting to be included, Alexis' little brother blurted out, "We hold hands and pray and everything." Alexis offered a weak smile, but Mariah seemed excited. Once the family was seated, Alexis dad asked each person around the table to share a little about their day—good things and also challenging ones. Mariah couldn't wait to tell about her grade of 100% on her spelling test.
The family held hands and bowed their heads as Mom offered thanks to God. As soon as they raised their heads, Mariah blurted out, "I wish my family sat down together, talked—and maybe even prayed."
Prayer builds the sense of spiritual community in your home, the realization that you are one as a family and that you serve the same God. Praying together connects you, helps you share one another's burdens and gives you opportunity to celebrate victories. Nothing is more intimate than praying with those you love—and when you do that as a family, it's powerful.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING can you do to encourage your children to share their faith with friends?
Going Deeper
Matthew 28:16-20; Philippians 2:12-13
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Come, follow me,' Jesus said, 'and I will send you out to fish for people.'
Mark 1:17 NIV
Jobs or Jesus
The word vocation comes from a Latin word meaning "to call." So it's not a stretch to think of our skill set, trade or employment as a "calling." But sometimes your workplace can become a compartment of your life you don't associate with the true calling God has placed in your life.
Jesus calls Peter and John from their fishing boats, quite literally from their livelihood, to follow Him. God calls you to prioritize Him over your work, whether you're a janitor or a CEO. It's not about what you do. It's about who you're doing it for.
God's not calling everyone to quit their jobs and become monks in a monastery; there were many that Jesus didn't call to leave their jobs or professions. In fact, your "calling" is where God wants you to be so you can have the relationships in which He desires to express His love and grace.
Today's One Thing
Keep an eye out for someone in your office who God may be calling you to love.
Going Deeper
Psa 40; Isa 40:15-31
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Slaves, in reverent fear of God submit yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh.
1 Peter 2:18 NIV
Imperfect Authority
It never fails. The boss says, "Do this," and it's utterly obvious that what they want is the wrong thing to do. Your parents' rules are clearly irrelevant and out-of-date. Your HOA is way too strict about the weeds in your front yard.
Mismanagement is nothing new. It's also unavoidable; every human boss is fallible.
Submission to imperfect authority is one of the best ways to accept God's sovereign rule over your life in a broken world. Rebelling against leaders who are just as sinful and broken is to deny God a powerful way to humble you and give you opportunities to show mercy and grace. In short, it denies you an easy chance to love others as Christ loves you.
Today's One Thing
Remember to show respect for your boss, frustrating as it sometimes is, so God can work both in your heart and theirs.
Going Deeper
Titus 2; Eph 6:1-9
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Rejoice Always, pray continually...
1 Thessalonians 5:16-17 NIV
Oh, I Need Thee
I need Thee Every Hour, written by Annie Sherwood Hawks, contains a powerful dependence on God.
I need Thee, oh, I need Thee;
Every hour I need Thee;
Oh, bless me now, my Savior,
I come to Thee.
I need Thee every hour, stay Thou nearby;
Temptations lose their pow'r when Thou art nigh.
I need Thee every hour, in joy or pain;
Come quickly and abide, or life is vain.
When asked about the words in the song, she said, "It was not until many years after [I composed the words] when the shadow of a great loss fell over my life that I understood something of the comforting in the words I have been permitted to write."
Sometimes we cannot know the true comfort of God until there is nothing left but just that. Annie's story should remind you how staying focused on the provision of God can be important in your worst times of trouble. Needing Him "every hour" is knowledge you should never abandon, no matter what your circumstances.
Today's One Thing
Choose to make God first in your life, by spending your best energy on time with Him.
Going Deeper
Lam 3: 22-33; Psalm 88
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Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but [forgive] seventy-seven times."
Matthew 18:22 NIV
Seventy Times Seven
Jesus told a story about a master betrayed by his debtor's irresponsibility; forgiven his debt, he then refused to forgive the debt owed to him by another. Do you wonder what it was like for him to have such an incredible loss on his hands, and to cease to demand what he was owed? And then to watch his forgivee be unforgiving...?
Sometimes it's like you reach that moment when you're just done. That moment when your emotional debt is so far past due by your loved one that you reach your extensions on credit? Maybe you've kept forgiving so much but feel unforgiven yourself, in spite of all your letting them off the hook.
At that moment you are faced with the decision to be like the first man or the second.
At that moment, when you've forgiven 490 times, and you're staring down number 491, remind yourself of what God has forgiven you. 490 forgivenesses is nothing compared to what God could keep records of if He chose. Draw strength for your mercy from His.
Today's One Thing: Today, spend your quiet time asking God to soften your heart, so you can forgive others even in the face of the four-hundredth ninety-first time.
Today's One Thing
Today, spend your quiet time asking God to soften your heart, so you can forgive others even in the face of the four-hundredth ninety-first time.
Going Deeper
Matt 18:21-35; Psalm 130
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Now therefore, let the fear of the Lord be upon you; take care and do it, for there is no iniquity with the Lord our God, no partiality, nor taking of bribes.
2 Chronicles 19:7 NIV
Your Impartial God
The Supreme Court, which is the highest court in our country, consists of a chief justice and eight associate justices who are nominated by the president and confirmed by the United States Senate. The justices are publicly known as conservative, moderate or liberal.
Each Supreme Court justice has one vote. While many cases are decided unanimously, some of the highest profile cases often expose each justice's particular ideological beliefs. If we should expect justice anywhere, it should be when a case comes before these esteemed justices. Yet, they are just human. When the gavel strikes the bench, it is impossible for them to be impartial in every case.
God's justice is based on His holiness, truthfulness and righteousness. There is one Bible that He uses to impartially judge and reward all people. There are no secret agendas for certain people.
Approach God with your every plea and concern. He sees them as equally important. Trust God, who loves you unconditionally, to judge and reward according to His impartial objectivity.
Today's One Thing
Ask God to help you make impartial and fair decisions regarding other people today.
Going Deeper
Acts 10:34-35
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Jesus gave them this answer: "Very truly I tell you, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does."
John 5:19 NIV
They're Watching You
As a fellow believer, your job is to share Christ with others—believers and nonbelievers alike. People are trying to find their purpose in life. No matter what your job is, God wants to use you in His ministry—and His ministry is people.
How do you leverage your talents for the Kingdom of God? Well, whatever God has called you to do—wherever He's placed you to do it—use it to His glory. People need to connect with other people and hear the Truth in a loving way. You share the Good News through your actions. Believers and nonbelievers are watching you. What you say and what you do every day really matters.
Jesus' thoughts were always on others—even as he was about to be arrested. In John 17 he turned to the cross and did three things: 1) prayed for himself, 2) prayed for his disciples, 3) prayed for all believers including you and me.
Do your actions add to people's lives? Do you offer affirmation, inspiration and hope? Are you equipping them from the overflow of joy that comes from knowing Christ?
Today's One Thing
One thing you can do today—strive to live intentionally for Christ by being aware that what you say and do really does matter.
Going Deeper
John 5:16-30; 1 Peter 2:11-25
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For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want.
Galatians 5:17 NIV
Leading Your Children as You Follow Him
Have you ever watched a small child follow? Imagine those little feet walking closely behind a parent—even placing their little feet directly into the footprints of the one they are following. They often mimic the actions, repeat the words, and follow specifically each thing that parent does.
An intentional Christian is a Christ-follower who actually follows. As followers of Jesus Christ, it's easy to be very unintentional in our submission to Him. We make excuses and justify our actions when we want to go our own way.
Now, there is nothing today that's keeping us from being a true follower of Jesus. It's a decision you have made. The Bible tells us that none of us just naturally seek to be a follower of Christ. It's because of God's wooing that draws us and we find ourselves in a position that we want to accept Him and make Him a part of our lives.
When your children are small, they will follow where you lead. As they grow they want to discover their own way. The example you consistently provide them with as you follow Christ, will show them the way each day.
Today's One Thing
Make an intentional decision to lead your children by example. You can mark their destination by demonstrating the direction they should grow in Him today?
Going Deeper
Galatians 5:13-25; Leviticus 19
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All your sons will be taught by the LORD, and great will be your children's peace.
Isaiah 54:3 NIV
A Place to Belong
Every person wants to matter, to contribute and to belong. Ernest Hemingway's short story, "The Capital of the World" is about a father and his teenage son. The son had disobeyed and disappointed his father and then ran away from home. The father searched the country for him, but could not find him. Finally, the father placed an ad in the daily newspaper. The ad read: "PACO - MEET AT HOTEL MONTANA NOON TUESDAY. ALL IS FORGIVEN, PAPA."
When the father reached the hotel in hopes of finding his son, police officers were trying to contain the crows of eight hundred young men named Paco came to receive the forgiveness and love they craved.
Children persistently try to be a part of something significant. An intentional parent knows their child has those specific needs and strives to meet those needs by finding ways to affirm them each day.
Today's One Thing
Give the gift of approval to your children and look for ways to demonstrate you believe in them each day.
Going Deeper
Romans 7:3-5; Romans 12:4-6
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We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God.
2 Corinthians 5:20 NIV
Memories for a Lifetime
Shane's parents were getting older and life had been so busy there had been few opportunities to spend time with them. Shane's wife, Melinda found an amazing deal for flights to Florida while planning their vacation six months in advance.
Melinda's mother-in-law's words continued to come up in her heart—"If you ever go to Florida again, we'd love to go with you." She felt like she had a good relationship with her husband's parents, but there were times she could get frustrated with them—especially when she spent a week or more with them.
One morning she made an intentional decision to include in-laws on this vacation. She approached Shane and encouraged him to call and invite them. She reminded him, "Honey, we need to make memories with them. They're getting older and we don't really know how much time we have left with them. Shane picked up the phone and his parents were thrilled to join them for the trip.
The inescapable truth is that in-laws are family and if you're not careful, you'll unwittingly make them feel like outlaws, and risk depriving yourselves and your children of a vital and needed family relationship.
Today's One Thing
Take time today to invest in the lives of your in-laws. Perhaps start with asking them to share special family memories from your spouse's childhood. Just spending time with them and really listening can make a difference in your relationship.
Going Deeper
2 Corinthians 5:11-21; 1 Corinthians 13:1-13
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For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children...
1 Thessalonians 2:11 NIV
What Are You Waving Off?
Travis wrote spiritually encouraging articles for a living. He was so good at it, and he poured more and more of his time and energy into writing them. Overly absorbed in encouraging, exhorting, and comforting thousands of people through the words he carefully crafted, his family watched as he slowly slipped away from them, too distracted by work.
One night Travis's 4-year-old daughter walked up to him while he typed furiously away on his laptop, and asked, "Daddy, will you put your computer away and blow me some kisses?"
He was immediately ashamed that his daughter would even have to ask, and realized, ironically, that his time was being spent encouraging others to do exactly what he was supposed to be doing, but wasn't.
For the next several minutes, Travis spent beautiful moments in his daughter's presence, soaking up the time she wanted to spend with her father. When she was done she said, "OK, Daddy, you can go back to helping people now."
As tears filled his eyes, he told her, "I'm going to tell them about how I love your kisses."
Today's One Thing
Take 15 minutes today to make sure your calling doesn't get in the way of people you should be loving.
Going Deeper
Matt. 19:13-30; 1 Cor. 13
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Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.
Matthew 5:42 NIV
Giving to Something that Will Outlast You
Finding a place of service can be challenging. You want to find a place where you are comfortable and where there is a need. As followers of Christ, we have allowed the culture of the world to take our minds off of the way we should respond to life according to God's direction. When all we do is sit down and watch TV day after day, we lose in life.
1 John 3:16-18 says, This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth (NIV).
Consider spending your time for something that will outlast you. There are so many needs and so many places to serve. Those who have an attitude of service add years to their lives. Service is beneficial to you and also in the lives of others. Take what you have—time, talent, a listening ear—and share with others.
Today's One Thing
Choose to make a difference in someone's life today even if it only takes a few minutes. Ask the Lord where you can serve. See how it changes you!
Going Deeper
John 3:16-21; 1 John 3:11-24
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Even a child is known by his actions, by whether his conduct is pure and right.
Proverbs 20:11 NIV
Growing Your Child Up in Wisdom, Stature and Favor
If you are a parent, God wants you to be the best parent you can be. Parenting isn't easy, and it takes commitment to help your child reach his or her full potential. Most of us need help as parents. We get a glimpse of what a life lived according to God's vision looks like through the person of Jesus. And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men (Luke 2:52).
Long before He was identified as the Savior of the world, everyone who knew Him held Jesus in high esteem. The Scriptures don't give us many details about Jesus' lifestyle as a youngster, but we know that good reputations are not bestowed by chance or coincidence, but earned.
Most of us think of stature as meaning physical height. But stature also refers to esteem. From boyhood on Jesus undoubtedly practiced a righteousness that was plain for all to see and commanded respect.
The Bible is a vivid testimony of the life of Jesus that you can share with your child. God wants all His children – both young and old – to steadily grow in knowledge of Jesus until we begin to resemble Him in our thoughts, words and actions. One of the best places to start your journey toward the intentional life in Christ is to pursue lifelong habits of Bible study and prayer.
Today's One Thing
Take some time to sit down with your child and God's Word to demonstrate how you spend time with God in prayer and the study His Word today.
Going Deeper
Psalm 119:9-16; Luke 2:41-52
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Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law. Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
Romans 13:8,10 NIV
Intentionally Loving Our Veterans
Regina sat at her gate in the airport waiting for her next flight. Her book that she'd brought to read wasn't all that exciting and she didn't want to drag her laptop out since they'd be boarding shortly. She scanned the crowd. She really enjoyed watching people. Her eyes fell on a very young man in military uniform. He can't be much more than 18 years old, she thought. Wow! He's probably leaving home for the very first time.
She gathered her things so she could make a quick dash to the ladies room before getting on her flight. She suddenly found herself seated next to the young man. "I'm sorry to impose," she began, "but I couldn't help myself, seeing you in uniform...." She noticed his slight smile. It means a lot to me and my family. My brother-in-law is in the service and I don't take your sacrifice for granted. I wanted to just take a second and thank you for your service."
The young man looked very serious. "Mam," he said, in a very southern draw, "thank you for the opportunity I have to serve." He reached out and shook Regina's hand. She was speechless at his words. She choked back tears as she nodded and whispered, "I'll pray for you!" He leaned over to her as he got in line for his own flight and said, "I'd appreciate that—please do!"
Today's One Thing
Look for opportunities today to offer your love and support to those who have served our country and have given with great sacrifice for your freedom.
Going Deeper
Romans 13:8-14; 1 John 3:1-10
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This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.
1 John 3:16
Because He Loves
John, the disciple Jesus loved, says that God's great love for us compelled Him to sacrifice His only Son, which provided the one and only way to salvation through Jesus Christ, but, this is not the end of the story.
If you compare John 3:16-18 to 1 John 3:16-18 you will discover the why—why did God do it. In this parallel of scripture we are instructed to lay our lives down for others. We're encouraged to die to self for someone else and follow Jesus' example.
An intentional life in Christ requires that we figure out what will please Christ and then do it. We can't experience an intentional life in Christ if we don't know what the Bible teaches. So, in this particular example, we love others because we're loving them for Him. We're choosing to love them to please Him and follow His example.
God desires for us to show His love by sharing what we have with others. Good words and a great speech is not enough. It's taking what you know; caring about others enough to take action and do something that demonstrates God's love to them.
Are you willing to bring Him pleasure by living the life He created you for? That's living the intentional life! That's doing what matters most for the love of God.
Today's One Thing
Establish one Godly goal—find out what the Bible says about the thing you're wrestling with—or what He wants you to do for someone else—and then take action by doing that next right one thing today!
Going Deeper
John 3:1-21; 1 John 3:11-24
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Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms.
1 Peter 4:10 NIV
What Can You Do for Someone Else?
Claire's day had been full, and she was a little drained. She was relieved to finally finish her last meeting of the day as she turned her car toward Alexandra's house. She had promised to stop by after her meetings and visit her young friend who was home alone with her six week old daughter.
She waited patiently as Alexandra came to unlock the door and let her in with the baby in her arms. One look at her young friend and she knew it had been a tough day. "You okay," she asked. Alexandra smiled as the tears welled up in her eyes.
"I've tried everything—feeding her, changing her, putting music on. The swing doesn't even seem to soothe her anymore. Claire reached for the baby and her pacifier while giving direction, "I'll take care of the baby; you go take a hot shower!"
"But you came to visit," Alexandra protested. "I'm here for whatever you need! And you need a shower," Claire insisted. "Now go..." Thirty minutes later Alexandra emerged like a new woman. "Ahh! I needed that, she said, as she took the fussy infant to feed her. "I feel like a new woman—and my husband will appreciate that I was able to take a shower!"
When it comes to serving others, it doesn't have to be something long, drawn out and extravagant. It can be as simple as picking up a loaf of bread for a neighbor at the grocery store, stopping to get your friend's mail or pacifying a baby while mom takes a shower.
Today's One Thing
Take a few moments today to see what those around you might have need of. Then meet the need for them as an act of service unto the Lord.
Going Deeper
1 Peter 4:1-11; John 13:1-17
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Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a ruling rightly given.
Proverbs 25:11 NIV
Words—Pieces of Your Heart
Frank Outlaw, the late president of the Bi-Lo Stores, a successful supermarket chain said, "Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character; watch your character for it becomes your destiny."
The wrong word spoken at the wrong time to the wrong person may destroy a relationship, or separate a family or sink a career. Just as the right word being spoken at the right time can certainly change a life and bring positive results. A word is a piece of your heart given to another person, without ever being able to take it back. A word spoken is gone forever to places that we may never go, but those words linger and last.
The psalmist, David, who God called "a man after my own heart" prayed: "May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer (Psalm 19:14 NIV). Perhaps his words today will also be your prayer.
Today's One Thing
What "One Thing" will you do today to be intentional with your Words.
Going Deeper
Psalm 19; Proverbs 18:20-21
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Remind the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone.
Titus 3:1-2 NIV
How You Set the Temperature in Your Marriage
No matter how hard you try, the message you send to your spouse is often not received as intended. How many times have you communicated to your spouse something that was misunderstood? Misunderstandings happen because of the way humans communicate. The receiver determines what the message is; not the sender.
What is it in your communications that makes your spouse feel accepted and understood? What makes you feel most defensive in your spouse's communication to you? Perhaps it's not the words they say that makes you feel loved, encouraged and accepted, but their facial expression and body language.
It's important to consider all those things and be aware of how you set the temperature in your communication. When temperatures are running high, reset the thermostat. Relax your body language and open your heart up to understand. Speak back to your spouse to be sure that you understand.
Taking the time with your communication can multiply an intentional decision that will make a huge impact.
Today's One Thing
Check the temperature of your communications today. Do you need to turn down the thermostat or make adjustments in the way you communicate to your spouse?
Going Deeper
Titus 3:1-9; Matthew 12:36-37
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Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart.
1 Peter 1:22 NIV
Setting Realistic Expectations
God designed your marriage as a shining example of His love. One of the biggest challenges facing marriages today is unmet expectations. Unrealistic expectations can rob you of the relationship He wants you to have. You can alleviate unrealistic expectations that might plague your marriage by expressing your feelings and emotions to each other without criticism.
Have you always spoken the truth, in love? Has your spouse? Consider some of the expectations they may have had for you in your marriage that have not been met. Ask God to give you a fresh start and a tender heart toward your spouse.
You can live your marriage by His Word, under His direction and for purposes of glorifying Him.
Today's One Thing
Discuss one expectation you have in your marriage with your spouse and ask God to help you show unconditional love as you do so today.
Going Deeper
1 Peter 1:13-25; Ephesians 4:1-16
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Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint; but blessed is the one who heeds wisdom's instruction.
Proverbs 29:18 NIV
Moving Forward, Together.
It's easy to get caught up in the moment, taking care of what has to be done. But it's also important to have a plan for the future—especially in your marriage. When a couple doesn't have a sense of direction in their marriage or a purpose beyond today, it's easy to look for other things to fill that void in their lives. But when a couple really sees a vision from God for their lives, they can work together toward the future.
If you are married, it's important to have a plan for your marriage, know where you're going and write it down. Discouragement and stress of daily living can cause procrastination. God intended for you to have a place to go together in marriage. Having a vision allows you to experience a desire for what the future could be like before you ever get there. It builds excitement and anticipation for doing things together.
Today's One Thing
Every great journey needs a starting point, and today is a good day to start on a journey together. Put together a plan by asking, "Where would we like to be five or ten years from now in each of the five areas of life: faith, family, health, finances and work.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 16:9; Jeremiah 29:11-13
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We know that we have come to know him if we obey his commands. The man who says, "I know him," but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him.
1 John 2:3-4 NIV
Consistency—Your Key to Intentional Parenting
The Bible says, Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever (Hebrews 13:8 NIV).
You can be sure that His example for your life is consistent and will be the same every day of your life.
As a parent, one of the great gifts you can give your child is consistency. As your child grows, he or she wants to live each day with security in knowing what to expect from you. If one day you say yes to something and the next day the answer is no to the same question, inconsistency can create problems in parenting.
There also needs to be consistency in the way that Mom and Dad parent. If parents are not on the same page, kids see that and drive a wedge between you. It's important to be predictable every time. Kids need to know that they can count on you.
Today's One Thing
Give your child security by asking the Lord to help you to be consistent as you parent him or her today.
Going Deeper
1 John 2:1-14; Matthew 5:37
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Whoever pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor.
Proverbs 21:21 NIV
In This Together
The unity candle often used in wedding ceremonies symbolizes two individuals becoming one flesh—two separate voices coming together and living in unity and harmony as one voice.
Marriage takes work and it's vital to the success of the marriage to have realistic expectations. There are good days, like the day you got married. There will be difficult days as you discover how your relationship should grow.
The journey toward your dreams often provides you with the unexpected. It's easy to become discouraged while the events of your life look unfamiliar or unnecessary. Just as the unity candles come together into one flame, couples come together with focused minds and hearts. Together you can work to develop behaviors in your marriage and move forward in a direction that honors Christ.
The key to successful marriage is doing it together. It's then that you must realize that you can trust God to do exactly as He promised, then we have that added initiative to hold on and see it through. No matter what you face, face it together for a lifetime.
Today's One Thing
Make a list of things that you want you and your spouse to do together. Take time today to pray about that conversation. Then sit down with your spouse and discuss those things as the Lord guides you.
Going Deeper
2 Peter 3:9; Numbers 23:19
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I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.
2 Timothy 1:5 NIV
Faith for Generations
Mason stood next to his wife as he held his infant daughter in his arms in front of their pastor. He looked into her sleeping face and tried to take in the moment. She was beautiful and she was dressed in the beautiful dedication gown that his great-great grandmother had made for his grandmother. Every daughter since has worn this more than 100-year-old dress as his parents and grandparents had stood before God and the church promising to raise their daughter according to God's purpose for their lives.
The dress was a symbol of the spiritual heritage he had been given, and wanted to pass on to his daughter. He had not been a perfect child. He had not chosen the right path as a teen or even a very young adult, but God had been there—even when he hadn't. And when he had hit the lowest point in life, God met him where he was at. His parents had been praying and supported him through the difficult times.
He had a strong spiritual legacy and today he was choosing to pass that on to his firstborn. He knew only God could help him for the journey of parenting her that was before him. Only God could help him train her and bring her to a place that hopefully she would live her life without stepping off God's path and would always serve him.
What does your family's heritage look like? Do you come from a long line of families who trusted God with their children? Or, are you beginning a new legacy with your generation? Wherever you are at, God is there and He will give you what you need to build faith in your children and your family for generations.
Today's One Thing
Pray and ask God what ONE THING would help you in your desire to leave a strong legacy of faith for your family. Then start doing that ONE THING today.
Going Deeper
2 Timothy 1:6-13; 2 Timothy 4:1-22
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When Moses' hands grew tired, they took a stone and put it under him and he sat on it. Aaron and Hur held his hands up—one on one side, one on the other—so that his hands remained steady till sunset.
Exodus 17:12 NIV
Even Moses Needed Help
Moses was a strong leader and God's people depended on him for many things. But even the greatest leaders need assistance. They can't do everything on their own. When the Amalekites, enemies of Israel came and attacked them, the people of Israel fought against them. Moses stood at the top of the hill above the fight with his hands held high.
As long as Moses hands were raised, Israel advanced against their enemy. But when his arms grew tired and he put his hands down, the enemy would move against God's people. Moses needed help! So Joshua and Hur came alongside Moses. When his strength drained, they held up his arms until the battle was over and the Israelites emerged victorious.
No matter how strong a person seems to be—they will always, at some point need help. You can lift up the hands of others by carrying some responsibility, imparting a word of encouragement or offering a prayer on their behalf.
Today's One Thing
Ask the Lord who He would have you help, then be open and alert to the opportunities He brings your way today.
Going Deeper
Exodus 17:8-15; Deuteronomy 25:17-19
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In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
Matthew 5:16 NIV
Just Jump In
The guest speaker at Maggie's church had spoken to her heart and opened her mind to some wonderful new things she believed the Lord wanted to do in her life. As the service let out, hundreds of people from the congregation flocked to the speaker's book tables. The line flooded the church foyer and she knew it would take an hour to get all the people served unless someone stepped up to help.
Lord, what can I do, she asked in her heart? Suddenly, she knew. She set her purse and Bible down behind the book table, gave her husband a knowing look to which he nodded approval and then stepped in next to Kayla, one of the ladies trying to process credit cards. "I'll make a cash only line," she said to Kayla. "Great idea," Kayla said.
Maggie raised her hand and her voice, "If you have cash only, make a line here." People shifted and a cash line formed almost immediately. Maggie looked up 25 minutes later and the people had all been taken care of.
Kayla gave her a big hug! "Thanks for jumping in. You saved us a ton of time." Maggie smiled as she gathered her things, thankful to God for showing her how she could serve her church by just jumping in when she was needed.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING could you do today to serve others? Perhaps there is something the Lord would have you do that is spontaneous. Are you willing to jump in?
Going Deeper
Matthew 5:13-16; Hebrews 13
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You have seen many things, but have paid no attention; your ears are open, but you hear nothing.
Isaiah 42:20 NIV
The Gift of Listening
Arguably there is nothing more frustrating than to give instruction to your son or daughter only to discover they did not hear a single word you said. With technology and so many different distractions at our fingertips, children aren't the only ones not listening. It can sometimes seem to be a lost art in society.
How many business meetings have you set in where the leaders have their phones on the table while you try to deliver a proposal and it buzzes and hums. Regrettably, sometimes they even step out in the hall to answer a call, or sit right there texting a message as you speak. Churches now post signs that remind people to silence their phones when they enter the sanctuary.
Listening is a discipline and extremely vital to your personal and professional success. It requires self-control and a willingness to truly desire to understand instead of seeking to be understood. You can have amazing relationships with another person when you learn to listen to them carefully.
Jesus said, "He who has ears, let him hear" (Matthew 13:9 niv). The same reality exists in your relationship with God. How can we expect to be good at listening to God, who we can't see, when our attempts at listening to the people around us, who we can see, are so unintentional?
Think about how you feel when someone gives you their undivided attention. It's a true gift when you know that someone gave their time to you and allowed you to be heard.
Today's One Thing
This week make an intentional decision to practice becoming a good listener in your relationship with God and with your personal relationships.
Going Deeper
Matthew 13:9-17; Isaiah 42:18-25
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For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways.
Psalm 91:11 NIV
Thankful for God's Divine Intervention
Missy just couldn't get her act together. For whatever reason, she could not get out of the house on time that particular Tuesday morning. She dropped her contact on the bathroom counter and it took forever for her to find it, clean it and get it into her eye. She dropped her green drink she made for breakfast on the kitchen floor, and had to clean that up and change her shoes. Then when she started backing out of the garage, the trash truck was picking up her trash and blocking her exit route. Delay...delay...delay.
She tried not to become any more frustrated. She leaned her head back on the headrest and took a deep breath, letting it out slowly as she waited for the truck to move on down the street. Her phone beeped several times on her way to work, but she didn't pick it up to read the texts since she was driving. About a mile from her office, the traffic was at a dead stop. She assumed there was an accident up ahead.
She picked up her phone to see several texts from her co-workers about a fire at the office. Some who had not been able to get in the building were concerned for her because she was always at the office a good 30 minutes ahead of schedule. Not today, she thought. Several of her team from her department had been taken to the hospital for smoke inhalation. She texted her boss to let him know she was okay.
What Missy had originally thought to be unusual mishaps at home, instead were divine delays. She believed the little challenges to her morning that had made her late, perhaps saved her from the fire. She was quick to take a moment and thank God for his protection.
Today's One Thing
Are you easily frustrated when your plans are delayed. Consider the possibility that perhaps you need to slow down a little to be in the right place in God's divine plan today and thank Him for his plan for your life.
Going Deeper
Psalm 91; Proverbs 3:5-6
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There will always be poor people in the land. Therefore I command you to be openhanded toward your fellow Israelites who are poor and needy in your land.
Deuteronomy 15:11 NIV
What Gift Will You Give?
Jay and Valerie knew before they were married that they were called to the mission field. When the Lord created them individually, He also called them together to serve the children of Guatemala. Each day they live their lives and their faith as an open book before the children they are fostering in their home.
Jay and Valerie's home, Casa del Destino (House of Destiny) is a children's home in Antigua, Guatemala that was established in 2007 by West Coast Believers Church, located in Southern California, East Coast Believers Church, located in Florida and several other non-denominational churches across the United States. It is a legal corporation, recognized by the Guatemalan government, that maintains the power to adopt.
Casa del Destino has been commissioned to help raise up kids in the teaching of God's Word and place them into healthy, Christian homes across the world. Jay and Valerie give their gift to God and these children each day as they parent these beautiful children. Individuals and families across the United States partner with Jay and Valerie financially each month to provide for the children's daily needs. Whether you go and serve physically where God has called you or you offer your gifts as a volunteer or a financial partner in the place God has connected you, you are helping those in need.
Today's One Thing
How had God called you to give to those in need? Will you do that ONE THING today?
Going Deeper
Luke 14:1-14; Isaiah 58:10
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Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind.
Philippians 2:2 NIV
Work for Relationships
If you've followed Christ for very long, no doubt you've encountered difficult Christians. Personality clashes, gossip, and hurtful words are not uncommon in many churches. There are conflict-ridden influences all around you as you do life. When disagreement arises, it's easy to disconnect, or even turn on one another.
Paul encouraged the Philippians to agree with one another, stop complaining and work together. As Christians; we should not contend with one another but unite against a mutual enemy. When we are united in love, Christ's strength is most abundant.
Paul encouraged spiritual unity challenging believers to love one another. When you choose to love others—even the difficult ones—you reveal Christ's heart to put others first.
True unity comes when believers draw upon Christ's love. An intentional decision to care for one another's problems, as if they were your own, brings change in your heart and the heart of others. It's not easy; it takes work.
Remember, all followers of Christ are children of God and share equally in His great love. Love is your decision. Allow the love of God to spill out of your heart and flow into others demonstrating His great love for you and for other Christians. Build unity and peace through your actions today.
Today's One Thing
Do you have a deep love for fellow Christians—even those that are not so lovable? Ask God to show you how you can flow in His love when conflict arises.
Going Deeper
Philippians 2:1-11; 1 Peter 3:8-22
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Christmas should be one of the best times of the year when families draw near to each other in a spirit of love and unity to celebrate the birth of their Savior.
Luke 2:10-11 NIV
Word and Actions of Unity and Peace
Christmas should be one of the best times of the year when families draw near to each other in a spirit of love and unity to celebrate the birth of their Savior. All too many times unmet expectations, financial stress and unresolved family issues can blot out the joy of the Christmas season and cause you to lose sight of the amazing gift of God's Son, Jesus, to the world.
All families have their issues. Feuding couples, sullen teenagers, and disgruntled relatives – when they all come together during the holidays, the potential for drama is ever present. Pile on money worries, too many people crammed into small spaces and idealized expectations of what Christmas is "supposed" to be like... and you have a combustible mix.
We're imperfect beings saved only by God's grace. Don't compare yourself with other people or with an "ideal". Whether you are a blended family, a single family of one, or a divorced parent raising your kids alone, embrace that reality and believe that Jesus loves you and is going to bless you, whatever your situation. The best you can do is practice grace with yourself and with your loved ones.
Maybe you aren't happy with your family relationships and the way things are going. It's up to you to forgive, accept and love them just as they are – dysfunctions and all. Focus on what you can do to change your own attitudes and perspectives. Then wait on God to work a miracle in your family.
Today's One Thing
As emotions rise during the Christmas season, take a deep breath and invite the Lord to be your peace through the holidays. Intentionally choose words and actions that offer unity in your family.
Going Deeper
Luke 2:1-21; Isaiah 6:6-7
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If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.
James 1:5 NIV
Positive Words for Positive Parents
The word guilt shows up only twice in the entire New Testament. Criticize doesn't make a single appearance in most translations. Yet parents often criticize themselves to the point of hopelessness because of their difficult circumstances. It's easy to do, but it actually takes away from your ability to parent your child by God's design.
Here's what God's Word does have to say about guilt: Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1). That's your promise straight from the Father's heart, the same God who through Jesus' sacrifice for sin has made you blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe (Philippians 2:15 paraphrase).
Think about those words that weigh on your heart. Then ask the Lord to give you the insight needed to completely let go of the guilt.
Today's One Thing
So what are you telling yourself as a parent? Identify the words or phrases that need to be removed from your mental and verbal vocabulary and stop using them today.
Going Deeper
Romans 8:1-16; Philippians 2:12-18
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Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
Matthew 5:7 NIV
Make Some Grace Deposits
David and his brother, Mark had worked hard all day setting up Mark's new office. Mark had lost his job a few months ago and finances had been tight—especially with the decision Mark made to start his own company instead of going back to work for someone else. Both were tired, hungry and ready for a break.
When David suggested they take a break and get something to eat for a second time, Mark snapped at him. His words were harsh and heavy. But David just smiled and walked into another room to start unloading boxes.
Mark took a few minutes and then stepped into the room where his brother was working. "Hey! I'm sorry I went off on you," he said. Normally David would have given it right back to him with both barrels, but something was different. "So, what gives," Mark questioned. "Normally you'd be in my face with the way I've been acting."
"I've realized that I need grace so many times each day and God gives it to me liberally" David said. "It's about time I started giving grace to others. There's going to come a time when I need grace from you, too, so I want to make sure I've made some 'grace' deposits into your life." Mark gave his brother a hug and suggested they take a lunch break—his treat!
Thomas Adams said, "He who demands mercy and shows none ruins the bridge over which he himself is to pass."
Today's One Thing
Is there someone in your life that you need to extend grace to today?
Going Deeper
Numbers 6:22-27; Psalm 103:1-22
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By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.
Hebrews 11:8 NIV
Take a Walk with God—Every Day
When was the last time you got into your car and had absolutely no idea where you were going? You just started it up, backed out of the driveway and started on your merry way—probably never. When you set out on a journey, you have a good idea where you are going. You may have a map, perhaps you googled it, or plugged the addresses in on your GPS navigator.
But, this is pretty much what Abraham did. He didn't have the technology we have today, but he believed he heard from God to leave his country. So he packed up his belongings, his family, his tents, and his livestock—and started walking. He began a journey with God as his guide. He went in whatever direction God told him to go.
That takes a lot of faith, and a real desire to hear what God is saying. He had to walk with God. He had to believe that God was right there, every step of the way, walking side by side with him. He depended on God every day to show him where to go, what to do, and where to stop for the night. He trusted that God knew the lay of the land including what food and drink the land would provide, what enemies or friends he would encounter and what predators were lying in wait for him.
Time with God is vital to your success. He has the answers for the questions you face every day. He knows what direction you need to go to live a life that pleases Him.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING can you do that will help you walk more closely with God and hear what direction He would have you go today?
Going Deeper
Genesis 12:1-9; Hebrews 11:8-16
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Lord, who may dwell in your sacred tent? Who may live on your holy mountain? Who despises a vile person but honors those who fear the Lord; who keeps an oath even when it hurts, and does not change their mind.
Psalm 15:1, 4 NIV
Promises for a Healthy Marriage
John's broken promises started small. First he was late for dinner, then he missed dinner altogether without a text or phone call. He excused himself from his commitment to his wife and family because he was working—providing for his family. His wife, Leah, was understanding—at first. When he began to break promises to his children about attending their sporting events, Leah decided it was time for a conversation about keeping commitments to one another.
It takes years to build trust and just minutes to destroy it. Value the trust that you have—especially with your spouse. Doing what you say you're going to do—not some of the time but all of the time—demonstrates your commitment to your marriage and your family.
As you carefully consider each promise made, let God be your examples. He always keeps His promises. There will be times when you need to renegotiate a promise, so do it in advance. Set the expectations in your relationship so that they are achievable and build trust with each commitment.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING do you need to do today that will honor your spouse and build trust in your marriage relationship? Be determined to do that ONE THING today.
Going Deeper
Numbers 30:2; Psalm 15
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When the storm has swept by, the wicked are gone, but the righteous stand firm forever.
Proverbs 10:25 NIV
Storms Reveal Strengths and Weaknesses
Change comes to every marriage. Some changes are celebrated—a promotion, personal achievement, a new job, or a new baby. But sometimes the changes bring disappointment—loss of a job, health issues or financial crisis. Every marriage faces a storm at some point in the relationship.
Hard times have a way of revealing the best—and worst—in our character. Like nuggets of gold emerging from the silt are those whose Christian witness remains strong in the face of adversity, while those of lukewarm faith are also quickly exposed. When storms arise and threats to your relationship appear, face those difficulties together and hold fast to God's instruction. When you've invested in your relationship, built trust and remained committed—you can make it through even the most difficult of storms.
Today's One Thing
What storm are you facing today and what ONE THING can you communicate to your spouse that will help you work together to overcome the storm?
Going Deeper
Matthew 8:23-27; Deuteronomy 31:1-8
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Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.
Psalm 20:7 NIV
Money Matters at Christmas
The materialism associated with Christmas, and the perceived need to buy your children and family members everything they'd like to receive as gifts, can put additional stress on your marriage at Christmas time.
In addition to keeping the focus on the true meaning of the holiday – the celebration of the birth of God's Son, Jesus, you want to keep peace and harmony in the home that last well past the Christmas seasons.
You can stress less when it comes to Christmastime spending if you'll agree to plan ahead by planning a budget and staying committed to not overspend. Together you can remain committed not to borrow money to pay for gift giving. Help each other work with cash and when you run out of cash, agree to stop buying.
Some marriages become divided during the Christmas season while other marriages are strengthened each year. The difference is in how couples respond: They either unite or divide. Your marriage can grow and become stronger than ever before when you agree to face the challenges of Christmas spending together.
Today's One Thing
Discuss the challenges you might face in your finances with Christmas spending. Then agree together and in prayer that you will stress less this Christmas season by doing this together.
Going Deeper
Amos 3:3; Matthew 18:19
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"How will this be," Mary asked the angel, "since I am a virgin?" The angel answered, "The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God.
Luke 1:34-35 NIV
The Miraculous Christmas Spirit
From the very beginning, the miraculous power of Christmas existed. In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters. And God said, "Let there be light," and there was light. God spoke and the Holy Spirit moved.
Throughout the Bible we see the power of God at work: the parting of the Red Sea, the slaying of giant Goliath, Daniel's salvation from the Lion's Den, and certainly the conception of Jesus in Mary's womb.
Then, the miraculous Christmas Spirit was born into the earth and became flesh. Jesus became a man, walked on the earth and gave His life so that every person could have the opportunity to experience the Spirit of Christmas.
Romans 8:11 says that the same spirit that raised Christ from the dead lives in you. You have the miraculous Spirit of Christmas within you to help you live each day pleasing to the One who gave you life. Whatever challenges you are facing this Christmas, God's miracle working power is available to you.
Today's One Thing
What do you desire for God to do in you or your family this Christmas? Talk to Him about it today.
Going Deeper
Genesis 1:1-3, John 15:26-27
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My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.
Psalm 121:2 NIV
The Right New Year Resolutions
God created you with a purpose and planned for you to succeed. You have an intentional God who desires for you to complete His purpose for your life. So, have you thought about your New Year resolutions for next year?
Maybe you don't even make resolutions anymore because you've discovered it's too difficult to keep the resolutions you made year after year. Perhaps there is a good reason you struggled to keep them. Often the resolutions you make are little more than a list of things you want to change in your life that you try to accomplish on your own.
This year, consider making a change. Instead of creating a list of your own, ask God what things He would have you work on this year. Open the closets of your heart and let God do some early spring cleaning. Let the light of His Word shine brightly in some of the places perhaps you've not really wanted to look at yourself. On your own, you can be powerless to change, but with God's help, this year can be different. This year you can work on His list and experience change, promotion, strength and commitment to those things He would have you do.
Make a decision to focus on God's list, His plan and His purpose for your life. When you trust and rely on Him, you can keep every single resolution that you make together.
Today's One Thing
Take some time today to get alone with God and ask Him about the list of resolutions He would have you make for this year. Maybe it's just ONE THING.
Going Deeper
Matthew 19:25-27; Hebrews 13:5-7
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As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.
Genesis 50:20 ESV
The Journey to Your Freedom
Imagine a life journey that begins with ultimate betrayal—at the hands of family members—those who are supposedly the ones who love you most. Joseph, the most favored son of his father was still a child when his ten older brothers plotted against him. Some of them even wanted to kill him because of the jealousy that raged in their hearts.
God had given Joseph a dream that foretold his destiny. Although Joseph didn't understand the dream, he shared it with his brothers. In his dream, he saw his brothers would someday bow down to him.
His brothers' jealousy consumed them. Perhaps the revelation of this last dream caused them to snap, and they conspired to get rid of him once and for all. They sold him into slavery. The brothers returned to their father and told him that a wild animal had eaten his beloved son.
Joseph's journey was very difficult, but he remained faithful to God and eventually found himself in the palace in Egypt, second in command only to Pharaoh. His dream was realized as his brothers bowed in fear before him, and instead of repaying them for their wrong, he assured them of his love and forgiveness.
Forgiveness liberates you from the captivity of past wrongs others have done to you. When you choose to let it go, you can be completely restored and respond to others in love.
Today's One Thing
Is something still holding you captive from your past? Choose to be restored by letting it go today.
Going Deeper
Genesis 47; Genesis 50
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Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.
Hebrews 11:1 ESV
The Evidence of Faith at Work
Tears slid silently down Ellen's face as she watched one person after another cross the stage without words, allowing the cardboard they held in their hands to tell their story. Ellen remembered YouTube videos of this exact thing being shared through Facebook posts by friends. She even watched a few, but this was different. The people standing on the platform were family, friends and acquaintances she had spent time with. She'd been to some of their homes. Some of their stories, she knew. Others had been through so much and never said a word about the trial that had tested their faith—until now.
As the pastor began to speak, Ellen was lost in her own thoughts. Every card said who they were before, and who they were today. Without God's intervention, their lives were headed for disappointment, disaster and even death. But their decision to stand and believe God for something miraculous produced results.
Faith is trusting in the unseen but not the unknown. Your faith is in something that you do not see, but in something you know and have experienced. When you sit down in a chair, you have faith that the chair will support you. The evidence occurs when the chair holds your weight. Likewise, your faith is justified by the transformation that occurs in your life through the power of God, in your relationship with Him.
One of the beautiful things about being a part of the community of faith is the great stories we hear in the lives of others even today. Those real life experiences become evidence of God's transformational power in your life. It offers assurance that faith works.
Today's One Thing
Take some time to get quiet and reflect on the things you know and have experienced that caused you to know God—and believe in Him.
Going Deeper
Hebrews 11; Romans 10:5-17
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Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
Romans 12:10 NIV
Establishing an Atmosphere of Peace
When it comes to describing a Christian home, pastor and author J.R. Miller wrote "It ought to be a place where love rules. It ought to be beautiful, bright, joyous, full of tenderness and affection, a place in which all are growing happier and better each day." There are people from all walks of life that aren't feeling that tenderness and joy at home and in their families.
You want your home to be a healthy, safe place for every member of your family, but that doesn't happen just through good intentions. You have to take action. The ONE THING you can do to bring peace to your home is to make prayer the center of your family life.
Every Christian would probably say they should pray with their family, but it's easy to have it slip down our daily to-do list. The kids need to go the library for a school project; someone needs to get dinner on the table, the afternoon meeting at work runs long... life gets in the way of what we plan. It's a challenge to fit everything in, but if you want a family that is connected to God, close to each other, and is able to recover from life's hurts, conversations with God are essential—as a group and individually.
If you want your family to be successful, you need to slow down and show your family that you care enough to spend time with them in prayer. Romans 12:10 (NLT) tells us to "Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other." Prayer as a family is not just a symbol of that affection, but a way for your family to grow together. Praying together creates intimacy and has a powerful effect on family life.
Today's One Thing
Create a habit each day of time in prayer together as a family. Start today.
Going Deeper
Romans 12:9-12; James 5:13-20
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For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Matthew 6:14-15 NIV
The Cost of Unforgiveness
Have you ever thought to yourself that's something I just can't forgive? There's a saying: "Unforgiveness is a poison we drink, hoping someone else will die." You can be hesitant to give up what you feel is your right to hurt someone in return for what they've done to you, but that reluctance only ends up harming you. Ask a doctor... they'll tell you that holding those feelings inside will actually harm your physical health.
One of the biggest obstacles to growth in life can be unforgiveness. Jesus includes a call to forgiveness in his instructions on how to pray in Matthew 6:12. You ask God to forgive your sins in the same way you forgive "those who sin against you."
Forgiveness is about a change of heart. Broken relationships and unresolved feelings can leave a mess in your heart and potentially keep you from moving on with your life. Temptation towards bitterness is exactly the sort of tactic Satan will use to keep you from doing God's work. Unforgiveness blocks your view of your purpose in life and often steers you towards a very unintentional life.
Clearing out the messes relationships often leave behind leaves more room for God to work, and for His peace to fill in that space.
Today's One Thing
Count the cost of unforgiveness today. Talk to God about the hurts you feel and then release those hurts to him—forgiving the one who hurt you.
Going Deeper
John 20:19-23; Matthew 8:21-22
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Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.
John 14:12 NIV
Make a decision to influence your world today
Your redemption was the most significant purchase ever made. Christ's birth put God's plan for your relationship with God to be restored in motion. His life was your ransom. God bought you back—at the cost of His Son's life. It was the highest price God could pay and He was willing to do it in order to open the door for you to have the option of spending your life with Him—now and for all eternity.
Each day you live on the earth is an opportunity to influence others with your belief. Each decision you make impacts others. How you live your life influences those around you in their choices and decisions.
The decision to go to the cross for you required Jesus to have more than just a belief that God's love was true—He was beyond belief in that He passionately demonstrated and modeled love to His disciples. If there's ever a time to have passion in your world, it's today. The hurts of people are overwhelming, and the need for your good works has never been greater.
Today's One Thing
Make a commitment to take action and see your world changed by the power of God's love today.
Going Deeper
John 14:5-14; John 12:37-50
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But from everlasting to everlasting the LORD's love is with those who fear him, and his righteousness with their children's children.
Psalm 103:17 NIV
Give Praise for the Little Things
Pam's son, David was really struggling to learn his multiplication tables. He was angry and frustrated with himself and refused to participate in math class. When the teacher called to voice concern, Pam put the whole family together to help David. She found some games that taught multiplication tables. Within two weeks—with lots of encouragement from his entire family—David began to understand and eventually excel in his math class.
Dr. Carlson often says, "Whoever or whatever is most intentional in the lives of your family... wins." We all intuitively know there's no such thing as perfect children, perfect parents, and perfect families. But there are families who are committed to being intentional. One way you can be more intentional in your family is to celebrate successes often. Intentional families praise each other for accomplishments, big or small.
As you make this commitment, you'll find your family growing healthier and stronger when you put Christ at the center of your life and family.
Today's One Thing
What is ONE THING you and your family can do together to celebrate small successes?
Going Deeper
Psalm 127:3-5; Proverbs 1:1-7
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This is what you are to say to Joseph: "I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly. Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father." When their message came to him, Joseph wept.
Genesis 50:17 NIV
Blessing from Forgiveness
Joseph's love for God brought him through some horrific situations. He was willing to forgive even the brutal betrayal by his own brothers. His unwillingness to hold offense against them preserved a nation and saved His immediate family from famine.
When you've been hurt; it's human nature to want to retaliate. When you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, a new nature—God's way of doing things—has been given to you. It needs to be cultivated and practiced. As you begin to respond to your world with God's nature, you can find His strength to let go of the past hurts and forgive those who have wronged you.
Forgiveness benefits you as well as those around you—just as in Joseph's case. When you follow God's commandment to forgive, the benefits and blessings may reach far beyond the individual receiving your forgiveness.
Today's One Thing
Is there some hurt you can't seem to let go of? Begin releasing it to God today and watch Him turn it around.
Going Deeper
Genesis 50
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And all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you, if you obey the voice of the Lord your God. Blessed shall you be when you come in, and blessed shall you be when you go out.
Deuteronomy 28:2, 6 NIV
Open Hearts and Open Homes
James and Tess walked into the kitchen with their arms loaded with groceries. They were greeted by their son Marshall and several of the football team sitting at the kitchen table. They were chowing down on breakfast burritos—probably the only thing in the house to eat, before their grocery run this morning.
Marshall asked, "Mom, did you get more hot sauce!" She pulled a jar of her son's favorite hot sauce from the bag and passed it to him as the boys all got up to help carry the rest of the groceries in. Tess smiled at James.
Tess had grown up in a violent home where friends weren't welcome. The risk of her alcoholic father erupting into a rage kept Tess and her sisters too fearful to bring friends home. She loved that her home was always full. Her teenage boys and their friends were in James and Tess's home most nights (and free food was an added bonus to the football team). She and James had even converted the garage into a den just for the kids to have their own space.
Your home—your family—should be a refuge from the cruelty of the world you and your loved ones live in. Every family member should feel that they can find the emotional support and strength they need to face tomorrow after a difficult today. No matter how negative life is, can you count on your family—and can they count on you?
Today's One Thing
Let your family know that home is a safe place and demonstrate it today.
Going Deeper
Deuteronomy 28:1-14; Deuteronomy 28:15-45
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Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe.
Hebrews 12:28 NIV
Give Thanks to God
When the challenges you face each day in life overwhelm your mind and heart, it can become difficult to give thanks to God. Hebrews 12:28 encourages you to give thanks because you are an eternal being. Everything created can be shaken, but your relationship with God cannot be shaken. You can forever trust Him.
Give thanks to God that hears and answers your prayers. He will never leave your or forsake you, but is always with you.
Thank God for His provision. He will give you what you need to accomplish the things He has purposed in your heart.
Give thanks for His continued blessings in your life as you live for Him.
Thank Him that His character is steadfast. He cannot lie—all His promises to you remain true.
Be thankful for the relationships you have with other believers. Believers are connected and should encourage and build one another up in their faith.
Today's verse reminds you that everything created can be shaken, but your relationship with God cannot be shaken. You can forever trust Him.
Today's One Thing
Give thanks today. Make a list of things you are thankful for—both big and small—and share your list with God in your prayer time today.
Going Deeper
Hebrews 12:18-28; 1 Thessalonians 5:12-16
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I will make the descendants of David my servant and the Levites who minister before me as countless as the stars in the sky and as measureless as the sand on the seashore.
Jeremiah 33:22 NIV
God of Wonder
When was the last time you experienced the wonder of creation through the eyes of a child? Perhaps it was a trip to the ocean, or a climb to a mountain top. Maybe it was a sunset from your back patio.
God often pointed to creation to demonstrate His faithfulness. He pointed to the stars outside Abraham's tent to demonstrate His promise that Abraham would be the father of many nations. He defied nature repeatedly to show His power when Pharoah wouldn't let His people go.
God reveals Himself to you through His creation. It's as though He is turning the pages in His own personal photo album, telling you something about Himself on each page.
Today's One Thing
Take some time today to observe all that God's created. What is He revealing to you?
Going Deeper
Psalm 8; Psalm 139:13-18
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For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.
Romans 10:9-10 NIV
A Heart of Integrity
Nathan's year had been extremely difficult, especially financially. He was going to school full time, and had finally caught a break by qualifying for a grant and financial assistance for school and housing. There was one catch—if he got a job during the summer; his housing subsidy could be lost.
An acquaintance approached him after hearing of his dilemma and offered to hire him on a cash only basis. "No one will know, and I won't send you a 1099 at the end of the year," he said. The man's offer was really tempting, at first, but Nathan knew in his heart it wasn't honest.
"Thank you for the offer," he told the man, "but I am a Christian and I can't do something like that. Perhaps no one else would find out, but I want to live my life obedient to Christ. He will take care of my needs. I have to trust Him."
As you grow up in your faith, you have to decide if you're going to be completely obedient to what the Bible teaches, or you're not. It's a decision you have to make. Living an intentional life in Christ will constantly bring you to a point of decision based on what you really believe and value.
Today's One Thing
Are you considering something that seems on the edge? Will you choose to be intentional in pleasing Christ today?
Going Deeper
Proverbs 10:9; Luke 16:1-13
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To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.
Colossians 1:27 NIV
Experience His Hope
Your world today wrestles with what it means to experience hope. Politicians and marketers use the concept of hope as an opportunity to promote their agenda or product. As a Christ-follower, you can believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and place your hope in Him. Surprisingly believers know the end of the story, and yet many followers of Christ live in hopelessness.
So, where do you begin to keep that hope alive in you each day? The place to begin is with your relationship with God. You are intended to experience the hope we've been given in Christ—hope for eternal salvation—hope in the promises God made to you as an heir of salvation found in the Bible. If you're not experiencing hope in your life today, ask yourself, "How intentional am I in my faith?"
Take some time with that question. It may really surprise you. Look at your head (thoughts), heart (feelings) and hands (actions) when it comes to your faith. Is your thinking in alignment with the things God says in His Word about you—His child? Are your emotions in check when it comes to your relationship with God and those He has placed in your life? Do you choose actions that bring pleasure to Christ as you go throughout your day?
When you bring your head, heart and hands into balance by thinking and behaving like Christ, you will find the hope and assurance that you need to begin your journey toward becoming all God destined you to be.
Today's One Thing
If you're not experiencing hope in your life today, ask yourself, "How intentional am I in my faith?"
Going Deeper
1 Thessalonians 2:17-20; Titus 2
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Have you ever felt like you needed a re-start?
And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. —Ezekiel 36:26 ESV
The Perfect Time to Begin Again
Richard sat on the floor of the living room watching his three-month-old baby girl. She was happy to lay on her back as long as she could look up at him, catch his eye occasionally or hear him speak softly to her. She was the perfect picture of where he was with his life today—everything was brand new for him as well.
He and his wife, Kay, were told they would never have children. The news devastated him and caused him to be angry with God. He walked away from everything He knew about God for the first few years they were married. The road he chose almost cost him his marriage. Then, at the point of divorce, he asked Kay and God to forgive him. It was slow going at first. Even though he fully surrendered to God, his wife had a hard time trusting Him. He had to work hard to rebuild their relationship.
Then, just a year ago, Kay told him she was miraculously pregnant. God began to do a work in his life like never before. With the birth of his daughter, he began to see more clearly what God might have felt when he looked at him—as His son. And, how much it must have hurt God's heart for him to sin against Him.
At their daughter's baby dedication, right before Christmas, he made a promise before God and his church congregation to live for his wife and daughter, and to love them both as much as he could understand that God loved him.
God is a God of new beginnings. No matter what your past looks like, God is able to give you a fresh, clean start.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING would you like to begin again this New Year?
Going Deeper
Ezekiel 36:25-27; Leviticus 19
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Spend more time with God and less time on the little things that have no lasting value.
But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. —Matthew 6:6 ESV
Learning to Pray
Rushing into the coffee shop, Hannah dropped her laptop into the chair next to her friend, Pam. "Sorry, I'm late! I need more time," Hannah apologized. "No worries," Pam replied. "Go ahead and get some coffee. I'm reading anyway."
Returning to the table with coffee in hand, Hannah let out a sigh. She looked a little closer at what held Pam's attention. The book she had her nose in was the Bible. "Wow! I don't know when the last time was that I had time to open my Bible or pray. Seeing you with your Bible open makes me feel a little guilty. I need to pray more. I need to pray longer. I need to get my priorities straight—spend more time with God and less time on the little things that have no lasting value."
Pam smiled and then gently asked, "You've said that to me before. Did you do anything about it?" Hannah shook her head, "No." Pam continued, "Maybe it's not that you don't have time to pray, but maybe you just don't know where to start because you've never made it a normal part of your life. Maybe you really need to know about how to connect with God."
"I admit," Hannah hesitated, "it seems hard."
"Truthfully, nothing is easier or more natural, than prayer," Pam replied. "God wants to hear from you just like I do—well, even more. He wants to be your closest friend. He wants to hear about your day—the good and the bad. Time with God is prayer and time in His Word is like food for your spirit. You are connecting with God and stimulating your spiritual heart to desire more of Him."
"So, you're saying I just talk to Him like I do you. And as I read the Bible, I will learn more about who He is and what he expects of me?" Hannah asked. "Yes, that's a good way to put it."
Today's One Thing
Tell God all about your hurts, pains and exciting news. He is never too busy to hear from you. He knows you better than anyone does.
Going Deeper
Matthew 6:5-8; Matthew 6:25-34
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Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. —1 Thessalonians 5:11 ESV
Cheering One Another On
Eight year-old Abby and five year-old Carson were at the dining room table with a big piece of butcher block paper and magic markers, when their dad, Aaron, walked into the kitchen to load the dishwasher. "What are you guys doing this morning?"
Carson was excited. "We're making a sign to hold up when Mommy runs by us today in her 5K. See?" Abby started putting the markers away. "Daddy will you help roll it up and put a rubber band on it so it won't get messed up in the car?"
"I sure can," Aaron replied, as he dried his hands on a hand-towel. He peered over his children's shoulders for a quick look at the sign! "That is great! You both did a fantastic job! Mommy certainly won't miss you two or your sign when she goes by. Now, get your coats and shoes on so we can get down to the race and get in position before Mommy and the other runners come by our assigned spot."
Minutes later, they arrived and found a spot right up front. Several other children were happy to help Abby and Carson hold their sign. "Here she comes," Abby cried. As their mother came near she spotted her family standing at each end of a big sign with the words, "GO MOMMY!" surrounded by carefully drawn and colored hearts of all shapes, sizes and colors. She was tired, but the beautiful sign filled with love from her family gave her just what she needed to push forward, stronger through the last leg of the race.
Living each day in a fallen world can bring difficulties. When others cheer you on, it makes a difference. It adds to your faith and gives you what you need to press on.
Today's One Thing
Ask the Lord who He would have you offer encouragement to today.
Going Deeper
1 Corinthians 15:50-58; 1 Thessalonians 5:1-11
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When you feel like giving up, God steps in!
We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our bodies. —2 Corinthians 4:8-10 ESV
When You Feel Like Giving Up
Every night Holly thought about home. Perhaps she had made a mistake. It had been a huge risk, but she felt like the Lord was leading her, opening the doors. She had moved 1500 miles from friends and family to start a new job. It was less money than she'd hoped and the cost of living in the big city was much more expensive than she'd anticipated.
She had taken a lower paying job, believing she'd get something better and stay on part-time with the original job. With several interviews behind her, the disappointing emails and rejection letters continued to dampen her hopes. She missed her friends and although people were friendly, there hadn't been a big connection with a group—especially at the churches she visited.
It had been four months and all of her savings drained. That night she told God, "I'm done and I'm going back home." The next morning she woke up refreshed, happy to have made the decision to move. Her phone rang and she didn't recognize the local number, but she answered it. The woman on the other end offered her a job—not the one she'd interviewed for, but another one in the same company with better pay and more responsibility!
When you're ready to give up is often the time God steps in and reveals His plan!
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING are you holding onto that you need to release to God?
Going Deeper
Isaiah 55:1-13; Psalm 128:1-6
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God has prepared you for great things!
At this time Moses was born; and he was beautiful in God's sight. And he was brought up for three months in his father's house, and when he was exposed, Pharaoh's daughter adopted him and brought him up as her own son. —Acts 7:20-21 ESV
What is God Preparing You For?
God began to prepare Moses to be the deliverer of his people from the moment he was conceived. He was given all that he needed to accomplish his destiny. Born a Hebrew, and condemned to die like all the other male children born at that time, God saved him. Pharaoh's daughter saw him and decided to adopt him as her own. Moses' sister was watching and went quickly to the princess and suggested one of the Hebrew servants to nurse and care for him. Whether Pharaoh's daughter knew it or not, she had Moses' own mother care for him. When he was old enough, he went to live with Pharaoh's daughter in the palace.
Moses had the best of both worlds, it seemed. He learned the ways of God, who had miraculously saved him, while living with his very own family. As the son of the Egyptian princess he received the best education. He had intimate knowledge of both worlds—Hebrew and Egyptian. It positioned him well for the very purpose God had put within—to lead God's people from Egyptian captivity through their journey to the Promised Land.
What does your journey look like? It may be difficult to understand the reason for a certain path—but God has prepared you for great things. Will you embrace the path He has chosen for you? You can only imagine the destiny He has for you!
Today's One Thing
What things along the path you've taken do you need to embrace? Ask God to show you today!
Going Deeper
Acts 7:17-34; Ezekiel 18:24-30
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Prayer should be as natural as texting a friend.
No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. —John 15:15 ESV
Conversations with God
"Prayer just seems so hard. He's God! What do I say? He already knows everything," Sheila protested to her friend, Gail. "And you—you make it seem so easy. I'm not spiritual like you."
Gail smiled. "It doesn't have to be hard. Even if God knows everything, He still wants to talk to you. He wants to hear what you think, and listen to you share your plans, the things you like about life. How do you think I learned to pray? I practiced. You just start talking to God. I don't talk to him any differently than the way I talk to you—open and honest."
Sheila was still unsure so Gail continued. "The Bible is full of prayers—open and uncomplicated prayers. If you look at Psalms, it is filled with words spoken to God. The writer, David, is really blunt with God about his feelings, when he's happy, hurt, scared and even upset with God about the situation he finds himself in."
"Okay. I see what you're saying," Sheila said. "I need to be honest and just share my heart with God. Prayer should be constant communication about anything I want to talk about, and then I need to take time to stop and listen to what He has to share with me." "You got it," Gail confirmed!
When it comes to prayer, there is no better example than Jesus' life. As you read the Bible you'll find many situations to Jesus spending time in prayer. Prayer was a normal, regular part of His everyday life.
Today's One Thing
Begin to talk to God throughout the day just as you would call or text a friend. He wants to spend time with you.
Going Deeper
Romans 8:1-11; John 15:1-17
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Don't miss the exciting and new things He has for you.
He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding. —Daniel 2:21 (ESV)
Embrace the New Season!
A lot had happened in the few months in Chris' life. His father had died; his mother had come to live with his family; and his youngest child had stepped out on her own to take a job 2,000 miles from them; and his daughter had just given him his first grandbaby the day before Christmas.
He sat next to the fireplace, with a hot cup of coffee and his Bible. He looked at the Christmas tree lights flickering still; he should have already taken the tree down and put it away. But, somehow, he had held onto Christmas this year. It was as if the tree coming down signaled the end of an era and the beginning of something new—something unsure.
He closed his eyes and prayed quietly. "Lord, it's a new season in my life. I don't know if I'm really ready for this change. I'm still a son, but my father is with you. I'm still a father, but my children have moved on and don't need me as much. Even my relationship with my wife is different with Mom living here and the kids gone."
The Lord answered Chris's prayer with a deep calm in his soul. Chris felt peaceful and complete. "Lord, whatever this new season holds, I am going to embrace it. I don't have to do it alone because you are with me. You will guide me with your wisdom."
Transitions in life are hard and most of us don't like change. God promises to give you wisdom and understanding for the new season. Don't miss the exciting and new things He has for you.
Today's One Thing
Make a commitment to rejoice and embrace the new season God has for you!
Going Deeper
Ecclesiastes 3:1-22; Daniel 2:17-23
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Let God's Word light your path each day.
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. —Psalm 119:105 (ESV)
Let the Word Light the Way
Enjoying his morning coffee Richard noticed his wife, Kay, hobbling into the kitchen. "What happened," he asked her. "Oh, I got up for a late night snack," she said. "I should have turned on the lights, but I didn't, and I ran into the kitchen table. I think I broke a toe or two."
Normally they left the light above the stove on, but it had burned out and Richard hadn't replaced it. "Honey, I'm sorry. I should have replaced the light bulb. I will do that today."
No doubt, like Kay, you've stumbled in the dark. Trying to pick out a safe path in the dark can cause a lot of pain. It's a good example of what your life looks like when you try to find your own way without God's guidance found in His Word.
Similar to the things that might clutter your path to the kitchen in the dark, there are things that can litter your spiritual path. You can fill your life with things, many of them good-intentioned, but they distract you from the course God desires for your life.
God has given you His Word, but if you're too busy for Him, it's easy to make a wrong turn or end up face down. Open God's Word and spend time with Him. Let His truth light your way and bring clear direction for the direction He wants you to take.
Today's One Thing
Make time to read God's Word today. Ask Him to show you any obstacles in your life that might be keeping you in the dark.
Going Deeper
Matthew 4:1-11; Romans 15:1-7
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Life is full of disappointments, but God offers hope.
Hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. —Romans 5:5 (ESV)
Hold fast to the Hope
Ron traveled a lot for his job, and Mindy was extremely excited this year because he hadn't received any instructions for travel in weeks. It looked like he would be home the week leading up to their 25th wedding anniversary celebration. Mindy had made plans for them to enjoy every moment.
Then Ron got a call. He would have to take a trip that would get him home just in the nick of time for the anniversary party. "I'm sorry, honey! But I will be back in time for the party. This is a big opportunity and it will help us financially put some money back." Mindy shook her head in agreement, but her tears of disappointment ran freely down her face. Ron tried to comfort her.
Disappointment can feel like a rock is sitting in your stomach and pull on your emotions until you become physically ill. When disappointment tries to shatter your dreams and destroy your hope, look to God. He wants to see you filled to overflowing with His joy. Allow His love to consume you and fill the void disappointment can bring.
Life is full of disappointments, but God offers hope for His outcome in your situation. Look to the One who can make the dreams He put within you a reality.
Today's One Thing
Hold fast to your hope and continue to dream. God will make a way for you!
Going Deeper
Proverbs 13:12; Hebrews 11:1-11
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Let your goal become bigger than any roadblock.
He said to them, "Because of your little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you." —Matthew 17:20 (ESV)
Push Through
"It's just not worth it," Chris shouted into the kitchen from his makeshift office in the den. His wife, Debbie, walked into the den and put her hand on his shoulder. "I just feel like I'm missing out on so much with the boys. Spring ball is starting for both of them and I'm stuck here at this desk."
"You've come so far," Debbie reminded him. "It's only one more semester. The worst part is over. You'll graduate in five more months. Don't lose focus now. You can do this. The Lord will give you the strength. And I'll help you set a schedule so that you can make the games, even go to some of the practices."
"I just don't see how we can do that, and still keep up with the yard, the things around the house," Chris continued.
"You can't look at what you feel like you're losing, but look at what you're gaining. You are doing this for the boys, for our future. I'll ask my brother to come and take care of the yard and the things you normally do in the spring. That will open up some time for you with the boys." Chris, smiled. "That's brilliant. I hadn't thought of that."
You probably have days when you question if your goal is worth pushing through. It would be easy to quit, but if you let that goal become bigger than the roadblock, then you can press through.
Today's One Thing
Allow your goal to become bigger than any roadblock and push on through.
Going Deeper
Matthew 17:14-21; Psalm 46
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Your future is in His hands.
But I trust in you, O Lord; I say, "You are my God." My times are in your hand. —Psalm 35:14-15 (ESV)
Let Go of the Unknown
We live in a fallen world filled with fear and anxiety. People analyze scenarios of "what if," and spend time worried about things that may never happen or dreading something that turns out not even half as bad as they anticipated.
David penned many of the Psalms, including Psalm 31. As you read his story, you find God made him a big promise—to become king to a nation that God called His very own people. No doubt David had a lot of "what ifs" running through his head. What if I don't really make it to the throne? What if Saul finds me and kills me? What if people find out I murdered a man so I could have his wife? What if I fail as king?
Throughout the Psalms, you can read David's ups and downs. He develops a pattern of giving voice to the deep worries in his heart, but then ultimately he realizes who he's talking to and gives those concerns to God. One example of that is found in Psalm 31:15 where he lets go of the unknown and leaves it with God declaring, "My times are in your hand."
David's statement has great value. Your past, present and future rest in God's hands. He holds your life and your future in His grasp. Whether it is pleasing or not, whether it is dark or bright, you can trust Him and you can rest in Him. Just as David came to realize, you must face the unknowns in faith not in fear.
Today's One Thing
Can you declare today, "Lord Jesus, I trust and know today that in Your hands, I am safe and secure."
Going Deeper
Psalm 31:9-20; Proverbs 16:9
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When God writes His name upon your heart!
For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. —Romans 1:19 (ESV)
There Can Be No Doubt
Hayden sat cross-legged on the blanket in the sand watching his four-year old daughter, Melody run back and forth between him and the waters licking the beach. She was careful not to get too close to the water, but just close enough for it to tickle her toes. Her laughter sang a song that he thought he might never hear.
His wife, Ellen, was told she would never have children, but God's plan for them included three. Hayden looked toward Ellen and watched her cover the top of the twin boys' playpen with a light blanket to shield them from the sun. At nine months old, they were happy to play together with their toys.
He smiled and thought, There is nothing that could ever convince me that God does not exist. Each conception was a miracle. Doctors said Ellen would never conceive, let alone carry twins to full term. And yet, through the miraculous gift of God, she did. The doctors could not explain it, but Hayden and Ellen knew—only God!
The Apostle Paul said we know there is a God because He revealed Himself to us within our hearts. The challenge is not in believing there's a God, but in having your heart open to see the Truth as He reveals it. Sometimes we're just waiting for revelation.
Today's One Thing
Have you experienced Him in a way that leaves no doubt that He is? If not, allow Him now to write His name upon your heart!
Going Deeper
Romans 1:8-15; Jeremiah 31:31-40
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Let your life point others to Christ.
For as were the days of Noah, so will be the coming of the Son of Man. —Matthew 24:7 ESV
Trust God and Believe
Thousands of years ago, Noah's world overflowed with evil, violence and corruption. The hearts of men and women were probably not too much different from society today. In the case of Noah's generation, God was so heartbroken by the choices people had made that he regretted creating them. God searched the earth and found one man, Noah, willing to hear Him and do His will.
Noah was a farmer who became a shipbuilder and the only evangelist. Imagine the trust He had in God to obey day after day, building a boat and following God's specific instructions, believing even though he had never experienced rain. It took him 120 years to build the ark. He shared the message of salvation to the people around him. They couldn't imagine rain, much less a flood. No doubt people made fun of him to his face and talked about him in town. People thought he was crazy—only his family believed him.
Noah believed in his heart and stayed on course. He finished his purpose and God did exactly what He had promised. The rain came, the flood covered the earth—and Noah and his family were the only ones who survived.
The Bible is clear—Christ will return—and it will be the same then as it was in the days of Noah. Many will refuse to believe He is coming back, and live their lives their way. Just as Noah held on to what he knew God had told him, you must stay faithful and believe by living your faith so that others will have an opportunity to know Christ and be saved.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING can you do to let your life point others to Him today?
Going Deeper
Genesis 6:9-22; Matthew 24:3-14
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Expectation plus action brings change.
For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith for faith, as it is written, "The righteous shall live by faith." —Romans 1:17 (ESV)
Each Step in Faith
Martin Luther King Jr. said, "Faith is taking the first step, even when you don't see the whole staircase." Many of the world changers, like Martin Luther King Jr., knew sitting around waiting for something to happen would not accomplish anything, and it certainly wouldn't bring the passion burning in his heart for civil liberty forward. He knew the Word of God and believed it—faith without works is dead. You have to put your faith in action and live it out every day.
That is what Martin Luther King Jr. did. Even when the odds were stacked against him and many naysayers telling him it wouldn't happen, he believed in the dream. Expectation plus action brings change.
The reality in King's heart didn't happen overnight, but required small steps of faith and corresponding actions. He became the catalyst that propelled that change. Martin Luther King Jr. was willing to put his faith in action—one step at a time and eventually his dream for civil liberties became a reality.
There are things God wants to do in you and through you, but it requires taking a step of faith and then taking that corresponding action.
Today's One Thing
Has God opened doors for you? When he does are you willing to step through?
Going Deeper
Romans 1:16-17; 2 Corinthians 5:1-10
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Resisting the temptation to judge others.
Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you. —Luke 6:37-38 (ESV)
Seeds of Grace
The house was a mess, but it always felt like a mess. With four boys, Candice found it nearly impossible to stay caught up on the laundry and hide the evidence of activity. She picked up the four pair of snowy, wet boots laying in the doorway from the garage and set them neatly to one side. She made sure she shut the laundry room door, silently hoping her sister-in-law wouldn't venture too far from the living room or kitchen during her visit.
She couldn't help but feel like a failure after her sister-in-law, Tara, visited. She was single, organized and meticulous about everything! She never hid her disdain for the lack of organization in Candice's house and always offered "advice" in the form of criticism about how she and her husband Dave, could do a better job with the boys. Now she was bringing her fiancé, Kurt, for introductions to the family.
Once they arrived and conversations began, Candice found herself really liking her soon-to-be brother-in-law. Kurt picked up quickly on Tara's jabs of correction and jumped in. "I come from a big family. I learned right away not to offer family advice to my siblings. I'm sure we won't have all the answers when we start our family, right Tara?" Tara smiled and Candice nodded, thankful for the compassionate grace.
As you are careful about your response in how others respond to the circumstances of life, consider you are sowing seed for some grace you might need during your own challenges in life.
Today's One Thing
The next time you're tempted to give some unwanted advice, take the opportunity to sow seeds of grace.
Going Deeper
Luke 6:37-42; James 4:11-12
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Your words are gifts you give to others.
I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned. —Matthew 12:36-37 (ESV)
The Gift You Give Today
Four-year-old, Stacey, reached into the small gift bag from her grandmother and pulled out a pair of colorful socks. "Socks," she cried. "I hate socks!" Her grandmother tried to console her, "There's another box, honey. The socks go with the outfit."
Quickly, her mother, Janet, pulled Stacey around the corner of the dining room and into the kitchen, just out of earshot of the small gathering of friends and family who had come to celebrate Stacey's birthday. Minutes later, after a quick but firm correction from her mother, Stacey walked back into the dining room with a big smile on her face. "Grammy, I like socks. Thank you for my present."
Your words are gifts you give to others. Like birthday presents carefully chosen and wrapped beautifully, they bring cheer, joy and excitement to both the giver and the receiver. When they are said in haste and without careful consideration, unlike gifts that can be returned, they can't be taken back.
Choose words that are beautiful gifts for others. Wrap your words with tender thought and encouragement and use them to bring joy into your marriage, your family, your workplace and even into the hearts of those you pass on the street.
Today's One Thing
What are some words you would like to give to those you love? Write them down and share them with them today.
Going Deeper
Psalm 19:14; Matthew 12:33-37
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It's not what you say you believe, but demonstrating it every day.
This is the message we have heard from him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. If we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. —1 John 1:5-6 (ESV)
The Authentic Life
Carrie was sick of fake people. She grew up in church watching people act one way in church and another in their daily life. She had been hurt by some of the kids in the college group when they told her she wasn't being very "Christ-like" and yet, the fact that they were excluding her from the group because she wasn't "good enough" made her all the more sure she didn't need Christian friends.
Tiffany noticed that Carrie hadn't been to church in quite some time so she texted her and asked if they could meet. At first, Carrie was reluctant and made excuses but finally gave in. As soon as they sat down with their coffee in hand, Tiffany made her purpose very clear. "I want to apologize for the way some of the college leadership has treated you, and ask for your forgiveness." "Why would you do that," Carrie asked. "You aren't one of the ones who shut me out."
"I didn't stand up and confront the wrong and I should have. Following Christ is not just saying what you believe, but actually living it. I want my actions to mirror the truth of God's Word inside of me."
Today's One Thing
How we live speaks to those around us. What choices do you need to make to demonstrate Truth in your relationships? How can you show Christ to others through your choices today?
Going Deeper
Isaiah 29:13-19; 1 John 1:5-9
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Fueling the passion for your relationship with God.
And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind." —Matthew 22:37 (ESV)
Fuel for the Fire
Cassie and Ed sat quietly outside by their fire pit as the last of the fire smoldered. What was hours ago a roaring flame was almost completely out. It had been a beautiful winter evening outside with their friends, as they stayed close and kept warm by the fire. "Ed," Cassie asked, "do you ever feel like your faith is smoldering, kinda like this fire?"
"Sometimes, I do," Ed admitted. "It's like all the busyness of life falls on top of my spirit and I get lost in it, forgetting to spend time in the Bible, in prayer and just being alone with God. Then I look up and there's just a little tiny spark left."
"Remember when we first found God," Cassie whispered. "We were so excited. We told everyone what God had done in our lives. We didn't really care if they wanted to hear it or not."
"Yes, I want it to be like that again," Ed said as he scooted closer to her. "Let's make a commitment to God and to one another this year to keep him the number one priority. I think that works best for me if I put it on my calendar and make time for him every day. We could schedule a little weekend retreat each month, set aside just for him." Cassie nodded her head in agreement.
Fuel the fire of your relationships with God today by scheduling time with God. Spend time in the Bible, reading His Word, in prayer, in worship.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING can you do today that will fuel the fire of your heart and cause you to be more passionate in your relationship with God? Will you act on it today?
Going Deeper
Romans 10:17; Psalm 119:105
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Serving your family and friends doesn't have to be grand gestures.
But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness. —Psalm 86:15 (ESV)
Lavish Others with Love
Jesus' first miracle was an unselfish act of service to his mother. Mary, Jesus and his disciples were guests at a wedding in the village of Cana. When the wine was gone, Mary came to Jesus for help. Jesus honored his mother and turned about 180 gallons of water into wine.
Serving your family and friends doesn't have to be grand gestures. It's the amount of love you put into them that makes a difference. God transforms each humble act of service you offer into a miraculous opportunity for the person who receives it.
God does not treat us as we deserve. Instead, He lavishes us with His unconditional love and asks us to honor Him by displaying that same love toward people.
So whether it's an act of service or a word of kindness, with God's help you can demonstrate God's grace and kindness to others... whether they "deserve" it or not!
Today's One Thing
Show an intentional act of kindness toward someone who has treated you unkindly.
Going Deeper
Psalm 111; Psalm 103:7-11
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God asks you to "clothe" yourself with behavior that pleases Him.
Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience... —Colossians 3:12 (ESV)
Dress Appropriately
What are you wearing today? Clothes are an obvious answer! But, what about your behavior?
When you begin a relationship with Jesus Christ, God wants to "strip away" your sinful nature and actions. He asks you to "clothe" yourself with behavior that pleases Him. When you exercise patience, for example, you are dressing appropriately to bring honor and glory to God.
The Bible encourages us to take a look at ourselves before we honk that horn or become angry at a sales associate to see what attitude we are wearing. Remember that those negative actions don't fit you anymore. Instead, you should practice behaviors that are a positive reflection of Jesus Christ.
Time spent praying and reading God's Word every day provides the grace to think of others before yourself and helps you practice patience with them. When you make sure you are dressed appropriately each day, your relationship with God and with others will improve!
Today's One Thing
Intentionally practice patience with everyone you meet today.
Going Deeper
Ephesians 4:1-6; Galatians 5:22
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Jehovah-Rapha, one of the names for God, means "the Lord who heals."
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. —Psalm 147:3 (ESV)
God is Your Healer
Jehovah-Rapha, one of the names for God, means the Lord who heals.
Jehovah-Rapha not only heals emotional hurts and broken hearts, but He understands the pain. During His time on earth, Jesus experienced insults, rejection and desertion from others. He knows the feelings that arise in you from the hurt. Jesus knows what it is to cry out to God.
Your Healer wants to take whatever pain you're carrying and restore you completely. Maybe it's something that happened when you were younger. Or perhaps it just happened yesterday. In the midst of your tears Jehovah-Rapha will embrace you if you will cry out to Him. If you're struggling with a broken relationship, ask God for healing with that.
Remember, the healing can begin when you admit your need and turn to Jehovah-Rapha.
Today's One Thing
Tell someone who is struggling with emotional pain about Jehovah-Rapha.
Going Deeper
Psalm 103:1-3; 1 Peter 2:24
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The Creator of the Universe longs to be your loving Father.
For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, "Abba! Father!" The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God... —Romans 8:15-16 (ESV)
Abba Father
Think about this... the Creator of the Universe longs to be your loving Father! He provides for your needs and cares about every concern. He is not only your Heavenly Father but your "Abba Father," which means "Da-Da" or "Pa-Pa." You can reach up to God, call Him "Da Da," and be welcomed into His arms and heart. God is sensitive, nurturing and safe.
Even if your relationship with your earthly father has brought you pain or disappointment, God is a loving Father. Appreciating the good and forgiving the bad in your father, can help to clear the way for you to fully experience God's love.
No father, except God, is perfect. Being aware of your unmet needs and your past hurts, is the beginning point to healing and forgiveness.
Today's One Thing
Thank your Abba Father for adopting you as His child.
Going Deeper
1 John 3:1; Luke 15:11-31
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You have access to the greatest force in the universe.
Ah, Lord GOD! It is you who have made the heavens and the earth by your great power and by your outstretched arm! Nothing is too hard for you. —Jeremiah 32:17 (ESV)
The Power of God
Creation is an amazing display of God's power! Think about it...the earth is one of nine planets that revolve around the sun. The sun generates more energy in one second than all humanity has produced since creation. With a diameter of approximately 860,000 miles, the sun could hold one million planets the size of the earth. Yet, the sun is just one among 100 billion stars in this galaxy.
God's power is so unlimited that He could speak a few trillion more universes into existence! He is more powerful than all the rulers on earth. God has more power than all the forces of nature. He is infinitely more powerful than Satan and his demons.
Doesn't that make you want to spend more time each day praising your awesome Creator? Whatever challenges you are dealing with today, God cares about you, and nothing is beyond His control. Draw on His power every day to become all He created you to be.
You have access to the greatest force in the universe—the awesome power of God!
Today's One Thing
Ask God what areas in your life need to be transformed by His power.
Going Deeper
Psalm 33:6-11; Jeremiah 32:17-19
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When people know you are a Christian, they are watching how you reflect the character of God.
And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit. —2 Corinthians 3:18 (ESV)
Reflect His Glory
Think how many times during the day you pass a mirror and check your appearance. When people know you are a Christian, they are watching how you reflect the character of God through your words and your actions.
As a member of His royal family, your loving Father desires to continually shape your character. As a result, your actions will be consistent with His calling on your life.
What a privilege to have the infinite, all-powerful God live His glorious nature through you! If your life consistently reflects His love, mercy, faithfulness and righteousness to others, imagine what a difference it can make in your family, church, neighborhood and workplace.
As your life begins to reflect more of Him, others will be drawn to your awesome King as they see His glory radiating through you!
Today's One Thing
Look for opportunities to reflect God's character through your words and your actions to others today.
Going Deeper
Romans 8:29-30; 2 Corinthians 4:4-6
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Despite our inconsistent circumstances, the One who remains steadfast and faithful is God.
Blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the Lord his God. —Psalm 146:5 (ESV)
God Never Changes
Change is always inevitable. Jobs, housing and relationships come and go. Our bodies change, along with our minds and emotions...sometimes positive and sometimes not.
Despite our inconsistent circumstances, the One who remains steadfast and faithful is God. His character and His Word never change. You can always put your hope and your trust in Him. Jesus said, "Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will not pass away." (Matthew 24:35).
Examine your heart daily and ask God to help you grow as a person who trusts in Him more despite your circumstances. As you reflect God's unchanging nature allow it to inspire you to consistently put your hope in God.
Today's One Thing
Choose a Scripture that has spoken to you and use it to encourage someone today.
Going Deeper
Psalm 39:7-13; Romans 12:10-13
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Why are we so dependent on time? Because our lives are limited.
Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever you had formed the earth and the world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God. —Psalm 90:2 (ESV)
He Has All the Time
We have clocks everywhere. On the wall, on the stove, on our phones and on our wrists. Why are we so dependent on time? Because our lives are limited. We have only so many days to accomplish our goals and our dreams.
But God has no limits. He is timeless. God is the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. He decided when the universe would begin and when it will end. God has all the time in eternity.
Your Heavenly Father also knew you before He created the Universe. As His child, you will live forever with Him! Your joy in Heaven will never end because He never ends! So thank God for that timeless truth and let His joy overflow into your relationships with others each day.
Today's One Thing
Each time you look at a clock, remember how much God loves you!
Going Deeper
Revelation 22:13; John 1:1-5
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David knew what it was like to experience great conflict with another person.
The Lord is my strength and my shield; in him my heart trusts, and I am helped; my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to him. —Psalm 28:7 (ESV)
Overcoming Conflict
When David wrote the Psalms, he knew what it was like to experience great conflict with another person. He had to run from King Saul, who was trying to destroy him. David hid alone in caves and ate whatever he could find. But God protected him and David was eventually crowned king of Israel. Through it all, David trusted in the Lord. Before he saw answers to his pleas, David gave thanks to God.
You can follow David's example by singing for joy and giving thanks to God in the midst of conflicts with others. As you trust God with all your heart, He will be faithful to see you through each challenge you face. He will help you walk in integrity and honor Him throughout your difficulty.
In every situation you can know that God will protect you and master the challenge if you let Him guide you.
Today's One Thing
Ask God to help you love that difficult person in your life.
Going Deeper
Psalm 23; Proverbs 19:23
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Think of the smell of your favorite flower.
Let my prayer be counted as incense before you, and the lifting up of my hands as the evening sacrifice! —Psalm 141:2 (ESV)
God Listens to You
Think of the smell of your favorite flower. Close your eyes and imagine the pleasure it gives you.
Throughout the Bible, there are images of incense as a symbol of prayers rising to God. When you talk to God, in Jesus' name, your prayer comes before Him as a sweet and pleasant aroma. It brings Him great joy. Your voice matters to Him. Even if you think you don't sound impressive, it impresses God—and He listens like your closest friend.
God not only listens to you, but He also promises to answer your needs according to His will. So bring your requests confidently to God every day knowing that He cherishes His time with you. Ask for His provision, peace and protection in your life. Time with you gives Him great pleasure!
Today's One Thing
As you talk to God today, imagine the pleasure your time together brings Him.
Going Deeper
Psalm 145:17-21; Jeremiah 29:11-12
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Are you feeling trapped, like there is nowhere to turn?
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. —Isaiah 43:2 (ESV)
You Will Get Through
If you had been one of the Israelites heading out of Egypt after years of slavery, what would have been your thoughts when you realized Pharaoh's army and over six hundred chariots were chasing after you? Would you have been afraid as the Israelites were? Would you have trusted God with a plan of escape? The Red Sea was up ahead and there was no way of crossing it. Would your mind have been whirling with worries of drowning?
God had led His people out of Egypt and He was about to show them how He would get them through this. He opened the Red Sea and made it possible for them to walk through it on dry land. He then destroyed the enemy when the waters of the sea came crashing down on them. God got the glory.
Are you walking with God through difficult times right now? Remember He is with you and will get you through.
Today's One Thing
Tell God you trust Him to get you through whatever you are facing. Do not allow yourself to worry. Put your hope in Him and watch expectantly.
Going Deeper
Exodus 14:21-31
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You may not be headed for an Olympic competition, but life is full of challenges that require you to be prepared and strengthened.
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us. —Hebrews 12:1 (ESV)
The Ice of Life
In order to train for the Olympics, serious figure skaters not only skate, but they take classes in another kind of discipline that isn't even considered an athletic sport. They take ballet classes. It strengthens their muscles and provides them with the grace that is so crucial on the ice. It trains them in the art of beautiful positioning of head, arms and legs.
What is your "secret" spiritual discipline that helps you win the gold medal in your relationship with God? Is there something you're committed to that helps you pass on the grace of God to those you meet each day?
You may not be headed for an Olympic competition, but life is full of challenges that require you to be prepared and strengthened. What is your next step to building a solid relationship with the One who created you and Who knows all that is best for you? Is it attending church on a regular basis or joining a Bible study? It could be spending a few minutes in prayer or Bible reading each day. Make a commitment and you'll be strengthened and full of grace the next time you hit the ice of life.
Today's One Thing
Identify one way you can build a stronger relationship with God today. Do it regularly.
Going Deeper
Galatians 6:7-10, Jeremiah 29:13
FEBRUARY 10
Obey More, Learn More
He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him." - John 14:21
In frustration many say, "Well, there's so much in the Bible I don't understand." Do you feel that way? But Mark Twain was once reported to have said, "It's not that part of the Bible I don't understand that gives me so much trouble; it's the part I do understand." I'm afraid that's true of many of us. We must learn to practice the Word of God.
There may be mysteries you don't understand, but you can understand when the Bible says "love one another," can't you? If you want to learn more about the Word of God, first you must obey the part you do know. You see, when it comes to obedience, the rich will get richer. It's not enough to recite the promises without obeying the commandments. The more you obey, the more you will learn and understand.
Keep the Word of God. That's a simple principle, but how important it is. Jesus said, "He that keeps my commandments, he it is that loves Me, and he that loves Me shall be loved of My Father and I will manifest Myself to him." You want Him to be real to you? Then begin to obey His Word.
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God will meet your needs as you work and trust Him.
And we prayed to our God and set a guard as a protection against them day and night. —Nehemiah 4:9 (ESV)
Work and Watch What God Will Do
The Jewish people had set out to rebuild the wall of Jerusalem. Their enemies were very much opposed to them doing so. They proceeded to intimidate the people by harassing them. They made fun of them and struck fear into them.
This didn't stop the Jews from doing what they knew was the right thing to do. They prayed and set to work. Under Nehemiah's guidance, they trusted that God would fight for them and they did the next thing that needed to be done to rebuild the wall. They were not afraid to work. As they worked they prayed, and God did indeed fight for them.
It is a good thing the people didn't throw in the towel and give up when they met opposition, because it was as they worked that God met their needs.
Do you have a challenge before you right now? Is your work more difficult than you imagined? Don't quit. Pray and then do the next thing.
Today's One Thing
Be willing to work as you pray, and trust God to do what you can't.
Going Deeper
Nehemiah 4, Proverbs 12:11
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Are you tired of moving two steps forward and then falling three steps back?
Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established. —Proverbs 16:3 (ESV)
Two Steps Forward
Roald Amundsen was a man with a plan and he stuck with it. He did not waver or doubt. He prepared, and then led a Norwegian team in a race to the South Pole in the year 1911. No matter what the weather was, his team traveled fifteen to twenty miles each day. He knew that, even in good weather, his team needed to stop, rest and refuel. He knew that sure and steady wins the race. And he did. He and his whole team made it to their destination.
Robert Scott, Amundsen's opponent, faced the same weather and the same challenges, but he lacked a steady plan. He would push his team to exhaustion in good weather and sit in his tent and whine when the weather was bad. This irregularity not only cost him the race, but it also cost him his life. In fact, none of his team lived to tell about the race.
Do you have some goals to reach? Make a plan for at least one in your life. Even if you fail on a particular day, get back at it the next. Keep the course and stay focused.
Today's One Thing
Ask for God to give you direction in one area of your life. Make a plan and stick with it.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 3:5-6
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Is it time for you to get out of the play and begin cheering from the sidelines?
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. —Philippians 4:6-7 (ESV)
On The Sidelines
The mother was so distraught over the choices of her adult children. She felt like her words kept falling on deaf ears. As she wrung her hands, her thoughts kept dwelling upon where their actions would lead them. Devastation was sure to come.
Then one day, as she was praying, God made it clear that it was time for her to get out of the game. She needed to stop planning the plays, running the ball, passing the ball, running defense and getting tackled. It was time for her to stand on the sidelines, cheer for her children and pray for them.
Are you struggling with the decisions your loved ones are making? Are there people in your life who aren't listening to your advice?
Maybe it's time to get out of the play and pray. Maybe it's time to only give advice when asked. Focus on your relationship with the Lord. Read His word and study it with others, and pray specifically.
Today's One Thing
Commit to stop worrying about the choices of your loved ones. Pray for them and put your hope in God.
Going Deeper
Psalm 42:5, Psalm 62:5-6
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Maybe, just maybe, forgiveness in this case was more for the forgiver than the forgiven.
For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. —Matthew 6:14-15 (ESV)
Liberty through Forgiveness
She went to sleep thinking about how she had been hurt. She awoke feeling wounded and defeated. How could someone who called herself a friend do this to me? Her stomach hurt and her heart ached as she waited to hear the words, "I'm sorry." She never did.
Then the thought occurred to her; God didn't say to forgive only when someone says she is sorry. He said to forgive. Period.
She picked up the phone and called her friend who had offended her, "I want you to know I forgive you." Unfortunately, there was no apology and the call ended. Even so, it was then that she felt one hundred pounds lifted from her shoulders.
Maybe, just maybe, forgiveness in this case was more for the forgiver than the forgiven. Either way, she knew she had done what God wanted her to do. Now she was free.
Are you harboring a grudge? Is there someone you need to forgive? For your sake, make the choice to let it go.
Today's One Thing
Give grace to someone in your life. Forgive if needed, and enjoy the liberty it brings.
Going Deeper
Mark 11:25, Ephesians 4:32, Colossians 3:12-13
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How can you know God more intimately?
His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence, by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire. —2 Peter 1:3-4 (ESV)
Become Determined to Know Him
Marla and Christine were hitting it hard at the gym. "Thanks, Marla, for sticking with me, staying committed and pushing me to go to the next level of health. Without you, I don't know if I could have hung in there and pushed through these last few weeks."
"It's powerful to have an accountability partner," Marla replied. "On those days that I want to stay in bed and skip out on my workout, it means texting you and admitting failure that day. I just couldn't do that so I just kept showing up." Christine smiled. "I think that's why I've made it this far because I know I'd have to call you."
"Now that we're starting to see a difference in our health, I wondered if you'd be interested in serving as my accountability partner spiritually. Through our time at the gym I've seen progress. It's because we're putting forth effort to change. I want to see that kind of change and growth in my spiritual life as well."
"Let's do it," Marla said. "I know that God will help us as we make the commitment to Him and to each other."
God has given you everything necessary to live your life with the goal of pleasing Him. Discover a more intentional life by getting to know Him personally and intimately.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING will you do today that will help you know God in a more intimate way?
Going Deeper
1 Peter 1:3-12; 1 Corinthians 7:17-24
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Do you always have a thankful heart?
To know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us. —Ephesians 3:19-20 (ESV)
With Gratitude and Thanksgiving
Fifteen-year-old Ryan sulked in the passenger seat as his mother, Janet started the car. Their trip to the mall had one mission—new shoes for school. Ryan had outgrown the ones he had, so they had to make a special trip to the mall.
"I don't know what the big deal is," Ryan started. "Dad would have gotten me the shoes I really wanted - and the jeans." Janet tried not to show her frustration. "We have to be careful with our finances right now, Ryan."
Janet turned the car in the opposite direction from home. "What are you doing," Ryan asked. "This isn't the way to the house." Janet replied, "I want to show you something." Ten minutes later Ryan said, "This is not a good part of town. You should turn around."
"Ryan, see that house on the corner?" Janet didn't wait for his response. "That's where I lived when I was your age. It wasn't in the nice part of town back then, either. Dad and I have worked hard to give you and your brothers the things we didn't have, but wanted. It's important to be thankful for what you have."
It's important to see things from a positive side. Instead of focusing on what you want or don't have, think about the rich blessings you do have as a result of knowing God.
Today's One Thing
Make a list of the things you are thankful for today. Spend some time thanking God for each of them.
Going Deeper
Ephesians 3:14-21
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If more families saw themselves working together as a team, there would be much less sibling rivalry as children or into adulthood.
If anyone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. —1 John 4:20 (ESV)
Encouraging Positive Sibling Relationships
Marsha and Doug encouraged their children to pitch in and finish up with their chores so they could have some extra family time this weekend. While Marsha was in the living room vacuuming, daughter Dayna folded the last of the laundry while Doug finished loading the last of the dishes into the dishwasher.
Doug closed the dishwasher and walked back toward the laundry room to throw the dirty dishtowels into the laundry basket, passing his youngest son's room on the way. He heard a commotion—the boys were fighting again. Doug stepped into the room and the older one, Greg, quickly told his dad that his room was clean. The youngest, Daniel's room was a mess. "Greg keeps bugging me and I can't get my room clean," Daniel complained. "Sounds like Greg has plenty of time to help you get that done," Doug replied. Greg moaned. "C'mon, it's all about team work. It takes the whole family to keep this household running strong," added Doug.
Most who have a warm, positive adult sibling relationship recall a certain time or perhaps a particular event when they bonded with their brothers or sisters. Parents usually get what they expect. If Mom and Dad expect their children to have unity, to work together and be part of the team, they usually follow through in their parenting to make it happen.
Today's One Thing
What can you do to encourage an all-for-one and one-for-all team mentality with your children?
Going Deeper
Ephesians 4:32; 1 John 4:7-21
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God offers hope in the midst of catastrophe.
While he was still speaking, there came from the ruler's house some who said, "Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the Teacher any further?" But overhearing[e] what they said, Jesus said to the ruler of the synagogue, "Do not fear, only believe." —Mark 5:35-36 (ESV)
Only Believe
God offers hope in catastrophe. It's natural to feel confused, frightened and without hope when faced with a crisis. One man, Jairus, a ruler of the synagogue at Capernaum came to Jesus who was surrounded by a crowd, fell down at his feet and begged for Jesus' help. He asked Jesus to come with him to his home because He believed if Jesus would do so, His daughter who was near death, would live.
In the midst of the conversation, someone touched Jesus and he felt healing power leave him. Jesus was willing to go with Jairus, but he wanted to find out who had touched him. He wanted to know who had been healed. While Jesus was speaking with the woman, messengers came from his home and told Jairus his daughter was dead. They even informed him there was no need to trouble Jesus now.
But Jesus told him not to be afraid, but instead believe. Jesus encouraged him to have hope. Imagine how that must have increased Jairus' faith. Not only did Jesus offer him hope, he gave him a promise. Jesus proceeded to Jairus' home and raised his daughter from the dead.
When we are faced with crisis, we have the opportunity to look at the situation from Jesus' perspective. No matter what you're facing, look to Jesus for hope and promise for your life today.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING do you need Jesus' perspective on today?
Going Deeper
Mark 5:21-33; Romans 12:9-21
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God's got a plan for every season of your life.
"Remember the former things of old; for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me, declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things not yet done,
saying, 'My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose.'" —Isaiah 46:9-10 (ESV)
A Purpose in Every Season
"I can't believe I am 43 years old and back in college," Nina told her hairdresser, Evie. "I hated school when I was in my twenties. That's why I never finished. Now, I have the opportunity to finally finish with the support of my employer. I never would have thought. Maybe now I can figure out what God called me to do in this life."
Evie smiled as she chipped away at Nina's bangs. "Well, I think you've been living your destiny all along. I agree God has something special for you, but being a mom is a destiny in itself. Look at your beautiful children. Without you, they would not have turned out like they did. God purposed you to raise them."
"That's true," Nina said, trying not to move her head. "God knew my story before I was ever born. I hope that He has been able to use me for His glory along my entire path. Even the tough stuff can help others when I am willing to share. Others can learn from my mistakes—especially my kids. And now there's a new season—a new chapter unfolding," she continued. "I'm so excited to discover what's next."
Discovering our talents, gifts, abilities and inclinations—all significant—may be less important than recognizing and operating under the basic assumption that God has a special plan for your life—no matter how young or old you are.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING can you do today that will help you become more obedient to God's purpose for this particular season of your life.
Going Deeper
Isaiah 46:8-13; Psalm 138:1-8
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When you choose to be intentional in your pursuit of God, everything can change.
For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. —Romans 8:5 (ESV)
In Intentional Pursuit of God
Aaron felt something deep within his heart—it was a sense that something wasn't quite right within his family. His wife seemed distant, the kids were constantly fighting and the atmosphere of his home seemed unsettled. He realized that when things at work got stressful, he became distracted and disconnected from his family.
He knew he needed to make a change and do something different in order to make things right. He also understood it wasn't something he could do in his own strength. So he became very intentional in his prayer time. He began to ask God how to be a leader in his home. He prayed that God would open his eyes to opportunity where he could speak words of encouragement and wisdom into the hearts of his children. He also asked the Lord to show Him the little things his wife wanted or needed to feel secure in their relationship.
Months later He found he enjoyed sharing his life more and more with the great God of the universe. He also began to see God's hand miraculously at work within his family.
When your heart is right and you choose to be intentional in your pursuit of God, everything can change.
Today's One Thing
How are you intentional in your pursuit of your relationship with God each day?
Going Deeper
Romans 8:1-11; Colossians 3:1-4
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It's the little things that sometimes make the biggest impression.
Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. —Ephesians 5:4 (ESV)
Honor God with Your Mouth
Dr. Benson walked into the operating room to a buzz of conversation that stopped immediately upon his entrance. As they prepared to get started on the next patient, he asked, "Why the sudden hush in conversation?"
The nurse to his right said, "Someone was asking why you didn't allow any foul language in the operating room." Dr. Benson smiled. He enjoyed sharing his rules with the new staff. "Well," he began. "I am a Christian, and I want to honor God in all I do and say. Since I'm in charge of the room while I'm in it, I don't want to hear foul language. God doesn't want to hear me, you or anyone else talk that way. That is my choice in how I desire to live my life to please Him."
One of the technicians looked up and said, "What if I slip up and say something you—or God—doesn't approve of?" Dr. Benson looked sternly at him. "I wouldn't like it, but I would give you grace and forgive you the first time. Maybe even the second time. But I would hope that you would respect my wishes." The tech nodded and didn't say another word.
It's the little things that sometimes make the biggest impression. Dr. Benson simply wanted to honor God in the workplace and had one simple rule that allowed him to do that. His intentional decision demonstrated to others his desire to bring glory to God in all he would say and do.
Today's One Thing
What simple and practical thing could you do today that would bring honor to God?
Going Deeper
Ephesians 4:17-32; Ephesians 5:1-15
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What if your good works are unappreciated?
Who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. —Philippians 2:6-7 (ESV)
When Is It Truly Serving?
Jenna offered to help with preparations for the youth retreat by going early and prepping food in the kitchen and making sure the cottages were clean. She was excited to get some quiet time alone after spending the holidays with her in-laws.
While she was packing for the retreat, she received a text from the pastor. PLEASE CONNECT WITH A FEW OF THE GIRLS. THEY HAVE OFFERED TO RIDE UP EARLY WITH YOU AND HELP YOU. Jenna's heart sank. I need this quiet time, she thought. How do I navigate this? The girls will slow me down in getting things done; the trip will be non-stop chatter. She fought a meltdown. She erupted with complaint to her husband, Ryan, "What am I going to do?"
Ryan smiled. "Honey, it's an opportunity to serve these young girls. They look up to you and want to spend time with you."
"I've poured so much into them, and never a single word of thanks. They take from me emotionally with all their drama. I hold my tongue, and respond with love and kindness—and for what?"
Ryan embraced her and looked deep into her eyes. "For God...if for nothing else, you're doing this to please Him. Even if none of the girls ever see the sacrifice you've made, God sees it. He's the One who notices. He's the One who appreciates it. Ultimately, you're giving to and serving Him."
Being appreciated is a wonderful reward for your efforts in showing kindness to others. Serving people is an essential aspect of living your faith, but what if your good works seem unappreciated? It's nice to be valued by loved ones or co-workers, but it's more important to remember who you are truly serving. Learn to imitate Christ by looking to your Heavenly Father for approval rather than others.
Today's One Thing
Today, do something unexpected that will relieve stress for someone else—make a phone call, wash their car, clean the kitchen, or put the kids to bed expecting nothing in return.
Going Deeper
Ruth 2:1-23; Philippians 2:1-11
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Are you investing in the Kingdom of God?
Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. And thereby put me to the test, says the Lord of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you a blessing until there is no more need. —Malachi 3:10 (ESV)
God's Return on Investment is the Highest
Five year-old Jason wiggled and squirmed during the family church service. Just a few Sundays a year the children didn't go to their classes so that families could experience worship together. Children would have the opportunity to see what the adults do. Jason tried to sing the songs he knew. He tried to listen to the preaching. Suddenly, he heard a word he'd never heard before—tithe. He wasn't sure what it meant, but it had something to do with giving back to God something that already belonged to Him.
Jason wanted the preaching to stop so he could ask his dad exactly what he had that belonged to God. He thought about the things in his house. He couldn't figure out what his dad had borrowed from God. As soon as the pastor said, "Amen," Jason was on it. "Daddy, I need to know what you borrowed from God that you gotta give back."
His father managed to postpone their conversation until they were in the car, headed home. "The pastor was talking about the tithe," he began. "That is considered ten percent of all that God blesses you with. Everything we have, all the money I make, all the things we own were provided by God. As a way of saying thank you, God asks for a tenth—a dime from every dollar—be given back to Him for ministry. So I give that money to pay for things the church needs."
Better than anything Wall Street has to offer is the investment return promised in God's Word. His blessings are sure to come when you faithfully give to God what is rightfully His.
Today's One Thing
Starting today, pray for God's oversight of your finances. Ask Him to remind you daily that it all belongs to Him in the first place—and He will honor your faithfulness!
Going Deeper
2 Corinthians 9:6-15; Mark 12:41-44
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Be intentional about bringing your family together around a common focus.
He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? —1 Timothy 3:4-5 (ESV)
Obedience Brings Blessing
"Mom, I'm eating dinner at Candy's," Shannon called from the living room as she grabbed her jacket and backpack. Her mother, Barbie, stepped toward the front door with a bowl she'd removed from the mixer still in her hand.
"You know that your father expects you at the dinner table tonight. He's allowed you to go with your friends the past few nights, but you know the rules. Every third night is family night. We all make a commitment to be here—together—for dinner."
"Mom!" Shannon started. "You know that no one else eats dinner around the table these days. Everything is on the go." Barbie smiled, "Well, we are not like everyone else. We do things differently. Family is important. One day you'll understand."
"I know! I know!" Shannon replied. "...when I have children of my own."
At the dinner table an hour later, it was her father's turn to say the blessing over the evening meal. "Lord," he began, "thank you for our family. We have our challenges and our differences, but we make time for one another. Thank you for giving me children that honor you by obeying me and following the rules of our home. I know you will bless them for their obedience. Amen."
Any resentment Shannon held in her heart about not getting to do what she wanted that evening faded away. Her father had just pronounced a blessing over her—and she knew he was proud of her.
Every day the distractions of life constantly pull families in different directions. It is important to be intentional about systematically bringing the family back together around a common focus.
Today's One Thing
Today, talk to your spouse about plans for your next family vacation - anticipating and planning something for the future will help build intimacy and unity in your family.
Going Deeper
Psalm 1:1-6; 1 Timothy 3:1-7
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You know your child is unique, so let him be different from you.
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. —Ephesians 6:4 (ESV)
Seeing Life from Your Child's Perspective
Jase was an athlete. He had lettered in track and field, baseball, football and basketball, and went to college on a baseball scholarship. He was thrilled when his son Caden was old enough to share his passions. He coached his baseball team the first few years that Caden played.
Then there was a shift when Caden entered middle school. He began to show a strong passion for music. He joined the choir and asked for violin lessons. When it came time for baseball signups in the spring, Caden told his dad, "I don't think I'll play baseball this time." Jase was devastated.
His wife Carolyn encouraged him not to be angry or let Caden think he was disappointed in him. It was very difficult for Jase. He took the matter to prayer and asked God to help him talk to his son. When he finally sat down with Caden, he was able to encourage him to pursue his love for music.
You know your child is unique, so let him be different from you. Celebrate individual strengths and try to see life from your child's perspective, showing respect for his personal preferences and fears. At the same time, never abandon your own convictions. Children need the security of immovable boundaries and guidelines for behavior. It's okay to prefer playing the violin to playing baseball, for example, but it's never okay to treat others with disrespect.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING could you encourage your child in today? Take time to do that today.
Going Deeper
Psalm 123:3-5; Deuteronomy 6:1-25
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Children need to be touched.
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. —1 John 4:7 (ESV)
Healing Touch
Gretchen's family were extremely affectionate. Hugs and kisses greeted most friends and family when they came through the door of their home. She and her husband, Craig, were expressive with their children with lots of hugs, kisses and saying "I love you."
When their oldest son, Sam, started fourth grade, Gretchen began to notice he avoided her hugs and kisses as she dropped him off at school. One afternoon when she picked him up, she asked him about it. "Sam, does it bother you when I hug or kiss you when you get out of the car in the morning at school?"
Sam scrunched his face up and looked at her sideways. "I don't want to hurt your feelings, Mom, but I am a young man. I think I'm old enough that my mom doesn't need to kiss me goodbye anymore—especially in front of my friends."
"Oh, okay," Gretchen replied. "I can respect that."
"But, Mom," Sam continued, "you can still hug and kiss me at home."
People need to be touched. Studies have shown that infants who are massaged thrive better than those left untouched. Children diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder also respond to touch and become calm. So lavish your child with appropriate forms of physical affection. As they grow older, take into consideration teenage sensitivities, but never forget that they need touch, too.
Today's One Thing
How do you express love to your children?
Going Deeper
Psalm 123:3-5; Deuteronomy 6:1-25
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What are you saying? Your actions speak louder than words.
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. —Matthew 5:16 (ESV)
Practice What You Teach
When Bridgett was caught in a lie, her mother, Rachel, sent her to her room to think about her actions and what the Bible said about lying. A few minutes Rachel went into her daughter's room to talk about the incident and offer serious correction.
"Bridgett," she began, "lying is serious. It is a habit that develops and then people quit believing what you say. They stop trusting you because you don't always tell the truth. "But Mom," Bridgett replied. "It was a little, tiny lie—like when I answer the phone and you tell me to say you're not home."
Rachel swallowed hard. Bridgett was right, she thought. A lie is a lie.
The saying, "actions speak louder than words," rings true. If you tell your kids not to lie, and then ask them to tell the salesman you're not home when he calls, your instruction and actions don't add up. If you ask them to respect their teachers while you badmouth your boss, don't expect good behavior reports at parent/teacher conference time. Practice what you teach!
Today's One Thing
What one response do you seem to be challenged by the most in practicing what you teach as a parent? Ask God to help you be intentional to break that habit starting today.
Going Deeper
Ephesians 5:1-33; Matthew 5:13-16
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Can you admit when you're wrong to your children?
Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy. —Proverbs 28:13 (ESV)
Admitting When You're Wrong
Kirk had a really rough day at work, and it affected his mood. He hardly said a word to his family through dinner. Later that evening his daughter, Grace, brought him her daily folder. There was a note from her teacher about an incident that had happened in class that day. Grace would have to serve detention the next three days for her actions.
Kirk exploded with anger. "Grace, this is the third time already this year that you've gotten in trouble. I can't believe you have detention again! "Tears filled Grace's eyes. "Daddy, this time it wasn't my fault." "I don't want to hear it," he yelled. "Go to your room."
As Grace walked out of the living room, Kirk's heart sank. He knew he had not responded appropriately to his daughter. After he calmed down, he went into her room and apologized. "Honey, I was wrong," he said tearfully. "I shouldn't have yelled, and I should have listened to your side of the story. Will you forgive me?"
Grace reached up to hug him, "Yes, I will, Daddy," she said softly. "We all have hard days."
As parents, we make mistakes. Children intuitively know that, too. If you're willing to say, "I blew it—I'm sorry," the children learn that the relationship is more important than being right or wrong. It gives children the freedom to admit their mistakes as well.
Today's One Thing
Have you made a mistake lately that you need to admit to? Ask God to give you grace and strength to share with your child.
Going Deeper
Acts 2:42-47; Matthew 18:1-35
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There is no time limit on how long you should pray for your breakthrough.
Pray without ceasing. —1 Thessalonians 5:17 (ESV)
Don't Stop Believing
When the phone call came, it was utterly unexpected, and more like something out of a dream.
"Mom?" There was a pause, the wail of a siren in the background. "It's me."
Janis hardly knew what to think. "Sarah? Honey, where are you? Are you okay?"
"Yes, Mom, I'm all right." Janis swore she could hear her daughter's smile. It's been so long since she'd actually seen it. "I'm at the bus stop downtown. I was wondering if you could come get me."
Janis' heart leaped in her chest. But she also remembered her condition. "You know what I told you six months ago. You have to give up that life. You have to be ready to leave those people behind and—"
"I know, Mom. And I have. I'm ready. It took this long, too long. But I'm ready. And I'm a little hungry, too."
Janis knew her response betrayed her tears, but she hardly cared. "I'm grabbing the car keys now, sweetie. I'll be right there, and—I love you."
How long should you pray for your miracle? Whether you are believing God for a financial need, a job, the mending of a broken relationship, or even the return of a prodigal, the answer is clear. Keep praying; keep trusting; never let go of your hope in Him. When the night in your soul seems darkest, His light will still shine through.
Today's One Thing
Ask God again to perform the incredible for you, and give Him praise in the waiting.
Going Deeper
Romans 1:1-12; Ephesians 6:10-20; Colossians 1:3-14
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Good physical health habits will feed your spiritual life.
Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him. —Colossians 2:6 (ESV)
Fresh Vitality
Rick locked the front door and felt the brisk morning air brush his face. The sun still rested behind the mountains, but the light of the coming sunrise traced the sky, kissing the thin clouds with a pink hue. He didn't want to get up early this morning; it'd been a long week. Yet he rose and put on his exercise gear anyway, knowing that once he got outside, he'd be good to go.
He stopped jogging after the knee surgery. Age was relentlessly catching up to him. Still, he could walk—the fitness books said to "walk with purpose"—and so he did, most every morning, understanding that his present and future health was not only important to him and his family; it was important to God. To serve His Lord with continued vigor, he needed to be strong. "Lord, keep me safe as I walk, and let it bring energy to my body and soul. Amen." Prayer spoken, Rick took his first step onto the sidewalk.
You've likely heard the saying, "Exercise is its own reward." That's true, but even more so for Rick, because the discipline he gained by consistently walking also fed his persistence to serve God, study His Word, and maintain His prayer life. Your physical walk—or whatever exercise is best for you—will also aid your spiritual walk in Him. So move your body and stay healthy, and you'll bring fresh vitality to your spirit and soul.
Today's One Thing
Spend 30 minutes exercising, then thank God for what He enabled you to achieve.
Going Deeper
Psalm 37:23-31; Proverbs 4:10-22; Colossians 3:12-17
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Each day is a gift from God, and He'll be with you in the triumphs and the toil.
Everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil – this is God's gift to man. —Ecclesiastes 3:13 (ESV)
His Promised Presence
Nicole closed the door and walked into the backyard. Her hand wiped away the perspiration from her brow as she squinted toward the fast-setting sun. "I never thought this day would end," she said quietly, seeing it all again, flash screens of her day shuffling by as though she was flipping the lever on a toy View-Master. The coffee sloshing onto Dave's lap, not enough to burn him but plenty enough to stain his new slacks; Justin tripping and scraping his hand as they rounded the last corner on the walk to school; the hose on the washing machine splitting open to spray cold water all over the laundry room. It had certainly been a day for spills, of that she was certain.
Then Nicole glanced inside to spy her husband and son clearing the kitchen table—and she couldn't help but smile. She looked back at the horizon, the sun now tucked behind the hills. "Thank you, Lord," she said, "for giving me this day, the bad and the good." She felt the warmth of His presence with the soft orange glow of the sky.
Each day is a gift from God. That doesn't mean it'll be trouble-free—but it is yours, given by a loving Lord who promises to be with you in the triumphs and the toil. Allow that assurance to cause you to take pleasure in what has already happened, and spark hope within you for what's still ahead.
Today's One Thing
Look back at the events of this day with thankfulness for how God has been with you.
Going Deeper
Psalm 34:1-10; Hebrews 10:19-24; 32-36
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There are moments in life when we can only trust in the provision of God.
For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. —2 Timothy 1:7 (ESV)
Never Let You Down
"Honey, you know there's no way we can do this right now."
Will looked at his wife Emily and saw the frustration etched in her face. No, it was something more diabolical. Fear.
"But you know we have no other choice. We can't make it without a car." He felt his leg muscles tightening, his body ready to run, to flee from this latest financial blow. But something, someone, held him firm. "It's been hard enough you having to ride the bus every day to and from the restaurant after the other car broke down. We have to get this one fixed."
He watched Emily slump deeper into the sofa. She took a deep breath. "But how?"
Will called forth all the faith he could draw from his spirit. He sat down next to Emily and took her hand. "We'll take what's left in the savings, which should cover the repair. Then we'll pray... a lot. We have to trust God. He's never let us down in the past. He won't start now."
There are situations in life when we come to the end of ourselves and can only trust in the provision on God. Yet as we rely on the Lord, a curious thing happens: the fear that once paralyzed us is vanquished by the Holy Spirit and replaced with His strength. As His power and love is kindled within us, we also find a self-control and perspective that can only come from God. Believe Him today!
Today's One Thing
Trust God to provide for your need, and allow Him to remove your fear.
Going Deeper
Jeremiah 42:7-12; Romans 8:12-27
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Are you hesitant to forgive someone who has hurt you?
Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. —Colossians 3:13 (ESV)
Set Yourself Free
Cassie clinched her fist and her jaw tightened. "What is it," her mother, Sandra, asked. "It's that girl, Rebecca that accused me of stealing her Spanish notebook. She never said she was sorry for accusing me, even after the principal found it at the bottom of her locker. That was, of course, after they had searched my locker for it."
"Honey, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I know it hurt your feelings for someone to think you would steal."
"Yes, almost everyone believed her."
"Well, I know it's hard, and she didn't apologize, but you need to forgive her anyway," Sandra encouraged. "Anger, bitterness and resentment are natural feelings when someone has hurt you. But you have to let go of those feelings or they will eat you up inside. God loves you and He wants you to forgive, for your benefit more than anyone else's."
"It's hard," Cassie, replied, with tears in her eyes. "I'm still angry at her. Will you pray with me now, before I go inside, that God will help me let it go?" Sandra took Cassie's hand and they bowed their heads.
Are you hesitant to forgive someone who has hurt you? Corrie ten Boom said, "Forgiveness is the key that unlocks the door of resentment and handcuffs of hate. It is a power that breaks the chains of bitterness and the shackles of selfishness." Set yourself free by choosing to forgive today.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING do you need to forgive today? Take a moment and talk to God about it now.
Going Deeper
Matthew 26:26-29; Luke 24:44-48
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God has authorized you to reach your destiny.
Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised. —Hebrews 10:35-36 (ESV)
You CAN!
It would be a catastrophe if you missed the opportunities to obtain your complete potential just because you lacked confidence.
In her book, So Long, Insecurity: You've Been A Bad Friend To Us, Beth Moore writes: "As long as we live, our self-absorption and our insecurity will walk together, holding hands and swinging them back and forth like two little girls on their way to a pretend playground they can never find. Human nature dictates that most often we will be as insecure as we are self-absorbed. The best possible way to keep from getting sucked into the superficial narcissistic mentality that money, possessions, and sensuality can satisfy and secure us is to deliberately give ourselves to something much greater...[Christ] showed us that giving, rather than getting, is the means to receiving...to find yourself, your true self, you must lose yourself in something larger."
God has given you everything you need to reach the full potential He has placed within you. When you know who you are in Christ, you can realize your dreams and desires. He promised to guide you and make all of His resources available to you. With His help, you can tackle any challenge life throws your way.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING do you need to settle in your heart today so that you can walk confidently into the future God has for you?
Going Deeper
1 John 3:19-24; Psalm 20:7
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When you come together to serve one another, you receives more than you may ever expect.
Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered. —Proverbs 11:25 (ESV)
The Gifts of Friendship and Service
Maggie's dogs were barking. Something was going on in the front yard. She peeked out the kitchen window to see a team of people traipsing around in her front yard. Still in her housecoat, she opened the front door and Peter, a friend of her husband, Michael, from their church group, stood in front of her with a weed-eater in hand.
"Hey Maggie," he started, "We thought we'd come and work on the yard today. I know you have had your hands full with Michael deployed, so here we are." Maggie was speechless so she just smiled. Peter continued, "If you'll open the garage door, we'll get the riding lawn mower fired up and mulch these leaves up for you."
"Right away," Maggie replied softly. "I'll get dressed and come and help you guys, too."
"Oh, no." Peter said adamantly. "This is our gift to you and Michael."
A few hours later Maggie brought some tea and sandwiches out onto the back patio and motioned for the team to come on over and take a break. About ten men and women settled on her back porch. "Thank you all for coming and doing this. The yard looks 100 times better than it has since we moved in. It is truly a gift."
When you come together to serve one another, you receive more than you may ever expect. Share the love of God through the gifts of friendship and service today.
Today's One Thing
Where would the Lord have you demonstrate His love through service today?
Going Deeper
Matthew 25:35-40; 1 John 3:11-24
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Perseverance is the key to attaining your goals and reaching your dreams.
Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. —James 1:12 (ESV)
By Perseverance
Going to school to finish his bachelor's degree with a full time job and a family was an overwhelming thought to Darin, from the very beginning. He and his wife, Jane, had prayed about it and felt it was the right thing to do. "We'll make adjustments in our schedules to accommodate your studies. I'll take up slack with the boy's activities too."
Over the next year and a half, Darin pushed hard. There were days he really wanted to quit. He felt the drain of energy, but he kept his goal in sight as he remained faithful to his commitments. He was able to keep his grades high, make time for his studies, his job and even make most of the boys' baseball games and some of their school activities.
He took the whole family out to dinner and a movie to celebrate his achievement the day he received his degree in the mail. Six months later, he was offered a promotion—which would never have been a possibility with his company without the completed degree.
Perseverance is the ability to remain fixed on something until it is finished. It is the key to attaining your goals and reaching your dreams.
Today's One Thing
Is there something you are striving to accomplish? Hold fast to your commitment and refuse to give up today.
Going Deeper
James 1:2-17; Galatians 6:1-9
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Are you still rescuing your child from life lessons he or she needs to learn?
Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity. —1 Timothy 4:12 (ESV)
Intentionally Parenting Your Teen
Colton's father, Josh, noticed each morning that his son was hitting the snooze button more and more frequently. He mentioned to his wife, Denise, "I think Colton is staying up too late and having trouble getting up in the morning." Denise smiled. "I guess this is our first test in treating him like an accountable young man now that he's 13. He will have to suffer the consequences."
"Okay, so we're agreed that we're not going to 'help' him with this," Josh confirmed. "Right," Denise replied.
The next morning Colton hit the snooze button one too many times and then bolted to the kitchen to find his breakfast on the table, cold. "Mom, why didn't you wake me up," he asked shoveling his food into his mouth. "I'm going to miss the bus."
"You're a teenager now," Denise told him. "It's your responsibility to get up and get ready in time for the bus." He looked at his father, for support. "Better bust a move," his Dad affirmed his mother's remark.
Colton slid his feet into his shoes, grabbed his coat and backpack with one hand, and shoved his toast into his mouth with the other as he ran out the front door just as the bus driver honked.
As the door slammed shut, Josh said to Denise. "That was kinda hard, but I kept telling myself, I will not rescue my child from life lessons he needs to learn—when I do, I weaken him." She winked at him and tossed him his lunch as she said, "Way to go, intentional parent!"
Today's One Thing
Are you still rescuing your child from life lessons he or she needs to learn? What ONE THING can you do today to help them take responsibility for themselves?
Going Deeper
1Timothy 4:6-16; Romans 13:1-14
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Keeping your commitments means doing what you say you're going to do—not some of the time but all of the time.
I will not violate my covenant or alter the word that went forth from my lips. —Psalm 89:34 (ESV)
Keeping the Trust
Gretchen was tired of Brad's lame excuses. He was her co-worker, not her employee, but his delays on his project cost her team time, money and resources. She decided to confront him one afternoon. "Brad, can I talk to you," she asked politely interrupting his thoughts as he sat in front of his computer.
"Sure," he replied. "What's up?"
"I'm extremely frustrated in trying to meet our deadlines for upcoming projects. I really need your help. When you tell me you can deliver your part of the creative elements on a certain date, I take you at your word. However, over the past few months, I no longer trust you to keep your commitments. I need a solution to help me facilitate our timing. It sets our team back every time I have to make adjustments because your deadlines are missed."
Brad squirmed uncomfortably. "I know I'm not good at managing my projects," he admitted. "What can I do?"
"First, give me a realistic date that you are truly going to work toward. Hit that date 9 out of 10 times, and I'll give you grace on the tenth one. When you are committed, it puts money into the company, and it makes you look successful in front of the team."
"Deal," Brad agreed, shaking Gretchen's hand.
Keeping your commitments means doing what you say you're going to do—not some of the time but all of the time. Let God be our example—He always keeps His commitments.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING could you do today that would help you keep the commitments you've made?
Going Deeper
Psalm 89:19-37; Ecclesiastes 5:1-7
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Maybe your life seems ordinary and common to you, but you were created by the Master Artist—God Himself.
As it is my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but that with full courage now as always Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. —Philippians 1:20-21 (ESV)
Hope and Great Expectation
Jarod's girlfriend, Tabitha, was a beautiful artist. When they first met, she was reluctant to share her artwork with him. Through his encouragement and praise, he pressed her to share her talent with the world. As he introduced her to friends and shared her talent with them, he was able to connect her to a local art gallery that showcased some of her pieces. A few weeks later two of her pieces were sold for more than she ever imagined.
As a result of her newfound success, the owner of the gallery invited her to participate in an upcoming artist spotlight and asked her specifically to create a few brand new pieces just for this particular show. Tabitha was delighted and nervous.
She privately worked away in her studio on the new pieces. She took Jerod to the exhibit a few minutes early for a private reveal of her work. As she unveiled each one, his response of amazement and excitement were the best gift she could have imagined. "They are each some of your best work yet," he declared proudly.
Maybe your life seems ordinary and common to you, but you were created by the Master Artist—God Himself. As you give yourself to God each day with hope and great expectation, you will find you will discover hidden promises within you that make you a masterpiece, unique and special for Him.
Today's One Thing
What are you expecting from God today? Talk to Him about it.
Going Deeper
Philippians 1:19-26; Ephesians 2:1-10
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You are the direct result today of how you've managed the more or less of your life.
I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live... —Deuteronomy 30:19 (ESV)
Managing the More or Less of Your Life
Lisa was learning that life is a series of tradeoffs. To have more of what she wanted, she needed to remove some of the things that were less important in her life.
At a recent checkup, her doctor informed her of his concerns about a rise in her blood sugar levels. He encouraged her to eat more fruits and vegetables, remove the sugary snacks and get thirty minutes to an hour of exercise a day. She agreed those were some good choices she wanted to add into her life.
Her challenge was that she wanted to help people. When the hospital called and said they were short on volunteers for a particular day, she usually dropped everything and filled in—several times a week in addition to her normal volunteer schedule. If family or friends needed a last minute baby sitter, cake made for a bake sale, or other things, she squeezed them in. That usually meant neglecting her commitment to take care of herself.
She prayed and asked God to help her keep her schedule. When people called and asked her to do something not on her calendar, she began making it a habit to get her calendar and see what she could trade out for that time. She refused to cut out her exercise time each day as well as the time she needed to prepare healthy meals and snacks for her family.
Her persistence paid off. In six months, she learned to say "no," when she needed to, and a visit to the doctor showed her sugar levels had returned to normal.
To have more of what we want, we must intentionally have less of what we don't want. That's effectively managing the more or less of your life. You are the direct result today of how you've managed the more or less of your life.
Today's One Thing
What do you want more of, and what do you want less of in your life? Make a list of 5 things you want more of and 5 things you want less of. Then, choose ONE THING to focus on this week to add to and take from to intentionally manage the more or the less in your life.
Going Deeper
James 1:12-18; Philippians 4:2-9
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Your relationships with God should be a big part of who you are.
See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him. —1 John 3:11 (ESV)
Identified through Relationship
Have you ever been introduced by way of relationship: Paula's daughter, Stephanie's friend, Tom's assistant or Liz's accountant? These type of introductions in no way provide your new acquaintance with a real understanding of who you are. They seldom give much of a clue as to your personality traits, character or identity.
Can you imagine someone introducing you by way of your status as a child of God? What if you were introduced as "She's so full of love, just like your Heavenly Father," or "She's so creative, just like her father, God"! Has anyone ever said something like, "He's so discerning; so full of wisdom," or "She radiates with a peace that few people have"?
Arlene Raven said, "The way in which we think of ourselves has everything to do with how our world sees us." Your relationship with God should be a big part of who you are. With God as your father, others should see His character and nature flowing from your personality. There is no better way to be identified than as His child.
Today's One Thing
What parts of who you are reflect the character and nature of God?
Going Deeper
1 John 3:11-24; Ephesians 5:1-14
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Did God place you on the planet for a time like this?
For if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father's house will perish. And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this? —Esther 4:14 (ESV)
Born for Such a Time as Today!
In the Old Testament, Esther, was a Jewish woman. She won the favor of the King of Persia and became his queen. Haman, one of the king's men, plotted to wipe her people—God's people—completely out of the kingdom in which he lived. Esther's cousin, who had been like a father to her, heard of Haman's plan and sent word to Esther saying, "Who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?"
To go into the king's presence without an invitation could mean her death. She sent word back to her cousin asking all of her people to fast and pray before she went before the king. She says, "When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish."
When we read a story like Esther's, we can see that she was there for a specific reason. God used her to save His people in her day. She didn't know that she would live. She put her life in God's hands and trusted Him with her purpose.
Did God place you on the planet for a time like this? For what purpose did God place you in the earth? Whether you know it or not, He has given you a specific purpose.
Today's One Thing
Become intentional in understanding what your God-given purpose is. Seek Him for it today.
Going Deeper
Esther 4:1-17; Psalm 139:13-18
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Marriage is a picture of God's love for His church.
Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace. —1 Peter 4:8-10 (ESV)
Is Your Husband Your Superhero?
"Angie, you and Clark seem to have a great relationship," her friend Pamela said. "I've noticed you are always so positive about him. I've been around other women who whine and complain about their husbands, but you are always cheering him on, telling others what a great father and husband he is."
"He really is amazing," Angie commented. "The beginning was really rocky. We were young and I had a lot of baggage coming into the marriage. The first five years were a real nightmare. We were too worried about what others would think so we didn't consider marriage counseling an option. Instead, we both began to entertain the thought of divorce. The more I thought about it, the more I imagined passing our son back and forth. Since I am a child of divorce, I didn't want that."
Angie took a breath and then continued. "We decided we were going to do this. We learned to work extremely hard to understand each other. We began to compliment the strengths we saw in each other, rather than tearing each other down at our weakest points. We practiced grace and accepted mercy."
"Through prayer with each other, trust in God, some great books—and God's divine appointment to move us hundreds of miles away from friends and family where we had no choice but to lean on each other, we came through the fire with a strong marriage. We'll celebrate 30 years of marriage this month and I have to honestly say, he is my superhero and my biggest fan!"
Marriage is a sacred institution. A man is to love his wife as Christ loved the church and a woman is to reverence and respect her husband. It's a picture of God's love for His church.
Today's One Thing
What are some of the things you love most about your spouse? Tell him or her those things today.
Going Deeper
1 Peter 4:1-11; Ephesians 4:17-32
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God created each one of us, each individually different to complement one another.
For at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of light is found in all that is good and right and true), and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord. —Ephesians 5:8-10 (ESV)
We Are Better Together!
It was tough going back to college as an adult, but Kristin knew she needed to do it in order to pursue the passion in her heart to help people. Many of her classes required team projects, which she hated because she feared others who refused to work as hard as she did would cause her grades to suffer.
She prayed and asked God to help her work with others and be an inspiration to her team instead of the one who nagged them about meeting deadlines. She connected with a team that was in most of her classes and they decided to form a permanent team throughout the remainder of their course work through graduation.
She began to see that God had blessed her with a team that complemented one another's strengths and weaknesses. When it came to project management, organizing and attention to detail—she was there. Another in her group was extremely analytical and had a gift for all the mathematical and technical issues. Another was creative and able to stretch the team to go to the next level—making their projects much more than Kristin dreamed.
"Lord, thank you," Kristin prayed. "You have shown me how we need each other. And when you're in the midst of it, we can work together and become better than we would be individually."
Today's One Thing
Is there something you are struggling with today where you could use some help. Ask someone to join your team today.
Going Deeper
1 John 4:19-21; 1 Peter 5:6-11
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The next time you want to ask someone about their future plans, consider your words.
Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. —1 Thessalonians 5:11 (ESV)
The Right Words of Encouragement
Erica wasn't sure she wanted to go home for her cousin Miriam's wedding. She complained to her friend, Paige, "I just so don't want to have to deal with those questions like, 'When are you going to settle down? Find a husband? Have a few children?"
"I know," Paige replied. "In other words, they want to know, when we're going to get a life like they have."
"It's not like that isn't something I eventually want—but it's not top of mind right now. I like my life, my friends, and my career," Erica continued. "I like that I'm making it on my own. And I wish they'd just trust that when God brings the right man into my life, I'll be listening to Him and follow God's direction. I'm fine with His timing for that to come into my life."
"Sometimes these questions can be hurtful," Paige offered. "I try to give them grace thinking they just don't know better. It was really hard last Christmas after Jeff and I broke up, for those I love to say things that hurt me unintentionally. And then I reacted badly and my mother felt the need to explain why."
Erica joked, "Maybe I should buy a t-shirt and wear it that says, "I love my life just like it is. Thanks for NOT asking!"
The next time you want to ask someone about their future plans, consider your words. A better question might be--What is God doing in your life? And, would you be willing to share?
Today's One Thing
How can you encourage someone today with your words?
Going Deeper
John 6:60-71; Deuteronomy 17:14-20
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Success in managing your emotions is a choice you make each day.
For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. —Galatians 5:17-18 (ESV)
Keeping a Handle On Your Emotions
Alisha was tired and overwhelmed. She had two sick toddlers and a new baby that wasn't sleeping all night. She was frustrated with Jeff, her husband, whose business took him away from home in the middle of this mess and so he was not there to help.
After a third difficult night, she had an emotional meltdown during a phone conversation with Jeff when he asked her how she was doing. "I just can't do this alone," she cried, "I am a mess." Jeff let her vent for a few more minutes and then said, "Honey! I know this is hard, but you've got to get ahold of yourself. Is there any way your mom or my sister could maybe come over and give you another set of hands? Sometimes we need to ask for help."
After taking a deep breath and holding it for a second, Alisha calmed down. She wanted to scream but instead, admitted that he was right. She needed to ask for help. "Yes, please call your sister, and I'll text my mom. Together maybe they can help me stay sane until you get home."
Success in managing your emotions is a choice you make each day. When you try to run from them, deny that you have them, blame others for them, or ignore them, you do so at great risk to yourself and to those that you love. Sometimes you must be willing to ask for help.
Today's One Thing
What do you do to manage your emotions? How do you recognize when you are at a tipping point?
Going Deeper
Galatians 5:16-24; Ephesians 6:11-17
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Train your children for their own journey toward the intentional life in Christ by demonstrating lifelong habits of Bible study and prayer in your own life.
Even a child makes himself known by his acts, by whether his conduct is pure and upright. —Proverbs 20:11 (ESV)
Train Your Children for Their Own Journey
As Megan shopped for groceries, a loud cry of another child screeched through the grocery store. Her tuned ears knew it was the sound of a tantrum, just beginning to wind up. Her own three year-old, Michael, looked at her with big eyes. He took a deep breath and asked, "That little boy isn't obeying his mommy, is he?"
"She smiled at her son, and said "No! No, he's not. But you are being very obedient. Thank you for helping me." She glanced back at her shopping list, thankful that she'd marked everything off of her list and could exit the store quickly.
Long before He was identified as the Savior of the world, those who knew Him, even as a child held Jesus in high esteem. Luke 2:52 says, And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and man. The Bible provides few particulars about Jesus' life as an adolescent, but good reputations are earned, not conferred by happenstance.
Stature is often in reference to physical height, but it can also denote esteem, honor, respect and reverence. From boyhood on, Jesus certainly practiced a virtue that others noticed.
The Bible provides a clear picture of the nature and character of the life Jesus lived. God wants all His children – both young and old – to grow steadily in His wisdom and knowledge until we begin to resemble Him in our thoughts, words and actions. One of the best places to start training your children for their own journey toward the intentional life in Christ is to demonstrate lifelong habits of Bible study and prayer in your own life, and model it for them.
Today's One Thing
One of the best places to start training your children for their own journey toward the intentional life in Christ is to demonstrate lifelong habits of Bible study and prayer in your own life, and model it for them.
Going Deeper
Luke 2:41-52; Proverbs 20:1-11
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Working together as a team gives everyone the opportunity to share in meeting the needs of the family.
Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. —Colossians 3:23-24 (ESV)
Working Together for Family
"I guess I never really thought I would be a stay at home mom," Carolyn commented to her friend Tara. "My mom stayed home with us, until my parents divorced and then she went to work to support us. I started working at sixteen, while still in high school. After Kevin and I had our first child, Jayce, I stayed home with him for about three months. I thought I was going to go crazy."
"Financially," Tara admitted, "staying home with the kids was never an option for me. We need two incomes to make ends meet. I think I would love to stay home, but my husband, Britt, never supported me on that. The hardest thing is balancing the 40-plus hours a week and keeping up with the family's needs."
"Planning and having a routine is vital to staying on top of things," Carolyn remarked. "The times we've been without a set schedule or didn't follow through, turned to chaos. With some flexibility when needed, we follow a pattern throughout the week...the kids' outside activities, crockpot meals, laundry on certain nights...the kids have responsibilities, and Kevin, he really does pitch in and help."
"I can see how important it is to stay on the same page as a family," Tara agreed. "Maybe you can share some of your recipes and give me some pointers in how to keep things moving forward through the week." "Happy to," Carolyn smiled, "I'll send you a copy of the schedule I post on the fridge, too."
Working together as a team is important to family dynamics. It gives everyone the opportunity to share in meeting the needs of the family. Parents can lead by modeling work and play for the family. It gives children a sense of responsibility, achievement and an understanding of what it means to be contributing part of the whole.
Today's One Thing
Is your family a great team? What can you do this week to encourage your team to work together for the common goals of the family?
Going Deeper
Proverbs 31:10-31; Colossians 3:18-25
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Help your son- or daughter-in-law succeed with their new family.
But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. —2 Corinthians 12:9 (ESV)
Your New Role as an In-Law
"I just don't get it," Michelle complained, to her friend, Bridgett. "We raised Stephanie in church, all her life, and yet she married, Paul, who has no desire to know God. He just doesn't fit with our family. He's so different."
Bridgett put her coffee cup down. "I know you raised her to make good decisions, but feel like she failed at one of the biggest decisions she will ever make. It's got to be hard to accept, but they are married and you want her marriage to succeed. Now that she's made the decision, it's time to begin your new role—helping your new son-in-law transition into good relationships with you and the rest of his new family."
"I know I have to ask the Lord to help me love him. When I criticize him, it creates a problem for Stephanie, and it creates a wedge between us." Bridgett replied, "Let's pray together and agree for the Lord to help you be a blessing to your daughter's marriage. I believe God will show you the way if you're willing to set aside your emotions and choose to do things His way."
As the parent of an adult child who made a choice you don't agree with, you may be correct in your reasoning, but you are not there to judge or point out their mistakes. Instead, do all you can to support your child and their spouse. Your decision helps other family members move toward reconciliation, no matter how you may feel about the situation.
Today's One Thing
How can you help your son- or daughter-in-law become successful with their relationship with the rest of the family?
Going Deeper
Isaiah 38:19; 2 Corinthians 12:1-10
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The wisdom of a grandparent can help navigate those difficult roads.
Hear, my son, and accept my words, that the years of your life may be many. I have taught you the way of wisdom; I have led you in the paths of uprightness. When you walk, your step will not be hampered, and if you run, you will not stumble. Keep hold of instruction; do not let go; guard her, for she is your life. —Proverbs 4:10-13 (ESV)
Life Lessons from Grandpa
At 95 years old, Hannah's grandfather had lived a long life. He was in the hospital and his body was shutting down. His wife called the family and they all came—two children, five grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren. Even at seven years-old, Hannah's youngest nephew knew he was saying goodbye for the last time. That evening while the family was gathered at Hannah's aunt's house, just an hour away from the hospital, they received the news that Grandpa had died.
"I'm just so thankful he was still there mentally today, to say our goodbyes; to remember him and the way he was with each one of us. To remind him of the stories he always told and the lovely things he did for us." "Like building us that tree house," John, the oldest of the grandchildren, chimed in.
"It was a sweet time," his sister, Micah, said. "It means so much to have had today with him." Hannah pulled out a book she'd brought from home to share with the family. "Years ago, I gave this book to Grandpa. It's one of those legacy books, where he answered questions about his life. The family gathered around and Hannah shared an entry from one of the pages. The question asked, What advice about life do you want others to remember? To which he had replied: To live for the Lord, Jesus, with a whole heart, listening and being obedient to Him.
He was a quiet man of few words, but throughout the book, the children and grandchildren found words of love and encouragement individually—stories he had cherished about each one he had loved.
Navigating the roads of life can be extremely difficult, no matter how young or old you are, especially when you don't have anyone to help guide you. The wisdom of a grandparent can help, sometimes they're just waiting for you to ask.
Today's One Thing
Do you have a grandparent who is just waiting to share with you? Ask them about their life lessons today.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 4:10-27; Psalm 145:1-21
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If your goal is to bring glory to God and please Christ, you must recognize that God does the saving, but you've got to do the living.
For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like. —James 1:23-24 (ESV)
Do You Like What You See?
A.W. Tozer said, "The stiff and wooden quality about our religious lives is a result of our lack of holy desire. Complacency is a deadly foe of all spiritual growth. Acute desire must be present or there will be no manifestation of Christ to His people."
So many of us live a life of complacency—self-satisfied. We feel like it's enough to go to church on Sunday and hear the message with no self-discipline to study God's Word for ourselves or follow through on the things we've heard. The disciple, James compared it to looking at yourself in the mirror: you see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like.
Sometimes, if we're honest, we don't want to see a true picture of ourselves. God has given you a purpose and filled you with His potential to fulfil that purpose, but it takes action on our part.
If your goal is to bring glory to God and please Christ, you must recognize that God does the saving, but you've got to do the living. We are each accountable for how we live our days. An intentional life in Christ requires you to know, care and do what the Bible teaches so you can bring Him pleasure by living the life He created for you and experience His peace.
Today's One Thing
Examine your life today. Do you like what you see? Is it bringing pleasure to Christ? What ONE THING could you do today to improve on that?
Going Deeper
Revelation 3:14-22; Luke 9:23-27
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Are you looking for parenting advice?
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. —Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)
Knowing Who to Ask for Advice
Brenda sat on the bleachers, bundled from head to toe in the cold as she watched her ten-year-old son's baseball practice. She reached down to pour herself another cup of hot chocolate from the thermos into her coffee mug as another mother from the team sat down next to her. "Hot chocolate," she offered. "Oh, no thanks," Rachel replied. "I brought coffee."
"Hey, can I ask you something," Rachel asked. "Sure," Brenda replied. "We are really struggling with some issues with Corbin," she admitted. "I could really use some parenting advice. I don't think we're doing things right. Sometimes I think we're too hard on him, so I pull back and then feel like I'm inconsistent."
"I'm so flattered that you'd ask me parenting advice, but I don't have any to give," Brenda told her. "I feel like offering parenting advice now, when I'm in the middle of it all, wouldn't benefit you because I don't have a proven product." Rachel looked defeated.
"But," Brenda continued, "I'll tell you something I did learn. Instead of going to other parents and asking advice as they are parenting their child, you might want to go to someone who turned out to be an outstanding adult that you really admire, then ask them what they think their parents did right for them to turn out so great."
"That's great advice," Rachel exclaimed. "So, tell me what your parents did right."
Today's One Thing
Do you have an adult child in mind that you admire? Ask them about what their parents did that made a powerful impact on the man or woman they are today.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 3:1-12; Proverbs 19:20
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Real-life adventures await, as you read and experience the Word of God.
All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness. —2 Timothy 3:16 (ESV)
Time Well Spent
The time machine worked brilliantly, as far as Zoe could tell. It had transported her to the bottom of a small mountain, punctuated by clumps of fading grass, and overlooking a town. She'd set the machine to take her back to ancient days, nearly 900 years before Christ, and here she was.
She came upon a lovely home, clearly lavish for that time. Drawing closer, she peered inside and saw a boy, motionless and ashen, lying on a couch. Suddenly, a man rushed into the room and shut the door. Zoe knew from her history that this was a special person, a man of God. She watched in awe as the man lay on top of the boy, eyes to eyes and hands to hands, and prayed. The man got up, then went back to the boy and repeated the routine. Without warning, the boy sneezed seven times and opened his eyes! Quietly, Zoe slipped away and wept. She'd just witnessed the prophet Elisha and the resurrection from the dead of the son of the Shunammite woman.
You don't need a time machine for Scripture to come alive. As you habitually break open its pages, you'll be transported to places and meet people that will astound you. From the Old Testament to the New, the Bible is filled with accounts that will challenge your faith and inspire your hope in God. All you have to do is open your imagination and make the time.
Today's One Thing
Read a Bible story that's not as well-known as others. Pretend you are actually there, and experience the scene with your senses.
Going Deeper
2 Kings 4:8-37; Hebrews 11:17-35
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Find renewed assurance that God will take care of you.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. —Matthew 11:30 (ESV)
Way Maker
To say the least, it wasn't all she expected it to be. It was more.
When Maggie signed up to attend the weekend-long worship conference, she went in with what she felt were reasonable expectations. Since she'd lost her job six months earlier, she couldn't find new work, and her savings account was almost depleted. Her son, Jason, was doing okay, but he was going to need new school clothes soon, not to mention fees for another year of Little League. Maggie was combating her anxiety through her faith in God as best she could, but she was starting to feel more depressed with each day. She hoped the conference, and the two days away from Jason as he stayed with his grandmother, would refresh her.
As she entered into praise the opening day, Maggie instantly felt her spirit soothed by the songs and messages shared during the services. It was on Sunday when she experienced her unexpected breakthrough. As she adored the Lord, she literally felt a weight lifted from her soul. The fear was swept away and replaced by a renewed assurance that God would make a way for her and her son. When Maggie returned home that night after picking up Jason, she checked her voice mail: it contained two job interview requests. "Thank you, Jesus!" she proclaimed as she tucked her son into bed.
Trust God to carry your need. Financial or spiritual, health concern or psychological, He will make a way. Expect it!
Today's One Thing
Sing a song aloud to the Lord, and then worship Him silently.
Going Deeper
Psalm 116:1-9; Philippians 4:4-9
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He had heard about practicing the presence of God, but today he really knew what it meant.
Pray without ceasing. —1 Thessalonians 5:17 (ESV)
Shuttle Talk
John sat on the airport shuttle watching people come and go. He wondered where they were all going and why. There was a lady with a little girl. They seemed to be in a hurry. There was a man with a brief case who kept checking his phone. People were everywhere he looked, people who had lives. People who had needs. It was strange because he had never really thought about it before. Maybe it was because he was usually texting or typing an email while he traveled. In the past, he had even participated in meetings on the phone while riding the shuttle. But this time was different.
"God," he prayed, "Be with that lady and her little girl. Keep them safe. And help that man who seems stressed and in a hurry."
He had heard about practicing the presence of God, but today he really knew what it meant. It wasn't hard. He just had to focus for a few minutes and he could have a nonverbal chat in this public place with the God of the universe.
Stepping off the shuttle, John was refreshed as he prayed for his wife and each of his little girls. He could think of no better way to spend his travel time.
Are you feeling rushed in your day to day activities? Take some time to practice the presence of God as you go about your day. He is ready and waiting to answer.
Today's One Thing
Talk to God about your needs and those around you as you go about your day today.
Going Deeper
Matthew 21:22, Ephesians 6:16-18
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God desires for us to trust in Him by faith, knowing He is as real as the air we breathe.
Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory... — 1 Peter 1:8 (ESV)
Eyes of Faith
Stephanie sat staring at the screen of her laptop, amazed at the revelation she just experienced.
It wasn't from the teaching of the devotional she'd just read, although it was wonderful and had uplifted her spirit, just as it did each day. No, it was from something more basic—and more awesome. She thought about her Internet access, how it was always there on her computer even though she couldn't see the waves that make up the Internet, nor could she see the wi-fi signal that sent it from her router to the machine in front of her. Yet because of these invisible forces, she was now reading a devotional, written just for her and expressing the truth of the living God. "I guess seeing isn't believing after all, is it?" she thought as she logged off to leave for work.
It's easy as a Christian to get frustrated because we can't see God. All of us at some point have wished He would just materialize before us and sit down at our side. Yet He doesn't. Why? Because He wants us to trust in Him by faith, the undeniable knowledge that as certainly as the air we breathe is real, so is He! Let the Bible daily reveal God to you, believe in what it says about Him, and look forward to that day in eternity when you will finally see Him as He is.
Today's One Thing
Write down three things that are invisible, yet benefit your life. Thank God for each one.
Going Deeper
John 3:11-21; John 20:24-31; Hebrews 11:1-16
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I think you're getting the hang of it!
By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. —John 13:35 (ESV)
A Time for Everything
The warm sunshine felt luxurious on her face. Louise really needed to get outside more.
"Mom! Are you ready to catch the Frisbee?" her son hollered from across the grassy field. He had begged her to stop her work and take him to the park.
"Ready!" Louise positioned herself to make the catch, a bit surprised by how good it felt to be playing with her son. Life gets so busy with errands, bill paying, cleaning, work and shuttling the kids around to all their activities. She tossed the Frisbee back to Zach.
"Nice! Mom, I think you're getting the hang of it!" Zach seemed genuinely proud of his mother's athletic ability.
Later, as they headed back home, Zach chatted more than usual, talking about school, his friend who just moved, the next video game he wanted. Louise was able to interject some food for thought, and it was received. As she planned to go to the park more often, she realized she would have to purposely stop what she had to do and make the time for this casual conversation that was worth its weight in gold.
What is the temperature of your relationships with your loved ones? Are you taking the time to spend together to develop a bond that can never be broken?
Today's One Thing
Plan to spend some time with a loved one just enjoying each other's company.
Going Deeper
Galatians 5:13-14, Luke 6:38
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Focus on truth and God will use you to accomplish mighty things through Him.
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. —2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV)
The Unpardonable Sin
"I can't be close to God anymore. I've committed the unpardonable sin." Jan could hardly believe the words coming out of her friend's mouth. But she could see her shame in her downcast face.
"Sue, the only unpardonable sin is rejection of Christ. Do you think His death on the cross was not enough to take care of your disobedience? Turn away from it and go the other way. Believe what is true about who you are in Christ." Jan was desperate for her friend to understand. It was so hard to see her like this.
"You really think so?" Sue looked up. Had she been believing a lie this whole time?
"I don't just think so. I know so! God loves you. He knew what choices you would make and He still gave His Son for you," Jan exploded with hope. "Through forgiveness, your relationship can be restored. Stop walking around defeated and start believing what is true!"
Sue felt like a hundred pounds had been lifted off her shoulders. She vowed to focus on what was true and not to give a second thought to what was not.
Are you filling your mind with truth? Or is it cluttered with lies that drag you down? Focus on truth and God will use you to accomplish mighty things through Him.
Today's One Thing
Choose to believe the truth about who you are in Christ and don't give a second to thoughts that don't line up with what the Bible says about you.
Going Deeper
1 Corinthians 10:13, John 16:27
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You'll be amazed at what God will reveal to you through His Word.
Wisdom is better than jewels, and all that you may desire cannot compare with her. —Proverbs 8:11 (ESV)
Priceless
The long caravan looked spectacular as it wound across 1,200 dusty, windswept miles from Arabia to Jerusalem. Its leader was the Queen of Sheba, sitting majestically atop her camel—gold trappings, glittering jewels and aromatic spices declaring her presence. Her desire was to see Israel's King Solomon, of whom she had heard much.
Scholars speculate her goal was to secure a trade alliance, a wise move since Israel's wealth and Solomon's vast fleet of ships likely posed a threat to her dominance. But 1 Kings 10 reveals she came away with far more than a treaty. She was overwhelmed with the achievements by which his kingdom was established; astounded with the wisdom by which he answered her questions. "Blessed be the Lord your God, who has delighted in you and set you on the throne of Israel!" she declared. "Because the Lord loved Israel forever, he has made you king, that you may execute justice and righteousness." (1 Kings 10:9 ESV) The Queen of Sheba went back home with all she desired and asked for, and then some.
What is it you seek? In Proverbs, Solomon says nothing you'll ever desire can compare with wisdom, and it's found only in the timeless treasury of God's Word. From this day forward, decide that you will go on a quest for His priceless wisdom by daily reading the Bible. You'll be amazed by what you come away with.
Today's One Thing
Read Proverbs 8 and listen to wisdom's call for your life.
Going Deeper
1 Kings 10:1-13; Proverbs 3:13-26
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Never underestimate the power of prayer to change lives as God responds to your pleas for others.
Come, I will send you to Pharaoh that you may bring my people, the children of Israel, out of Egypt. —Exodus 3:10 (ESV)
Nobody Prayers
He was an old man—and just getting started.
Moses didn't receive his Divine calling to deliver the people of Israel from Egyptian bondage until eight decades into his life. By then, Moses had a grasp of exactly who he was in relation to Almighty God. Dwight L. Moody put it this way: "Moses spent his first 40 years thinking he was somebody. He spent his second 40 years learning he was a nobody. He spent his third 40 years discovering what God can do with a nobody."
The Lord used the "nobody" Moses in amazing ways. One of the things Moses did quite often in those last 40 years was pray. Just one example is found in Exodus 34:8-9 (ESV): "Moses quickly bowed his head toward the earth and worshiped. And he said, 'If now I have found favor in your sight, O Lord, please let the Lord go in the midst of us, for it is a stiff-necked people, and pardon our iniquity and our sin, and take us for your inheritance.'" This plea was spoken after Moses had received the Ten Commandments a second time following Israel's folly of worshipping the golden calf. Moses transformed the Israelites by faithfully and intentionally interceding to God on their behalf, asking for forgiveness and restoration.
You cannot underestimate the power of intercessory prayer to change a life as the Lord responds to your "nobody" prayers, offered humbly yet desperately.
Today's One Thing
Pray for the people God lays upon your heart. Seek His will for their lives.
Going Deeper
Deuteronomy 34:1-12; Acts 7:20-38; Romans 12:1-12
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You'll positively touch someone's life every time you forgive them.
Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. —Colossians 3:13 (ESV)
Be a Saver
He could've let them die of starvation. It would've been a just end for those who had jealously hated him and brutally sold him away as a slave into a life stripped of freedom, family and homeland.
But Joseph of the Old Testament was a different sort of man—endowed by God with incredible integrity and wisdom that lifted him to the heights of power and influence in Egypt. Joseph's insight sustained that great nation through severe famine, but it was his ability to forgive that saved his family. Joseph not only chose to reconcile with his brothers; he provided for them, their children, and even his long lost father Jacob. He reassured his brothers after their father's death that his forgiveness would not be withdrawn.
"But Joseph said to them, 'Do not fear, for am I in the place of God? As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today. So do not fear; I will provide for you and your little ones.' Thus he comforted them and spoke kindly to them." (Genesis 50:19-21 ESV) Thanks to Joseph and his forgiveness, they would live out their days safe and unafraid.
You'll positively touch someone's life every time you forgive them for the hurt they've caused you—and then care for them, without condition, as evidence of your forgiveness. Who can you save today?
Today's One Thing
Tell someone who has offended you that you forgive them.
Going Deeper
Genesis 45:1-15; Genesis 50:15-26; Ephesians 4:20-32
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Sometimes your intellect can get in the way of simply trusting God.
Some men joined him and believed, among whom also were Dionysius the Areopagite and a woman named Damaris and others with them. —Acts 17:34 (ESV)
Smart Move
Damaris was a smart lady, in more ways than one. Paul had just preached to the Athenians, and today's verse identifies Damaris as being one of his converts to Jesus Christ. But what is it that makes her story significant?
Scholars believe that because Damaris was able to hear Paul at a meeting of the Areopagus—a learned group that studied and discussed new religions and foreign gods—she was likely one of the Hetairai, a highly intellectual class of Greek women who associated with philosophers and statesmen. Damaris was apparently educated, cultured and wise in the areas of religion and morality, yet possessed the spiritual receptivity to rightly discern the truth of Paul's message and discover the One True God.
Do you sometimes allow your supposed intellect, or even apparent common sense, to get in the way of believing God for your need? Your alleged expertise will often try to sabotage your ability to simply rely on Him. "Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes?" Proverbs 26:12 (ESV) asks. "There is more hope for a fool than for him." On the other hand, Proverbs 3:5 encourages you to "trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding."
Follow Damaris' lead! Have faith in God and His knowledge, not your own abilities. It's a smart move.
Today's One Thing
Why over think your problems? Pray about them and listen for God's direction.
Going Deeper
Matthew 6:25-34; Luke 18:1-14; Acts 17:16-34
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Take a firm stand and trust in God, even when it goes against what everyone else thinks is correct.
Therefore, my brothers, whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm thus in the Lord, my beloved. —Philippians 4:1 (ESV)
Like No Other
He lived during a momentous period in human history. The first Olympiad had taken place in Greece. Rome had just been founded. But times in Judah were bleak. The nation's apostasy was so wretched that his father Ahaz had encouraged the people to imitate the evil Moabites and burn their children in the fire as living sacrifices.
Yet when Hezekiah began his reign, recorded in 2 Kings 18-20, he went sharply against the culture—choosing instead to honor the Lord. He abolished idolatry, refused to pay tribute to mighty Assyria as his father had, saw the resulting invasion by Sennacherib ultimately defeated by God Himself, and experienced Divine healing and the miraculous extension of his life. Hezekiah transformed the people of Judah by turning them away from wickedness and restoring worship of the Lord. No wonder 2 Kings 18:5 (ESV) said of Hezekiah, "He trusted in the Lord the God of Israel, so that there was none like him among all the kings of Judah after him, nor among those who were before him." What an incredible statement of his legacy.
To make a difference, you should take a firm stand and trust in God, even when it goes against what everyone else thinks is correct. Be bold, obey the Lord, honor Him, and you'll have an impact that's like no other.
Today's One Thing
Make a change in your personal or family life that will increase how God is honored in your home.
Going Deeper
2 Kings 18:1-8; 2 Timothy 2:11-19; 1 Peter 5:6-12
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Seek to be a miracle for someone. Be confident God will use you as He promised.
Elijah said to Elisha, "Ask what I shall do for you, before I am taken from you." And Elisha said, "Please let there be a double portion of your spirit on me." —2 Kings 2:9 (ESV)
Way More
From the very moment cited in today's passage until after his death when a man's body was revived from falling upon his bones, Elisha was a miracle man! A reading of 2 Kings chapters 2-8 tells of financial deliverances, physical healings, and even of a boy being raised from the dead. Elisha's prophetic insight and wise counsel proved invaluable to kings, and he finished Elijah's work of destroying the system of Baal worship. In all, Elisha transformed countless lives through his unwavering obedience to the Lord and the many amazing works God performed through him. He was someone who wanted to do more—and was bold enough to believe that he could.
Eight centuries later, Jesus said, "Whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do." (John 14:12 ESV) Christ was speaking about you.
Seek to be a miracle for someone. Perhaps they have a monetary need you can fill, a word of encouragement you can provide, or a life-giving act of service you can perform. Whatever it is, ask God in prayer to direct you and obey His leading. Be confident that the Lord will use you as He promised. You'll make a difference in their life—likely in a way more than you could imagine—for His glory!
Today's One Thing
Do something to help a friend or co-worker. Have boldness in God's power working through you.
Going Deeper
2 Kings 2:1-15; 2 Kings 13:14-21; John 14:1-14
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Obey God and rely on His strength as you courageously face whatever challenges you.
Why should the name of our father be taken away from his clan because he had no son? Give to us a possession among our father's brothers. —Numbers 27:4 (ESV)
Courageous Act
Women the world over should erect a monument to honor Mahlah, Noah, Hoglah, Milcah and Tirzah—the daughters of Zelophehad. So should every attorney. Why? These five young women successfully filed one of the earliest reported lawsuits on record, and won an incredible victory for women's rights.
Zelophehad had died in the desert, and since he had not joined in the rebellion against Moses, his family had a right to his inheritance. Problem was, he did not have a son to claim it, so his daughters boldly declared they were entitled to what he had left. Their action in approaching Moses, Eleazar and the leaders of the nation was unprecedented, an act of great courage and conviction. Moses took their case before the Lord, and the ultimate Judge quickly returned His decision: in favor of the daughters. The law was rewritten, and women gained legal property rights for the very first time.
What courageous act is God asking of you? Perhaps He's calling you to witness to a neighbor, confront a loved one with a relationship problem, or start a new business or ministry. Maybe you're facing a problem that threatens to overtake you, something where you know only God can deliver you. Whatever it is, obey the Lord and rely on His strength! He will benefit you and your loved ones in ways you'll find unprecedented.
Today's One Thing
Wait upon God in prayer, and seek Him in the Bible for direction.
Going Deeper
Numbers 27:1-11; Joshua 1:6-9; Psalm 27:7-14
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Talk to God.
So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God. —Ephesians 2:19 (ESV)
He is with you—always!
Vanessa hurriedly pressed the plastic containers for leftovers into the top drawer of the dishwasher. Although her mother's home was only three hours away, the frequent weekend trips to help her mom through a necessary surgery took a toll on her kitchen with the uneaten leftovers taking up most of the refrigerator space.
She pushed her hair back out of her face after closing the dishwasher drawer. "Mommy...," she turned to see her six year old, Michelle, standing next to her. "Yes, honey," she replied, still in work mode. "Are we going to stay at Daddy's again?"
"Yes, one more weekend and then we'll be back on schedule where you are with me every other weekend."
"Good!" Michelle smiled. "I need to go to church and talk to Jesus. We don't go to church when we go to Daddy's house."
"Yes, I know," Vanessa said picking Michelle up and sitting her on the freshly cleaned kitchen counter. Looking deeply into her daughter's beautiful eyes she said, "But, honey, you don't have to wait to talk to God. He's not in the church building waiting for you. When you prayed, Jesus came into your heart. He is right here," she said pointing to Michelle's heart.
"He can hear me, right now?" she asked. "I can talk to Him anytime—at home, school, and at Daddy's."
"Absolutely," Vanessa nodded. "Now give me a hug." Michelle enthusiastically opened her arms wide and embraced her mother.
Christ Jesus lives and dwells in the hearts of all who believe. You don't have to wait for the perfect moment or place to pray. He's never too busy to hear from you.
Today's One Thing
Jesus is there for you right now. What do you need to share with Him about your life today?
Going Deeper
Ephesians 2:11-22; Revelation 3:18-22
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Whatever you're doing, you don't have to do it alone.
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. —James 1:5 (ESV)
Parenting with God
With her arms loaded with more groceries than she should've carried in one trip, Whitney stood in front of the door leading into the house from the garage exasperated. Her seven year old son, Steven, let the door slam shut in front of her. "Steven...," she called, "please open the door for Mommy." Her patience was running thin. She'd had a tough day at work too. This is just not a good day all the way around, she thought to herself. "Steven," she called again.
The door opened and he smiled. "I can hold it open for you," he remarked.
"That would be very nice" she replied. Steven's teacher called her during work to share how difficult he'd been in class today. She hurriedly put away the groceries and started dinner, trying to calm down before talking to Steven about his day. "Lord, give me your wisdom in what to say to my son."
After dinner, she collapsed on the couch. Steven came into the living room after his shower and snuggled up next to her. "Mom, I had a bad day today. She brushed his wet hair out of his eyes, "I did too," she told him. "Will you pray with me? I think if I ask God, he will help me do better tomorrow."
Whitney smiled, "Let's ask him to help both of us do better, okay." Steven bowed his head.
Whatever you're doing, you don't have to do it alone. God has made his strength and wisdom available to you. It's yours when you ask for it.
Today's One Thing
Ask God for His wisdom for the challenges you are facing today.
Going Deeper
Psalm 127:1-5; James 1:2-18
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There is always hope with the Lord, regardless of your circumstances.
Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God our Father, who loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace, comfort your hearts and establish them in every good work and word. —2 Thessalonians 2:16-17 (ESV)
Pleasant Surprise
Her name meant pleasant, but for Naomi, life had been anything but satisfying. She had neither husband nor sons—just two young daughters-in-law, both foreigners and childless. In her despair, Naomi preferred to be called Mara, or bitter. "I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty," she said in Ruth 1:21 (ESV). "Why call me Naomi, when the Lord has testified against me and the Almighty has brought calamity upon me?"
Yet Naomi discovered renewed hope through the faithful companionship of Ruth, the daughter-in-law that chose to stay with her, and Ruth's encounter with a godly landowner named Boaz. Ruth had found favor with Boaz because of her selfless desire to glean leftover grain for Naomi from his harvest fields. In chapter three of the book that bears her name, Ruth responds obediently to Naomi's wise instructions to approach Boaz in a request for marriage. It's a beautiful scene, rich in tradition and romance. Little did Naomi know then that her inspired directions would not only lead to a wedding for Ruth and Boaz, but would also bring her the joy of caring for their newborn son.
Naomi's story teaches you that there is always hope with the Lord, regardless of your circumstances. Today, give God the bitterness in your life, trusting He'll turn it into something very pleasant for you in His will and timing.
Today's One Thing
Take your most troubling need to the Lord and allow Him to comfort you.
Going Deeper
Ruth 3:1-13; Ruth 4:13-17; 2 Corinthians 1:3-11
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Frustrated with a rebellious people, he had not done as God had told him to do.
If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink, for you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you. —Proverbs 25:21-22 (ESV)
Act Don't React
"Mom, I hate people who hate people," Tanya slumped in the passenger seat, defeated.
Keeping her eye on the road, Kathy, could sense her teenager's frustration, but had to chuckle just a little.
"Now, think about what you're saying, honey. You're one of those people."
This reminded Kathy of the story of Moses when he lost his chance to enter the land God had promised to him and his people. He was so frustrated after leading them through the wilderness and dealing with their stubborn, unbelieving, rebellious attitudes. When God told him to raise his staff and speak to a rock so the people would have water, he struck it instead. Frustrated with a rebellious people, he had not done as God had instructed.
"Tanya, don't choose to respond with the same hatred back. Ask God to help you love them. When people are hateful, they're usually hurting somewhere inside," Kathy pointed out as she pulled the car into the garage and leaned in to hug her daughter.
"I guess so," mumbled Tanya, thankful for her mother's comforting hug.
Is there a situation that seems to be bringing out the worst in you? Do you find yourself reacting negatively? Take a deep breath and ask God to help you respond with a loving attitude. Trust Him with the outcome.
Today's One Thing
Pray for someone you're struggling with, and ask God to give you a kind answer the next time you are tempted to give them what they "deserve."
Going Deeper
Numbers 20:1-13, Proverbs 15:1
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Love is many things, but more than anything it is trust and integrity.
It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. —1 Corinthians 13:6 (ESV)
In Action
Jeff just couldn't help himself.
He'd never felt more contented in his entire life. It had nothing to do with his career, or financial status, or even his relationship with his two children—though all was well in all those areas. No, what made him happiest, he realized as he pulled into the familiar parking lot, was Cheryl. He knew he experienced a oneness with her that was closer than ever. They'd been through so much together, and now that life was in one of those rare moments where everything was in order and somewhat stress-free, Jeff wanted to surprise her. Again.
He went into the front door of the shop and straight up to the clerk. She flashed him a knowing grin.
"Fancy seeing you here again, Mister Santiago. What will it be this time?"
He looked past her to the colorful display at her back. "I'll take that batch of roses, Marie. The ones with baby's breath."
Marie laughed. "You spoil her, you know. Your wife is a lucky woman."
"I've told you before, I'm the lucky one. Now I've just got to get them home and in a vase before she gets home from work.
Love is many things, but more than anything it is trust and integrity, peppered with some planned spontaneity to show how much you care. Whether it's for a spouse, a family member, or a friend, put your love for them in action. God will be honored and glorified as you do.
Today's One Thing
Do something kind for someone you love.
Going Deeper
Ephesians 5:21-33; 1 Thessalonians 4:1-9; Song of Songs 2:1-15
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The ability to forgive is essential to being a witness for God to others.
Forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. —Mark 11:25 (ESV)
Liberated Heart
In 2 Kings 5 you meet a young girl whose life is beyond understanding, yet infinitely inspiring. She was a slave, held prisoner as a servant in the home of the valiant army commander Naaman. He had it all—power, stature, wealth—but was afflicted with one glaring flaw: leprosy. The girl, cruelly taken from her family, had every reason not to care about her master's plight. She was just a spoil of war to be used in Naaman's service, with no individual rights, no bright future.
Yet she possessed something far greater than physical freedom: she had a liberated heart. She harbored no anger or bitterness about her life or her captors. She had long since forgiven Naaman and his wife, and loved them so much that she boldly and willingly told of the prophet Elisha and his ability to heal. "She said to her mistress, 'Would that my lord were with the prophet who is in Samaria! He would cure him of his leprosy.'" (2 Kings 5:3 ESV) Naaman wisely responded to her caring words and living faith, and was never the same again.
Can such miracles happen to others as a result of your life? Perhaps, but not if you're a slave to unforgiveness. Right now, think of those who've hurt or offended you—and forgive. Then you'll live in a way that's a witness for God to those around you.
Today's One Thing
Think of someone by name who needs your forgiveness. Pray for him or her, then meet with and forgive the person.
Going Deeper
2 Kings 5:1-18; Luke 17:1-10; 2 Corinthians 2:5-11
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Serve the Lord with joyful diligence, and overcome any tendency toward laziness.
Greet those workers in the Lord, Tryphaena and Tryphosa. —Romans 16:12 (ESV)
Try, Try Again
They build bridges, dig tunnels and move mountains—well, sort of. If you or your children have ever enjoyed an ant farm, you know the wonder of watching these industrious little creatures churn out passageways and tirelessly construct miniature sand structures. If a burrow collapses or a dugout falters, it's no problem. They just set to work once again, undeterred and determined to complete their task.
The heroines from today's verse would have been right at home in an ant farm. Tryphena and Tryphosa were likely sisters, perhaps even twins, for it was common then for such people to have similar names. But more than that, these ladies were loyal members of the Christian community at Rome who were respected by Paul for their rigorous labors for the Lord. They knew nothing of slothfulness or apathy. They worked hard, and were commended by name for their efforts.
God casts a disapproving eye on laziness. "Through sloth the roof sinks in," warns Ecclesiastes 10:18 (ESV), "and through indolence the house leaks." There's no reason to be a sluggard physically or spiritually. Serve the Lord with integrity and joyful diligence, and study His Word and pray with zealousness. Persevere in difficulty—and don't worry. If something goes awry, just try, try again. God will strengthen you as you faithfully work for His purposes and His pleasure.
Today's One Thing
Press through the discouragement or fatigue, and complete the task God has given you.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 6:6-15; Colossians 3:16-24
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When resistance, conflict, disagreement, insult, disillusionment and discontent threaten to steal your joy, remember that no one can destroy what God has accomplished through you.
We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed. —2 Corinthians 4:8-9 (ESV)
Never at the End of Your Hope
Christina was pushing hard to complete her degree, with a full-time job and a family in tow. She never expected to go back to school full time, but with encouragement from her boss and husband, and time in prayer with the Lord leading her that way, she began a two-year journey to complete her degree.
Her children were in high school and it just seemed like an unusual time to do it. Then with only three classes left to completion, her oldest daughter injured her knee in a sporting event which required surgery. Between her daughter's surgery, recovery and physical therapy appointments, Christina struggled to see light at the end of the tunnel. With the help of friends, family and a decision to trust God to get her through—she walked the stage at graduation.
When you feel you are at the end of your rope, you are never at the end of your hope because of your relationship with Christ. When resistance, conflict, disagreement, insult, disillusionment and discontent threaten to steal your joy, remember that no one can destroy what God has accomplished in you.
Today's One Thing
All the challenges in this life are opportunities for Christ to reveal his power and presence through you. What ONE THING do you need to trust Him for today?
Going Deeper
2 Corinthians 4:7-18; 1 Thessalonians 1:2-10
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Words spoken at the right time can bring healing and give someone hope to hang on just a little longer.
Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer. —Psalm 19:14 (ESV)
Give Someone Hope to Hang on Just a Little Longer
Penny knew that her friend and co-worker, Gretchen, was going through a hard time with one of her adult children. Due to a reduction in force caused by the economic downturn, he had lost his job after working for a company more than five years. He had fallen into depression and refused to get help.
Penny tried to encourage Gretchen, letting her know that she was praying for her and her son. She'd drop an encouraging note on her desk every once in a while, or send her inspiring quotes through social media that would bring a smile to her face or a laugh to her heart.
Never think that words are not enough. Words spoken at the right time can bring healing and give someone hope to hang on just a little longer. Sometimes what you feel in your heart is difficult to say and you have trouble finding the words.
When you have the opportunity to encourage others as they go through difficult situations, ask the Holy Spirit to give you God's words that will speak to the hurts of those you love. Let God lead you as you speak life and hope into their hearts. Then watch God use you to bring peace and comfort.
Today's One Thing
Who could you encourage today with your words?
Going Deeper
Psalm 19:1-14; Matthew 12:33-37
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Are you open to letting others speak the truth in love into your life?
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy. —Proverbs 27:6 (ESV)
A Friend's Perspective
Tonya had tried to be patient with her friend, Danielle. They had not known each other very long but Tonya believed the Lord had connected them for a reason. They met for lunch a few times a month, went hiking together every once in a while and saw each other regularly at church. As the friendship progressed, Tonya became frustrated because Danielle seemed to never be content. Their time together left her feeling like she'd been slimed with all the drama going on in Danielle's life.
At first, she believed she was in Danielle's life to reassure her, but her encouragement was trampled on during their conversations as her friend continued to unpack her baggage in front of her without putting any of the positive take-aways from Tonya into her suitcase.
One afternoon when they were at lunch, Danielle began again sharing how everything was wrong in her life. When Tonya frowned, Danielle asked what was wrong. Gently, Tonya responded, "Everyone has stuff, but not everyone shares all of it, all the time." She gave a few examples of people she knew who were going through difficulty but still remained positive in the midst of their pain. "I know your stuff is hard," Tonya told her, "but some times I'd like to hear the good stuff God is doing and how you're growing in Him."
"God is doing some good stuff in my life, and I appreciate your honesty, encouraging me to share the positive."
Sometimes a friend can say things that can show you things about yourself from a different perspective, helping you focus on the positive things in life.
Today's One Thing
Are you open to let others speak into your life?
Going Deeper
Proverbs 27
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When you define the lines, your children can have realistic expectations for the outcome of their choices.
And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, "This is the way, walk in it," when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left. —Isaiah 30:21 (ESV)
Define the Lines
Erica's youngest daughter, Shelby had a Facebook account. When some of her friends wrote some vulgar things on her page that she didn't approve of, Erica asked Shelby to delete the posts and speak to her friends. A few days later she realized Shelby had "unfriended" her and she no longer had access to her daughter's page.
At the dinner table she asked Shelby about it. "Mom, I don't want you creeping on my page." "That's fine," Erica replied. "Since I pay for the internet access and your cell phone data usage, I'll need to disconnect those privileges, if I no longer have access to your Facebook page."
"Mom," Shelby started to argue, but Erica shook her head. "That's the way it is. It's your choice." "Okay, I'll re-friend you...and I'll talk to the people who posted the nasty things on my page. I already removed their posts."
"Sounds good," Erica replied as she began to remove the dishes from the table. "Your turn to do dishes, too," she smiled.
Children need boundaries. When you define the lines, they can have realistic expectations for the outcome of their choices. They will learn to be responsible and accountable for their actions as you remain consistent to enforce the consequences you've outlined for their positive or negative behaviors.
Today's One Thing
It's important to celebrate with your children. When they make positive choices, give them positive consequences.
Going Deeper
Isaiah 30:18-33; Psalm 127:3-5
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Whatever you face in life is never beyond God's help.
So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. As we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal. —2 Corinthians 4:16, 18 (ESV)
Hold On to Your Hope
Jacob was reunited with his son, Joseph, and his grandsons after believing for years that his son was dead. Job's children were killed, and God gave him a new family. Mary watched her brother Lazarus be buried, and then saw him raised from the dead and returned to her.
Even today, you hear how God turned things around in the lives of others. A baby that doctors are convinced should be aborted because he isn't developing correctly is born complete and healthy. A person survives a car accident and paramedics can't figure out how she made it out alive. In many cases, someone trusted God and refused to give up hope.
This life has pain and disappointment, but whatever you face in life is never beyond God's help. We can never give up on hope because our loving God can turn things around. We can only imagine what good God will bring out of what appears, in the beginning, to be a hopeless situation. Hold on to your hope today.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING are you trusting God to turn around in your life? Open the Bible and read encouraging scriptures to build your hope in Him today.
Going Deeper
2 Corinthians 4:7-18; Numbers 23:19
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Sin is offering you something. The world says it's ok to take it. Don't.
Whoever is greedy for unjust gain troubles his own household, but he who hates bribes will live. —Proverbs 15:27 (ESV)
The Lying Bribe
Judas Iscariot stopped in the dark alley, emptying the bag of 30 silver coins into his palm. Looking down into the soft gleam of the precious metal in his hand, he thought about his treachery and betrayal of the man he'd professed, in front of all the other disciples, to love devotedly. He wanted safety. He wanted protection. But the kind of protection Jesus was offering didn't seem all that safe. To Judas, the "safety" of Christ meant doing all that the religious leaders hated and resented. It was too dangerous. It was foolish to think that flying the flag of rebellion in their face would really usher in God's kingdom.
He put the silver back in his coin purse and slowly walked down the dusty street. With only the smallest nagging doubt in the back of his mind, he thought to himself that this was a much more tangible security, and would serve him better.
Judas' betrayal was treacherous. His priorities were misplaced. As a child of God there will be temptations; lusts and pleasures that this world promises will be more fulfilling than the love and security of Jesus death and resurrection. But God has offered a way for you to repent and trust in Him.
Don't let the world bribe you away from what is honest and true. Remember that God's promises can be trusted. He is faithful to the end!
Today's One Thing
Today, meditate for 20 minutes on a reward you might be accepting instead of serving Christ, and pray that God would turn your heart away from it, and back to Him.
Going Deeper
Romans 1:18-32
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It's tempting to wait for some day down the road to worry about important choices. But that day may come sooner than you think.
But concerning that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father only. —Matthew 24:36 (ESV)
Someday is Here
Lana wasn't expecting the phone to ring that night. She picked up the call with a sinking feeling in her stomach, and listened as the police officer gave her the devastating news.
Some 30 years ago her parents had sat her down as a preadolescent, some 30 years ago now, and talked to her about how some day they wouldn't be there anymore; some day she would have to get by on her own, with God alone to guide her way. "Someday is here," she thought.
A few weeks later, after the funeral, Lana sat her own daughter down and told her how someday would come for her as well. "It always comes sooner than expected. Place your faith and foundation in the Lord so you won't be alone when one day the phone rings in your own house."
"Someday" comes for all of us. It could be 30 years from now, or 30 minutes. There's no way to be ready for it, but there is a way to brace ourselves for life's blindsides. When, not if, suffering crashes into the path of your life, remember to trust in the only One who will never fail you. "Someday," for you, though unexpected and often brutal, can mean a humbling and freeing dependence on God.
Today's One Thing
Don't wait for "someday." Place your true reliance and trust in the God who is the author and finisher of every day.
Going Deeper
Galatians 3:15-29; Luke 12:22-40
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Those with lots of friends reach out to others with a heart for relationship.
Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel. —Proverbs 27:9 (ESV)
Cultivating New Friendships
Dena adjusted her voice activated navigational system in her car. She leaned back and took a deep breath. This was her first trip by herself in her new city. She knew moving, especially at her age, was going to take a lot of effort.
She thought back to the life she had six years ago before her husband died unexpectedly of a heart attack. Their home on seven acres quickly proved too much for her to keep up with. So she sold her home and moved into the small little town they'd made their home for more than 30 years. When she retired, she knew it was time to do something new so she accepted her son, Eddie's invitation to move to another state and live with them.
She was doing what she could to make friends. "I'm not normally very outgoing," she told her daughter-in-law, Vanessa. "But I'm willing to try." She had connected with a few ladies in a Bible study, at their church. She had become a volunteer at the hospital and now she had joined a hiking club for others her age. Thankfully, most everyone had been very friendly so far, which encouraged her.
Dena pushed her car into reverse and backed out of the garage and into the street. "Here we go," Lord, she prayed. "Let me connect with those you want in my life. May I be a blessing to them and may we add to one another's lives as you direct."
Look closely at someone you know who has a good supply of friends. You'll find that they reach out and cultivate friendships, rather than sitting around waiting for others to befriend them.
Today's One Thing
What are you willing to do today to cultivate new friendships?
Going Deeper
Proverbs 22:24-27; 2 Samuel 9:1-13
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Do you struggle to follow God's will for fear of what He might ask you to give up?
The Lord will fulfill his purpose for me; your steadfast love, O Lord, endures forever. Do not forsake the work of your hands. —Psalm 138:8 (ESV)
Giving Up Control
"You're a control freak," Brian said to his wife, Ginger with a tone that accused her. Ginger frowned looking at the dishwasher, after taking the dishes out one at a time and rearranging them. Brian continued, "They will come clean, no matter how they're put in there. I thought I was doing you a favor and helping out."
Ginger's mind raced as his words cut deep into her heart—but they were true. "You do that to the kids, too. They're never going to learn to make their beds, tie their shoes, or anything else as long as you go along behind them 'perfecting' their attempts to do things on their own. "Why can't you just let it go?" he asked, as he grabbed his jacket and headed out the door to take their son to soccer practice.
Ginger knew her need to control came from growing up in a strict family atmosphere. For the most part, decisions were made for her and she had little control over what she did and didn't do growing up. So, as soon as she was on her own, she took control of everything in her life—and in the lives of others who would let her do so.
She turned on the dishwasher and went outside for a walk. I am a control freak, she said to herself. I even control my relationship with God. I refuse to fully surrender to Him for fear that He'll ask me to do something that I don't want to do, she realized. I've got to make a change today. She came upon a shade tree and sat down beneath it, and began to open up her heart—fully—to God as she began to pray.
Do you struggle to follow God's will for fear of what He might ask you to give up? Trust God that whatever He asks of you, can only lead to His very best for your life.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING do you need to give completely to God today?
Going Deeper
Psalm 23:1-6; 1 John 4:7-21
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When you want God's very best and are seeking His will, it's important to be willing to walk through the doors he opens before you.
At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison - that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak. —Colossians 4:3-4 (ESV)
Open Doors to God's Will
Jessie's phone rang. She scooped it from the table as she walked by carrying a load of dirty clothes for the washer. It was her mother, Pam. "Hi Mom! How's it going?" she chirped.
"It's going really well," her mother replied. Jessie noticed her mom's voice was much more upbeat than normal. The last few weeks she'd struggled with her decision of where to relocate. It was good to hear her voice positive and optimistic. Since Jessie's father died four years ago, Pam had lived with her younger sister, Jane. Pam had been a big help to her with their two small children since her husband had been deployed overseas. But now he was coming home and they would be moving hundreds of miles from family and friends.
Pam wanted to move back to their hometown, where her daughters had all grown up, but it was a tiny community and homes were hard to come by in the area she wanted to live. Pam had been prayerful about her decision for several months. No doors had opened for her to return there, so Jessie suggested she move in with them. It was still far from family and friends, but they lived in a city with a large retirement population.
"I've decided to move in with you," Pam told Jessie. I believe it is where I belong. I love your church. It is a beautiful community and I have peace in this decision. It will be difficult getting to know new people and acclimating to a new home, but I believe this is the next phase of what God has for me."
Sometimes what you want, isn't what you need. When you want God's very best and are seeking His will, it's important to be willing to walk through the doors He opens and explore the opportunities He brings your way.
Today's One Thing
What doors have opened for you in the past week? Ask God to give you peace and courage to walk through them today.
Going Deeper
Colossians 4:1-6; Psalm 91:1-16
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Jesus is forever in your corner, cheering you on, seeking to connect with you.
Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. —Matthew 26:31 (ESV)
Reaching Out to Jesus
"It's just so frustrating," Hillary complained to her mother, Joan. "What's frustrating?" Joan asked as she prepared a salad for their lunch together.
"Oh, this whole deal with Raquel. I love her to pieces. We've been friends a long time, but I'm the one always reaching out. I'm the one who suggests we get together. I even have to come up with where we're going to meet and what we're going to do."
"Well, honey," her mother replied. "She's really busy with two jobs right now."
"I know," Hillary agreed, taking the salad dressing out of the refrigerator and putting it on the table. "It just gets old. It makes me feel like she doesn't value the relationship—that I'm not important to her. I'm tempted to just wait and see how much time passes before she makes a point to connect with me."
"Well, I guess you could," Joan said slowly, "but would that be Christ-like? Can you imagine Jesus disconnecting from you. He is forever reaching out to you—wanting you to connect with Him. He is that friend that is always there. I know it's hard, but maybe Raquel is going through something and she needs to know that you will always be there for her."
"You're right, Mom," Hillary said, her voice softening. Instead of complaining to you, I should go to the Lord in prayer—for me, and for Raquel. I know He will show me how to be the friend she needs."
Jesus will never stop reaching out to you for a relationship. He is the One who will forever be in your corner, cheering you on, seeking to connect with you.
Today's One Thing
Time in prayer connects you to the one who loves you most. What is it that you need to reach out to the Lord about today?
Going Deeper
Matthew 26:36-46; 1 Timothy 2:1-15
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It's important to accept responsibility and receive the consequences of your actions—good or bad.
For each will have to bear his own load. —Galatians 6:5 (ESV)
Accepting Responsibility
Returning to her desk from a meeting, Sharon set her files down next to her computer. She noticed that she had an unread text message on her phone that she'd left on her desk. It was from her son, Shawn. She sighed deeply after reading his text. Once again, he's forgotten his backpack, with homework assignments at home, and he expected her to save the day—again.
She dialed her husband's number. "Gerald, I want us to be on the same page with this. I'm calling to let you know that Shawn forgot his backpack this morning, and this time, I'm not going to take off work in order to get it to him."
"Good," Gerald agreed. "It's about time you let him be responsible for his own actions. He needs to accept the consequences, whatever they are, for not having his assignments. And when he starts blaming you for getting a bad grade, we'll address it together."
Sharon texted her son:
NOT ABLE TO HELP THIS TIME. YOU'LL HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF IT. MOM.
An intentional life requires you to be 100% responsible for what you think, how you feel, what you say and do. It's important to accept responsibility and receive the consequences of your actions—good or bad. You may need to go to those you may have blamed and ask for their forgiveness if He leads you to do so.
Today's One Thing
What area of your life do you need to take more responsibility for? Ask God to help you step up and be responsible.
Going Deeper
Galatians 6:1-5; 2 Samuel 12:1-14
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Unconditional love can mend a broken heart and restore relationship.
Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us. —1 John 4:11-12 (ESV)
Unconditional Love
Tamara's parents divorced when she was 12, and her mother moved her and her two brothers to another state, thousands of miles from their father. Her father made little or no contact with his children as they were growing up. He told Tamara years later that he felt it was best if he just bowed out. Even as an adult, their relationship proved difficult.
Tamara fidgeted at the kitchen sink, thinking about the invitation she'd accepted to visit her dad. With her husband's encouragement, she decided it was time to introduce the boys to their Grandpa. She and Phillip asked God to restore Tamara's relationship with her father.
Weeks later, they piled into their minivan and trekked across country. Tamara felt butterflies in her stomach as they turned down the country dirt road where she'd spent her first 12 years of life. "Well," Phillip said, "it looks like the whole family is here to greet us," as her father's house came into view. Tamara saw her father, grandmother, aunt and cousins sitting on the front porch.
Tamara looked at Phillip as they were bombarded with hugs and kisses. Then her father said, "Ya'll come into the house, we have dinner ready." As they sat across the table from one another, Tamara could tell her father was really trying to connect. Finally, her four year-old son broke the tension. "Grandpa Matt," he said from across the table, "I love you."
A child's unconditional love melted a grown man's heart and opened the door to healing necessary to bring a family back together.
Today's One Thing
Is there a relationship in your life that is difficult? How can you show unconditional love in that relationship today?
Going Deeper
Romans 12:9-10; 1 John 4:7-11
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It's important to have relationships with those that share your faith, but it's also important to love those who don't believe.
You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. —Matthew 5:14 (ESV)
Shine Your Light into All the Word
Scotty jumped out of the car, slammed the door, and raced ahead of his dad into the house. "Mom, Mom," he called loudly as he set his lunchbox and backpack on the dining room table. Jana shut the door to the dryer and made her way into the dining room to great him.
"Hey Buddy, how was your first day of first grade?"
"It was great, Mom," he said, smiling from ear to ear. "And guess what?" he said, not really waiting for her to reply. "I asked everyone in my class if they knew Jesus, even my teacher. She does know him. And I made sure that I only played with the kids who know Jesus, too."
"Oh," Jana said, a little taken aback. She looked quizzically at her husband, Todd, who shrugged his shoulders as if to say, I don't know where he got that idea.
Jana turned back to Scotty, "Honey, you can play with all the kids, not just the ones who know Jesus. He wants us to show others how much He loves them by treating them with love and respect. As they get to know you, they will see Jesus in you and hopefully, want to know Him like you do."
"Oh, okay! Scotty said. He paused and seemed to think about it a little more and said, "I will play with all the kids tomorrow. I'll be extra good so they'll see Him inside me."
It's important to have relationships with those that share your faith, but it's also important to love those who don't believe. As you demonstrate the love of God and let His light shine through you, His love can draw them into a relationship with Him.
Today's One Thing
How will you let your light shine into the lives of others today?
Going Deeper
Matthew 5:1-16; John 8:12-30
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It's important to ask for help!
Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. —Galatians 6:2 (ESV)
Eliminate Emotional Ooze—Ask for Help
Kay sipped her coffee. The steam warmed her hands and broke the chill off her cold office as she began her day. She opened her email and began her daily routine of responding to matters at hand. Her eyes fell on Bart's words, a team member she supervised. Wow! Kay thought. His comments are short and snippy. He's obviously irritated. That's so unlike him. She opened a second email from Bart. Again, a short and defensive tone seethed from her computer monitor. Clearly he's frustrated.
She dialed his number and asked him to come to her office. Seconds later he appeared at her office door. "How are you doing?" She inquired. "I noticed some irritation or frustration in a few emails from you this morning."
"I'm sorry," he mumbled, hanging his head. "I didn't mean to take my frustration out on you. I'm extremely upset because payroll messed up my last few paychecks. They can't fix it until the next payroll cycle and things are tight."
Kay's voice softened. "I'm so sorry; I didn't know about this. Let me see what I can do." Kay dropped everything and spent the day cutting the red tape necessary to put a check for his back pay into Bart's hands.
Sometimes it's hard to ask for help or to let other people into your private world. Stuffing emotions usually doesn't help. Instead the emotion your feeling finds its way to the surface—often unrelated to whatever is really troubling you. God is your help. He will show you who you can trust to share your challenges. It's okay to ask for help—from Him and from others.
Today's One Thing
Is there something in your heart that is causing you to ooze with emotion? Ask God today about sharing your heart with a friend or coworker.
Going Deeper
Psalm 121:1-8; Galatians 6:1-10
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Don't wait until you're far from God before you decide to pursue Him.
Seek the Lord while he may be found; call upon him while he is near; let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts; let him return to the Lord, that he may have compassion on him, and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon. —Isaiah 55:6-7 (ESV)
Refuse to Drift
Cameron and his brother, Nate were thrilled about the annual family camping trip. This year their parents agreed the boys were old enough to handle their own canoe on the river. Once on the river the boys burst ahead, excited to be on their own. Several times their father shouted warnings not to get too far ahead. It was important not to drift away from the rest of the group.
Caught up in their excitement, the boys realized they had lost sight of their family. The river had grown wide and the boys realized they needed direction in which way to go. They paddled backwards, but the current was too strong.
They began to drift to the left fork in the river just as they saw their family coming into the clearing, but it was too late. The boys flew over the most treacherous rapids. They lost their canoe and escaped the river with cuts and bruises.
Isaiah 55:6 tells us to call on the name of God while he is near. God won't move away from you, but sometimes it's easy with life's distractions to drift away from Him. Don't wait until you are far from God before you decide to pursue Him.
Today's One Thing
Pursue God today in whatever manner He leads you.
Going Deeper
Hebrews 2:1-4; Isaiah 55:1-13
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Jealousy can become a detour in your life that could take you out of the way of God's best.
A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot. —Proverbs 14:30 (ESV)
A Spring-Cleaning in Your Heart
Mariah angrily threw her laptop, purse and jacket into the backseat of her car. She took a deep breath before settling behind the wheel of her car. Her best friend, Sheila slipped into the passenger side of the car.
"Why do you let him get under your skin, anyway? You are both extremely talented in very different ways," Sheila encouraged, sipping on her soda as Mariah backed out of the parking lot.
"It just seems like wherever I go; he goes. Whatever projects I bid on; he bids on. His work is good; just different. He just rubs me the wrong way."
"Are you jealous of him?" Sheila asked digging a little deeper than Mariah was comfortable with.
"Wow! I guess so," Mariah admitted as she slid her car into the left lane and waited for the green left turn arrow. "I'm not normally jealous. I ask the Lord to bring me the clients He desires me to work with. I must really have some leftover anger since he got the art gallery contract I really wanted."
"Yeah, but look how God opened doors after that for you."
"Sheila, you are so good for me. You make me look at myself in real time! I need to ask the Lord to do some spring-cleaning in my heart. I don't want to be jealous or resentful about this—or anything else."
Jealousy can become a detour in your life that could take you out of the way of God's best. It can impact your emotions and fill your heart and mind with thoughts contrary to God's Word. When you choose to trust Him to direct your path, you will find that it's not about beating the competition, but following His lead.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING do you need to follow God's lead on today?
Going Deeper
James 4:1-12; 2 Corinthians 12:11-21
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The stories of the Bible are true and can be trusted.
Taking the five loaves and the two fish, he looked up to heaven and said a blessing over them. —Luke 9:16 (ESV)
Pure Fact
"Magic" is defined as the power of apparently influencing the course of events by using mysterious or supernatural forces. Yet a magician will tell you performing magic is actually mastering the art of illusion: using sleight of hand or deceptive devices to produce a misleading or false impression of reality.
Skeptics who read the story of Jesus' feeding of the throng of people from Luke 9 can only assume the story is pure fiction, because no sleight of hand could've produced the amount of food needed to feed an estimated 5,000 people from a pair of fish and five loaves of bread. Even the disciples were perplexed: "Send the crowd away to go into the surrounding villages and countryside to find lodging and get provisions," they insisted to Jesus, "for we are here in a desolate place." (Luke 9:12 ESV) But Christ told His followers to have the people break into groups of about 50 people each, and then proceeded to say the prayer from today's verse. What happened? The people were fed to the full, and a dozen baskets of leftovers remained. Only real magic—actual supernatural forces—could do that.
From Genesis to the Gospels to Revelation, the stories of the Bible are true and can be trusted. The Lord of Scripture could do anything then, and He can perform all things today. Have faith for the miracle you need right now. Believe God's Word!
Today's One Thing
Read Scripture, then pray for your most overwhelming need. Trust God will respond.
Going Deeper
Psalm 55:1-17; Matthew 21:18-22; John 10:25-38
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Develop a lifestyle of praise to God and live with joy!
Be glad in the Lord, and rejoice, O righteous, and shout for joy, all you upright in heart! —Psalms 32:11 (ESV)
Enthusiasm Finder
She'd heard about the madness of it all, but nothing prepared Teri for what she experienced as she accompanied her boyfriend Alex to the party to watch the big championship game. Balloons and streamers with team colors floated near the ceiling, and cookies, chips, and even the obligatory fruit plate filled the folding table at the side of the room. The television was enormous, way bigger than the one that dotted a corner of her small apartment. Yet the thing Teri noticed most of all after the game started was the open, unabashed enthusiasm her boyfriend's buddies, and even their wives or girlfriends, showed toward their team. They screamed, they cheered, they jumped up and down—all for a bunch of guys in baggy shorts bouncing around a ball.
Then she thought about her own enthusiasm about her hobbies, her job, her faith: and found herself curiously lacking. Why couldn't she have this same sort of childlike joy for the life or her Lord? Later that night before bed, Teri prayed, "God, help me be as thrilled about you, and what you're doing in me, as Alex and his friends are about sports. Let me learn to live with joy!"
Sometimes it's the strangest things that cause you to notice what you're missing. Are you lacking enthusiasm for life? Do you want to develop a lifestyle of praise to God? Ask the Lord to work in your mind and heart. He'll give you plenty to shout about.
Today's One Thing
Do a Word study on "joy." What does it teach you to be happy about? Make a list.
Going Deeper
Psalm 65:1-13; Isaiah 51:3-11; Colossians 1:10-20
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God will use everything that happened to you and in you to accomplish His purposes.
Be still, and know that I am God. —Psalm 46:10 (ESV)
Not Done Yet
Annabelle looked around at the large banquet hall, glanced across at the others seated with her at the round table, and still couldn't help but wonder why she was here.
Invited by a friend, she knew coming was a good idea. This ministry organization was doing incredible work in her community, and her involvement with them would certainly be a positive experience. But she was about to retire from lifelong church work, and was still reeling from the losses of both her husband and mother in the past year. She really didn't know what her next step in life should be. Annabelle nibbled at her salad. "Am I still useful, Lord?" she wondered silently. "Do I still have a purpose with you?"
As the ministry leader shared his vision, a still, small voice began speaking to Annabelle's spirit. "My daughter," it said. "Everything that's happened to you, and every ability I've nurtured within you, has been for my purposes. Listen." Just then, the speaker shared a need within the organization—specific, vital, and ideal for Annabelle's skill set. Her heart leaped. "That's it!" she said, just loud enough to earn a surprised look from the woman next to her. Annabelle smiled and realized she was about to cry, but she didn't care. "I know what God wants me to do next," she whispered to the woman. "I'm not done yet."
Where are you? Listen. He is God, and He still has a purpose for you.
Today's One Thing
Commit to the Lord in prayer that you will not hesitate to obey when He speaks to you.
Going Deeper
Psalm 66:8-20; John 10:1-14
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Christ is more than powerful enough to meet your greatest need.
This, the first of his signs, Jesus did at Cana in Galilee, and manifested his glory. And his disciples believed in him. —John 2:11 (ESV)
Supernaturally Sweet
It could be argued it was a miracle of convenience. Little is known about how a wedding was performed in the Holy Land in the time of Christ, but it is known the feast was important and could carry on for days. To fail in hospitality was a serious offense, so it made sense Jesus' mother Mary would want to spare the hosts of the wedding at Cana in Galilee needless embarrassment.
At her prompting, Christ asked some servants to fill six stone jars with ordinary water. He then made them extraordinary. He turned the water into wine, and it wasn't the cheap stuff: the guests credited the bridegroom for saving the choicest wine for last. The bridegroom surely had no idea what had happened, but centuries later his wedding feast remains immortalized in the pages of the Bible because of what Jesus did: His first recorded miracle.
You serve a miracle-working Lord, and today you may need something more than a miracle of convenience. Perhaps you have recently lost a loved one and need comfort; or find yourself unemployed and need provision; or are recovering from a broken relationship and need restoration. Whatever it is, Jesus is more than powerful enough to turn your sour circumstances into something supernaturally sweet. Ask, trust, and receive from Him!
Today's One Thing
As His disciple and child, believe God for your need in prayer. Expect Him to respond.
Going Deeper
Exodus 14:13-31; Matthew 7:7-11; John 2:1-11
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There is a fountain to refresh eternally all those who are parched by sin and suffering.
Whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life. —John 4:14 (ESV)
Unabashed Testimony
The woman you meet in John 4 is much like anyone who might visit your church this weekend. She had a questionable past, yet her innermost heartaches left her thirsty and seeking something more—something better.
Her encounter with Jesus Christ, this man who could give her "living water," was unexpected, even shocking. His knowledge of God, and of her supposedly hidden secrets, certainly startled her. It also changed her life. Leaving her water jar beside the well, she went back into town and told anyone who would listen: "Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?" (John 4:29 ESV) As a result, many Samaritans from that town believed in Jesus as the Messiah because of her unabashed testimony.
"The story of the conversion of the woman of Samaria has a universal meaning," wrote Edith Deen in All the Women of the Bible. "She is the prototype of women everywhere who live for carnal pleasures. It is comforting to know today, that as it was in the time of Jesus, there is a fountain to refresh eternally all those who are parched by sin and suffering."
Are you thirsty today? Drink from God's goodness and be restored. Then, when you enter your house of worship this Sunday, look around. Pick out someone you've never seen before, and introduce yourself. Invite them back. Pray for them. Ask God to draw them to His ever-flowing love.
Today's One Thing
Like Jesus at the well, offer someone the living water of your Lord.
Going Deeper
Isaiah 55:1-13; John 7:25-40; Revelation 22:1-11
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Others will place you in a position of trust—if you treat them with kindness.
Thus says the Lord of hosts, "Render true judgments, show kindness and mercy to one another." —Zechariah 7:9 (ESV)
Soothing Self-Talk
The moment Sarah walked inside, the ambiance of the coffee shop bathed her with relief. As she got in line, she sensed the wisdom of her decision to leave the house for awhile. Her husband Bill gratefully agreed to watch the grandkids; he knew why she was upset. Her son Jon and his wife Joanna were still making irresponsible financial decisions, and now they had the audacity to ask if her and Bill would watch the kids next weekend so they could go to California. It was ridiculous, and Sarah told them so. They left in a huff, prompting Sarah's coffee run to cool off her emotions.
As she sat sipping her mocha, a college girl tried to order, but her card was rejected. Without hesitation, the older gentleman behind her bought the girl's drink, and then was surprised himself when the cashier let him get his drink for free in response to his act of kindness. Kindness. "I haven't been the least bit kind to Jon or Joanna lately," she told herself. "All I've been is critical. I was young once. I spent stupidly. But I learned from my mistakes. They will, too." She left the coffee shop. "Thank you, Lord," Sarah whispered as she retrieved her car keys. "I'll apologize, and then be positive and helpful if they ask for advice."
Others will be more likely to place you in a position of influence and trust—if you treat them with kindness. Quench your critical spirit, and show mercy.
Today's One Thing
Speak words of encouragement to the person in your family who is most difficult.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 15:1-7; Galatians 5:16-26; Colossians 3:12-21
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You can be the Father God purposed you to be.
And he will turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to their fathers, lest I come and strike the land with a decree of utter destruction. —Malachi 4:6 (ESV)
Be the Father Your Children Need
Keith looked across the yard at his dad as he chased one of his grandsons carrying the football. He looked at his wife, Amy, who waddled toward him expecting their first child. "What's up?" she smiled. "You have a funny look on your face."
"I was just thinking about what a great childhood I had and what a great dad I have. I hope I can be like him in many ways." Amy sat down in the lawn chair next to Keith and nodded, urging him to continue. "My dad was strict with us, but taught us to believe God and believe in ourselves. He demanded obedience but also extended grace when we needed it. He was an excellent provider and modeled his faith in front of us."
Amy took his hand. "You're going to do great with our baby. You and I have lots of support and the wisdom of the Holy Spirit. Your dad raising you has prepared you to be the father God has called you to be."
You can be the father God wants you to be. Everyone makes mistakes, but God gives grace. Even if your father wasn't the greatest role model, you have the help of the Holy Spirit to teach you how to be the father God desires you to be for your children.
Today's One Thing
Are you listening to the Holy Spirit as you grow in fatherhood? Take time to hear His voice today.
Going Deeper
Colossians 3:18-25; Proverbs 1:1-33
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God will fulfill your dream, in His timing, as you trust in Him and take a risk.
May he grant you your heart's desire and fulfill all your plans! —Psalms 20:4 (ESV)
Master Maestro
When they met, Alan sensed God had orchestrated the encounter. He loved coaching writers, and Millie enthusiastically shared how she'd been journaling, writing stories and devotionals, and was excited to join his writers group. The next day she sent him some samples of her writing—and an added note: "Many years ago, I wrote in my journal a prayer that went something like this: 'Father God, please use the writings you have given me in a way that would bring you glory. It is my desire to be published, to share what you have spoken to me. Please, Lord, answer the desire of my heart.' After writing that prayer, I continued to write even though I wasn't seeing an answer to my prayer."
She concluded, "Last night after we talked, I got in my car and cried and shook my head and asked God if meeting you was the beginning to Him answering my prayer of long ago and fulfilling the desire of my heart. I'm almost too afraid to believe it could be true."
Millie is about to be published for the first time. Her writing will be read by thousands of people. She knows this is just the beginning of what God is going to do with her writing!
Has God given you a dream, or perhaps equipped you to help someone achieve their heartfelt desire. Trust the Lord, take a risk, and seek to be used by Him.
Today's One Thing
Do something to boldly step forward toward the dream God has planted in your heart.
Going Deeper
Psalm 37:3-9; Romans 12:1-8; Ephesians 5:15-21
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As you read the Bible and praise God, you will affirm Jesus' Lordship in your life.
Those in the boat worshiped him, saying, "Truly you are the Son of God." —Matthew 14:33 (ESV)
Recall His Acts
"We see throughout the Bible," theologian R.C. Sproul wrote in Worship the Lord in the Beauty of Holiness, "that when someone in antiquity encountered the holy God, the experience was almost uniform. To a person they stood quaking in terror, trembling before the Most High God. They were frightened; they were humbled; they were disintegrated; but they certainly were never bored."
Such was the reaction of the disciples in today's verse—and understandably so. They had just witnessed one of Jesus' most remembered miracles. "After he had dismissed the crowds, he went up on the mountain by himself to pray. When evening came, he was there alone, but the boat by this time was a long way from the land, beaten by the waves, for the wind was against them. And in the fourth watch of the night he came to them, walking on the sea." (Matthew 14:23-25 ESV) The disciples were frightened because they thought Jesus was a ghost floating over the waves; they were humbled because He asked one of them, Peter, to join Him on His supernatural stroll; and they were disintegrated when He challenged their lack of faith. Then they knew: He must be the Son of God!
As you read the Bible and learn of Him and from Him, you will affirm His Lordship in your life. Open up His Word, recall His great acts, and deepen your relationship with Him.
Today's One Thing
Spend at least 10 minutes worshipping Jesus—simply for who He is.
Going Deeper
Daniel 10:1-19; Luke 12:22-31; Revelation 5:6-14
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Plug into the power source and don't be anxious about anything.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. —Philippians 4:6-7 (ESV)
Power Down and Plug In
An ambulance had come and taken her neighbor friend away early this evening and she didn't know why. It had felt like a long day, especially after the argument with her son. Ever since he had become a teenager, their relationship had been strained.
Janine washed her face as she prepared for bed. God, give me your peace that goes way beyond my comprehension. I need it tonight.
As she checked for any last email updates on her laptop, a message popped up with the familiar "ding." Janine had unplugged to work a bit more from the comfort of her bedroom. The message read, "Plug in or find another power source." As she stared at the notification, Janine knew what she needed to do. Powering down, she pulled out her Bible and read until she grew drowsy, and God's peace enveloped her.
Are you running low on energy to face the new day? Do you have concerns cluttering up your mind? It's time to tap into the One power source that can truly help.
Today's One Thing
Spend a few minutes reading your Bible today, as you pray about what concerns you.
Going Deeper
1 Peter 5:7, Matthew 6:31-34
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God's provision often comes from surprising places.
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. —Matthew 6:33 (ESV)
God's Surprising Provision
Money was tight, but John knew it was important to pay his debts. As he looked over his bills, he set aside money to repay his brother, who had voluntarily given him and Susan money to help with their move. Being so young and newly married, they hadn't even realized they would need the extra cash, so it was such a blessing for Jason to even think of it.
Sending a check off to his brother, John informed his wife that they would have to be even more frugal this month with the added expenses of their new baby.
A week later Susan opened a letter they had received in the mail. As tears welled up in her eyes, she couldn't help but call John at work, "John, Jason sent the check back. He wrote, 'Paid in full!'
Have you ever been in awe by God's provision? Do you have a need right now that you're waiting to see how He will take care of it? Be faithful with what God has given to you, pray and watch how He provides.
Today's One Thing
Act with responsibility regarding your finances today, doing one thing to reduce debt.
Going Deeper
1 Timothy 6:17, Matthew 6:25-34
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In God's capable hands, there is peace amidst transition.
Now the Lord said to Abram, "Go from your country and your kindred and your father's house to the land that I will show you... So Abram went, as the Lord had told him. —Genesis 12:1&4 (ESV)
Moving in Peace
Monique had no desire to move. She had just told her best friend that if she could live anywhere, right here was where she would choose to live. She was close to her friends and family. She enjoyed the temperate year-round weather and the ability to be outside biking, hiking and enjoying the beautiful sunsets. Yet her husband, Michael, had said they would most likely have to relocate within the next year due to his job.
Distraught, Monique began to pray and ask God to help her accept this news, or to change it so that they wouldn't have to uproot their family far from the place she called home.
As she was reading through her Bible study lesson, something caught Monique's eye and stopped her in her tracks. When God told Abram to move his family, the Bible says that he went as the Lord told him to do. It doesn't say that he argued or whined. It just says that he went.
With newfound resolve, Monique told Michael, "I will trust God with where He takes us." Then she began to sort her closets and cabinets in preparation for the upcoming transition. She knew it wouldn't be easy, but she had peace because she knew she was in God's capable hands.
Today's One Thing
Trust God with where you are today and take the next step toward His direction.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 3:5-6
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Be courageous, because you are special to God and have great purpose in Him!
So we are always of good courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord. —2 Corinthians 5:6 (ESV)
Zest For Living
Cheryl met Brie when she, her sister, and her grandmother sat next to her at a McDonald's—and she immediately knew Brie was special.
Although smaller than her pre-school aged sister, Brie's new front teeth suggested she was older. "Yes, tomorrow will be her eighth birthday," the grandmother answered with a smile, then went on to share with Cheryl about the child.
Brie suffered from Spina Bifida, meaning she was born with a spinal column that did not close all the way. For the longest time, Brie couldn't get around at all, and only recently had learned to use the restroom without help. She'd endured numerous surgeries for stomach problems. Because her parents were divorced, Brie and her sister lived with her grandparents. Cheryl's heart ached, but the grandmother pointed out, "Brie is the happiest child I know. If she is sad, it lasts only for a moment."
As they said good-bye, Cheryl's eyes welled with tears. Although she'd known Brie for only minutes, she'd made a lasting impression. Her quick smile and cheerful spirit proclaimed a courageous zest for living. One Cheryl wished she had more of in her life.
It's easy to feel so overwhelmed by life we sometimes wish we could just be with the Lord and leave it all behind. Yet today's verse encourages you to be courageous like Brie, and "walk by faith, not by sight." (2 Corinthians 5:7 ESV) Why? Because you're special to God, and still have great purpose in Him!
Today's One Thing
Write down three things you are grateful for in life, and then praise God for them.
Going Deeper
Job 10:1-13; Psalm 57:1-11; Romans 8:28-39
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Finding Purpose in the Pain. 04-09-2014
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Share His Word and love to all who will listen, no matter the opposition.
Since we have such a hope, we are very bold. —2 Corinthians 3:12 (ESV)
Trust and Proclaim
In Paul's day, the church at Corinth had been infiltrated by false teachers who were challenging both Paul's personal integrity and his authority as an apostle. Because he had announced a change in his itinerary, with the result that he would now pay the Corinthians one long visit instead of two short visits, these opponents of the church were insisting Paul's word could not be trusted.
In response, Paul writes 2 Corinthians to affirm that his personal life in their midst was always honorable and that the life-changing message of salvation in Jesus Christ remained trustworthy indeed. In today's verse, he boasts in a Godly way that he is so certain of the Lord's promise of eternal life that he could—and would—declare it without reservation. The man who was once Saul of Tarsus and Christianity's greatest persecutor knew without a shadow of a doubt that what he believed was true.
You'll honor the Lord and draw others to Christ as you understand, trust and proclaim His Word and love to all who will listen, no matter the opposition. Endeavor to be bold for Him, and then find direction and encouragement from Paul's closing appeal to the Corinthians:
"Finally, brothers, rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you." (2 Corinthians 13:11 ESV)
Today's One Thing
Ask the Lord to give you the name of one person you can witness to this week.
Going Deeper
Acts 4:23-31; Romans 5:1-11; 1 Thessalonians 4:1-12
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Taking Christ to Your World - 04/04/2014
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Sometimes the desire of your heart doesn't come about the way you think it will.
Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. —Psalm 127:3-4 (ESV)
Give God Permission
Karen closed the door to the nursery gently, careful not to make a sound that might wake the sleeping twins. She stepped back and took a deep breath. The house was quiet. She cherished the moment because she knew it would not last long.
She slipped down the hall and into the kitchen as she adjusted her robe a bit more snuggly. She poured herself a cup of coffee and opened the sliding glass door, stepping out into the patio. The early morning air was crisp, almost cold but refreshing. She sat down in her favorite patio chair and waited for the sun to rise.
She sipped her coffee and brushed her hair from her face, taking in the moment. Her thoughts turned to God and the blessings he had poured out on her life in the last six months. After six years of marriage without children, God opened the door to adoption—not with just one child, but two.
She knew her purpose was to be a mother. It didn't happen the way she and her husband had hoped, but it did happen. She lifted her eyes to God—like she lifted her eyes to the sunrise sitting out on the patio—and thanked the Lord for making another way.
Sometimes the desire of your heart doesn't come about the way you think it will. God's purpose and plan will make your dreams a reality when you are open to Him doing things the way He sees as best.
Today's One Thing
Open your eyes today to the possibility that your dream could be fulfilled, but it may not look the way you think it should. Give God permission to do things His way.
Going Deeper
Psalm 127:1-5; Proverbs 19:20-21
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
The Intentional Choice of Adoption
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You can know God's will.
And Moses said to his father-in-law, "Because the people come to me to inquire of God; when they have a dispute, they come to me and I decide between one person and another, and I make them know the statutes of God and his laws." —Exodus 18:15-16 (ESV)
Answers to Your Questions
Moses was a miracle child, hidden away from Pharaoh's mandate to kill Hebrew baby boys, and then drawn from his hiding place and saved from the death decree by the hand of Pharaoh's own daughter, who adopted him and eventually raised him in the palace as her child and Pharaoh's grandson.
But Moses, story was only beginning. God positioned him and he was the one God used to deliver His people from slavery and bring them to the edge of the Promised Land. Moses searched for God's will and plan at every turn as he led the Israelites through the desert for many, many years.
In Exodus, 18, Moses speaks of how the Israelites constantly came to him to "seek God's will" about various matters and quarrels. But look closely at how Scripture says Moses dealt with this weighty responsibility: "When a dispute arises, they come to me, and I am the one who settles the case between the quarreling parties. I inform the people of God's decrees and give them his instructions" (Exodus 18:16 NLT). Moses turned to the law—God's decrees, standards, rules for living, His Word—to define God's will for the people. Moses applied it to every circumstance or situation brought before him.
The answers you have for your life can be found today in the Bible. As you discover His Word, you will grow in your understanding of His plans, His purposes, His character and His nature. Pleasing Him will align you with His will for your life each day.
Today's One Thing
Set aside a time each day to get alone with God and read His Word.
Going Deeper
Exodus 18:13-27; 1 Peter 2:15-35
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Intentional Decisions with Dr. Tony Evans
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Through Jesus' sacrifice for sin, you were made a child of God without fault, created to shine like stars in the universe.
There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. —Romans 8:1 (ESV)
Time to Shine
Kimberly carried the hot teacup over to the dining room table and set it down in front of her friend, Sara. Through her tears, Sara looked up at her mentor and friend, and nodded her thanks.
Sara choked the words out, "I just feel so worthless and guilty. I know God has forgiven me for my past, but the consequences continue to remind me of what I've done, where I've been and what a mess I've made of my life."
"You can't continue to beat yourself up over the things you can't change," Kimberly encouraged. "What's done is done. It seems harsh to say, but I'm going to say it. You can sit here, criticize yourself and feel guilty, or you can get up and live every moment God gives you becoming the new person He knows...and I know...you can be."
"So, what do I do when I think those thoughts that condemn me," Sara asked.
"You go to the Bible, and find scriptures that affirm who you are in Christ. You are His child, a joint-heir with Jesus. The Bible says old things are passed away, all things are new. Replace the things you think and say about yourself, with what He thinks and says about you."
"Sara smiled, "I can do that. Thank you!"
How often do you criticize yourself to the point of hopelessness because of difficult circumstances? It's easy to do, but it's not the choice God has for you. Romans 8:1 is your promise straight from the Father's heart. God, through Jesus' sacrifice for sin, has made you blameless and pure, a child of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.
Today's One Thing
Are there some thoughts or words that you tell yourself that need to be replaced with God's thoughts or words today?
Going Deeper
Romans 8:1-11; Romans 8:12-17
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
It's What's On the Inside that Counts
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God doesn't forgive us because we forgive others, but His great mercy compels him to forgive us.
But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved. —Ephesians 2:4-5 (ESV)
Choose to Show Mercy
There was a servant who owed his master a large sum of money, but he didn't have the funds to pay what he owed. The servant went to his master and begged his master to forgive the debt. The master's heart, filled with compassion for his servant, forgave the large debt.
That same servant then went to someone who owed him money and showed him no mercy at all. The master learned that the very one he had forgiven, refused to forgive. The master became angry with the servant because he didn't pay it forward. He refused to show the same compassion for another that was given to him.
In a similar situation, a woman secretly borrowed money from her company, fully intending to pay it back with the hope of not being found out, but she was caught. She feared losing her job and faced possible criminal charges. As she stood before her boss waiting for his decision, surprisingly her debt was forgiven and she was asked to stay on with the company with the opportunity to rebuild her reputation as a trustworthy employee.
When she asked her boss why he would do such a thing, he replied, "I made mistakes early on in my career and was shown mercy. I want to pay it forward and give you another chance, just as I was given a second chance.
Today's One Thing
Is there someone you need to forgive and extend mercy to today? Ask God to help you show His mercy to them.
Going Deeper
Matthew 18:23-35; Luke 11:1-12
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Forgiveness When All Else Fails
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God and you are a great team—unified in determination to fulfill His purpose for your life.
And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. —Galatians 6:9 (ESV)
Never Give Up
After a long day, Miranda plopped her laptop and purse onto the kitchen table, walked to the fridge and grabbed a bottle of cold water. She rubbed her watery eyes. Even with the help of an allergy tablet, she felt extremely tired.
"Why don't you skip the gym?" her husband, Rick suggested. "I'll go by myself. You should lie down for a while."
"Oh, no," Miranda argued. "I made a commitment to go with you to the gym. I'm determined to stay on target. And I still have so much to do tonight for work. I knew when I started this that there would be days like this. I just need to push through."
That evening as Miranda prepared for bed, she took a few minutes to read the Bible and pray. "Lord, thank you for the strength to navigate this season in my life. I am committed to a lot of things, but I know that as long as I hold on to you, I can do all things."
Tomas Fuller said, "A strong will, a settled purpose, an invincible determination can accomplish almost anything."
Today's One Thing
God will never give up on you. What ONE THING are you pursing today in which you need His strength to remain determined and press through. Talk to Him about it today.
Going Deeper
Galatians 6:1-10; 2 Timothy 1:3-18
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
How to Get Your Life Unstuck
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You can turn an extensive struggle into creative pleasure simply by the way you choose to look at it.
The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty. —Proverbs 21:5 (ESV)
Turn It Around with the Right Perspective
Lacey crammed the overflowing top drawer of the dishwasher with extra force and the dishes rattled more than usual. Her frustration was overly apparent. "What's up babe?" her husband Rich called from the living room where he sat with his feet propped up on the coffee table.
"Ugh!" she groaned in reply. "I just can't seem to get caught up, no matter how hard I try. I push myself and..." her voice trailed off. Rich knew something was wrong. He moved into the kitchen to check on her. "It's more than that, isn't it," he prodded.
"I look at our lives, our children, my career and feel stuck. I don't feel like I'm making a difference."
He took her hand and pulled her after him as he started up the stairs. "I want to show you something," he encouraged. He topped the stairs and gently opened their boys' bedroom door, where they were both napping. "You see this," he said. "This is good. Everything you do is an investment in their future—and mine. You give of yourself every day. You make a difference. Life will never be perfect, and there's always something to do. Food on the table, dirty dishes in the dishwasher, clean laundry piled up on our bed to be folded—it's all good. Every single thing you do makes a difference in our lives. We are rich because you are diligent to love us, care for us, and help us become all that God has created us to be."
Lacey smiled, thankful for his encouragement. He kissed her gently. "Now, I'll help you fold those clothes piled on the bed if it makes you feel better."
God created the world in six days. When He stepped back to look at it, He said, "It is good!" He did all His work with diligence and His reward was satisfaction. God wants you to experience satisfaction as a result of your diligence as well. You can turn an extensive struggle into creative pleasure simply by the way you chose to look at it.
Today's One Thing
What are you looking at today that needs a fresh perspective? Take a step back and look at it differently today.
Going Deeper
2 Timothy 2:14-26; Proverbs 6:6-8
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Making Your Work Meaningful
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God's greatest works are performed in our hearts in the middle of adversity.
I will bless the Lord at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul makes its boast in the Lord; let the humble hear and be glad. Oh, magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together! —Psalm 34:1-3 (ESV)
Still a King while in a Cave
David, the shepherd boy God called to become the king of Israel, wrote three psalms from his experience in the Cave of Adullam. God promised David the throne, but the current king, Solomon, pursued David with the desire to kill him. David hides in the Cave of Adullam while running for his life. He begins his writing distraught and focused on his circumstances, "God, are you listening? I'm in a cave! Solomon says he's going to kill me."
He wallows in the cave of adversity, overwhelmed by his situation—losing hope. God has not left David. He has not forgotten His promise. Yet, David cries out with no escape in sight. His situation consumes him and for a moment, he thinks he's going to die!
But something changes. David's circumstances don't change from one Psalm to the next, but his perspective changes and his faith begins to rise. By Psalm 34, the third song that David wrote in the Cave of Adullam, he's not out of the cave, but the cave is out of him. The cave—or his circumstance is no longer in charge. He takes courage in God's promise. He begins to see himself in the light of God's promise. He may be in a cave, running for his life, but he is still the chosen king of God's people—and God keeps His promises. Suddenly, there is a shift in David's heart. His complaints are replaced with praise as he sees himself as God sees him.
Cave experiences are an unpleasant fact. It's easy to lose your perspective when you believe you've hit rock bottom. But God's greatest works are performed in our hearts in the middle of adversity.
Today's One Thing
If you find yourself in a cave today, praise God in the darkness. See yourself as God sees you.
Going Deeper
Psalm 34:1-22; 1 Samuel 22:1-23
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Overcoming The Overwhelming
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Deuteronomy 30:19 reminds us that His way brings blessings.
I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live. —Deuteronomy 30:19 (ESV)
Choose to Do Life God's Way
Seven-year-old Hannah loved spending time at her grandparents' house. She loved to escape to the city noise and experience the sights and sounds of the farm. As soon as her father unlocked the car doors, she slid out of her seatbelt and out to embrace her grandparents. Then taking her grandfather's hand she said, "I want to go with you to get the mail."
Grandpa smiled. Their walks to the mailbox were usually filled with life lessons. As they crossed the road and reached the mailbox, Hannah drew a deep breath. Grandpa followed her gaze to a jackrabbit, lying dead in the ditch. He took this opportunity—just like all the others—for a life lesson. "Hannah," he began, "this jackrabbit crossed the road and didn't see the car coming. He stepped outside of the protection of the fenced yard and onto a dangerous path."
Hannah nodded as he took her hand and led her away from the jackrabbit. He continued, "Just like your mommy and daddy give you rules to follow to keep you from doing something that might be dangerous, God's gives us guidelines to follow in the Bible. When we choose to obey, it brings blessing and life. When we disobey and go our own way, we experience pain, hurt and sometimes even death."
Deuteronomy 30:19 reminds us that His way brings blessings while the way of the world brings death. God doesn't force you to do His will. He gives each person the opportunity to accept or reject Him.
Today's One Thing
Choosing to please Christ is a daily choice. Ask Him to help you choose His will and His ways today.
Going Deeper
Deuteronomy 30:11-20; Psalm 139:13-16
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Religion or Relationship
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A simple act of kindness brings blessing and can brighten the lives of others who witness the gesture.
Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you. —Matthew 5:42 (ESV)
Offer Up an Act of Kindness
Traffic was crazy and Alan tried not to be so impatient, but waiting was extremely difficult for him. He inched his way to the intersection. He noticed another car sat with its nose just a little too far into the flow of traffic, as the driver tried to edge out of in the grocery store parking lot and onto the main street.
His immediately response was to crowd the car and not let it in, but a flood of kindness overwhelmed him and he motioned for the car to move into line in front of him. Suddenly, the rear passenger door of the car opened and a young man jumped out and motioned for Alan to roll down his window, which he did.
The young man hurriedly thanked Alan for letting them into the line, held out a freshly baked gourmet cupcake, which Alan took from him, and then rushed back to his car as the light turned green.
Drivers in the cars behind and beside Alan, nodded, smiled and waved. Alan realized he must look stunned, so he smiled and gave his truck a little gas to move forward.
A simple act of kindness brings blessing and can brighten the lives of others who witness the gesture.
Today's One Thing
Ask the Lord to give you opportunities to show acts of kindness in usual ways today.
Going Deeper
Proverbs 11:17; Luke 6:27-36
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Try a Little Tenderness in Your Marriage
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Every person wants to matter, to contribute and to belong.
See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him. —1 John 3:1 (ESV)
The Gift of Affirmation
Jimmy rushed into the kitchen with his basketball in his hands, trying hard to resist the temptation to bounce the ball on the tile floor. "Mom, I'm going to hang with the guys.
His mother, Gloria, dried her hands on the dishtowel and set the freshly prepared salad into the refrigerator before turning to look at him. "Jimmy," she said. "I want to thank you for all you've done this week. You made your bed every morning, took out the trash without me asking once and listened intently to the instruction Dad gave you about the new lawnmower. I am so proud of the responsible young man you are becoming."
Jimmy grinned from ear to ear. "Thanks, Mom!"
"I know you're growing up, but do you think you could spare a hug and a kiss from your mom before you go out to 'hang with the guys,'" she said, smiling. Jimmy switched the basketball to the other arm and permitted his mother a hug and a kiss.
Every person wants to matter, to contribute and to belong. Children persistently try to be a part of something significant. An intentional parent knows their child has those specific needs and strives to meet those needs by finding ways to affirm them each day.
Today's One Thing
Take the opportunity to give your child the gift of affirmation and look for ways to demonstrate your love and your belief in who they are to become.
Going Deeper
Hebrews 12:5-11; Ecclesiastes 5:1-20
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Parenting Challenges
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The direction you take ultimately determines your destination.
"I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds." —Jeremiah 17:10 (ESV)
Finally Headed in the Right Direction
Raegan closed her eyes and leaned back, gently placing her throbbing head into the headrest of the bus seat. It was going to be a long ride home, but she was going to make it. She had been running for a long time.
Her sister, Jen sitting next to her, reached over, took her hand and squeezed it. Raegan turned her head slightly and smiled at her big sister. She was the one who had never given up on her. She had reached out to her, found her when she was lost, and today was bringing her back home.
She turned her face toward the window and watched the as the city melted away into countryside, much like she hoped her chaotic life would disappear into something simple and clean. She felt clean on the inside since returning to God. She knew that the new life she wanted in Christ meant a change in direction, different choices from the ones she'd made in the past and a commitment to not look back. She was ready to begin again and do things God's way. This time she was determined to think, to feel and to do the things that demonstrated her love and commitment to God.
The direction you take ultimately determines your destination. Each choice you make is a step back or a step toward God's purpose for your life.
Today's One Thing
What can you do each day to demonstrate your love for God in how you think, how you feel and what you do each day?
Going Deeper
Jeremiah 17:1-13; Romans 8:18-30
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
What is the Point of Your Life?
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Is your life free from compromise? If not, what is it costing you?
I, the Preacher, have been king over Israel in Jerusalem. And I applied my heart to seek and to search out by wisdom all that is done under heaven. It is an unhappy business that God has given to the children of man to be busy with. I have seen everything that is done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and a striving after wind. —Ecclesiastes 1:12-14 (ESV)
Counting the Cost of Compromise
King Solomon's story is incomplete if you think of him as only the wisest man in the world. The book of Ecclesiastes provides a look back on his life. He openly shares the lessons he learned while living away from God. Solomon counsels those who are tempted to take the path he chose in spite of the great wisdom within his heart.
Solomon's warnings from his experiences demonstrate that understanding, wealth, pleasure or possessions are insignificant without a relationship with God. One of the greatest lessons we can learn from Solomon's life is that you can't catalog your heart and divide it up. You can't disobey God in one area of your life without it affecting the other areas of your life.
Solomon recognized his need for wisdom, and as a young man, God granted his prayer. Yet he chose to marry pagan women, instead of following God's laws. He made a political agreement with an Egyptian Pharaoh and took his daughter as his wife. She was the first of many wives he married to seal the deal in political agreements.
All the wisdom God gave him was lost when he chose to compromise. Disobedience separated him from God. Compromise cost Solomon much.
We must do what is right in every area of our lives in order to live without compromise. Is your life free from compromise? If not, what is it costing you?
Today's One Thing
Consider a trusted friend as an accountability partner in the areas you feel you struggle with compromise. Talk to that friend about it today.
Going Deeper
Ecclesiastes 1:12-18; 1 King 11:1-12
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Speaking Wisdom to a Younger Generation
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Your hope is not in something that you have done, but your hope is built on what Jesus has done in you.
To them God chose to make known how great among the Gentiles are the riches of the glory of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. —Colossians 1:26 (ESV)
Let Your Hope Rest in Him!
Brenda sliced the tomatoes to top the salad while her husband, Carson carried in the chicken off the grill. "I was just thinking about how much God has done in Madison's life," she commented. "I never would have dreamed she'd be offered a scholarship for college to play golf—and she just started golfing her senior year."
"Yeah, I know," he replied. "It seems like every time she turns around—in spite of all the stunts she's pulled in high school—God just continues to open doors and pour out His favor," Carson replied.
"I'm so thankful God's blessing doesn't depend on what we have done. It's all about Him, His love for us and His love for our daughter. We can't be loved less or more because of what we do. I get so frustrated with Madison sometimes, but then God just turns it around."
Christ is the origin of your hope. It's not something that you have done, but your hope is built on what Jesus has done in you.
Today's One Thing
Consider the blessings God has given you. Let all He's done build your hope and trust in Him for your future today.
Going Deeper
John 6:41-59; Psalm 71
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Walk by Faith
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You can lead by example. As you follow God's purpose and plan, you become like Him.
So Jesus said to them, "When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will know that I am he, and that I do nothing on my own authority, but speak just as the Father taught me. —John 8:28 (ESV)
Looking for Something Different
Tonya felt empty. Each day for her was a constant mystery. She searched for something or someone to fill the hole in her heart. Although she was raised in a Christian home, her family didn't look any different than those without God.
"I just don't see it," she told her brother, Todd. "People who say they are Christians live like those who don't know Him. I married a Christian, and my marriage failed. I'm up to my eyeballs in debt and honestly, working with those who are Christians can be worse than working with those who don't profess a faith at all."
"Not everyone is like that. Yeah, some people let their faith lie dormant and live mediocre lives," Todd replied. "But then there are those who do look different. I've met some people who live their faith. They make me want to live for Christ, and not for myself. Some of these people inspire me to go further, reach higher and expect more from myself and God. I've found it's a daily choice and there are people God's put in my life that truly live each day just to please Christ."
Tonya smiled. "That's what I want. I want to see people live it for real! I want that example to follow. They don't have to be perfect—just transparent. I think I'd like to meet your friends who live their faith that way."
There is very little difference in the statistics between believers and non-believers as it pertains to the number of divorces, the number of people who are in debt, or lose their integrity. We fight with our neighbors, are disgruntled with our jobs and wonder how children raised in church struggle with their faith.
You can lead by example. As you follow God's purpose and plan, you become like Him. As you do, your life becomes a shining example lighting the way for others.
Today's One Thing
Make a decision today to look different from the world. Live your faith transparently, reflecting God in hope that others who search for God will find Him inside of you.
Going Deeper
John 8:12-30; John 3:1-15
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Living an Intentional Everyday Faith
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Whatever God has promised, He is faithful to do it!
Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him. Do not add to his words, lest he rebuke you and you be found a liar. —Proverbs 30:5-6 (ESV)
Trust Him to be There for You
Tony closed his laptop and began to pack things away. He really had about fifteen minutes before he needed to leave the office, but he knew if he opened his email right now, he'd get sucked into something pressing and then be late to pick up his son, Marshall, for his baseball game.
When he and Carol were sure they were ready to have children, he made a decision to never break a promise to his children. His own father made promises and broke them daily. He learned quickly he couldn't depend on his father to do what he said. It causes a lot of issues in other relationships for Tony. He had to work hard to open his heart and trust others. It also made it difficult when he received Christ for him to trust the Word of his Heavenly Father. He didn't want any of his children to struggle with that.
"Hey Dad," Marshall said climbing into the car, "is it okay if Alex comes with us? His dad isn't going to make it so I told him you'd be here and he could ride with us."
Tony popped the trunk. "Sure, Alex. Throw your gear in." Tony smiled thinking to himself, Marshall trusts that I will always do what I say I will. I never want to break that trust. He counts on me to be there for him—just like I count on God to be there for me!
God is the ultimate promise keeper. You can trust His Word. Whatever He has promised, He will do!
Today's One Thing
Are there times when you fear that God won't come through for you? Open up your Bible today and remind yourself of His promises for your life!
Going Deeper
Hebrews 4:1-13; Hebrews 10:19-25
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Depressurized Parenting
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What can you do to show your adoration to the Lord? No matter the cost, honor Him.
Jesus said, "Leave her alone. Why do you trouble her? She has done a beautiful thing to me." —Mark 14:6 (ESV)
Priceless Adoration
It might have sold for a full year's wages back then, about 300 pence or 60 dollars, and would easily be worth four times that amount today.
But no cost was too high for Mary, the sister of Martha and Lazarus, when it came to honoring the man—the Lord—who had raised her brother from the dead. She was criticized for her act of adoration, but she didn't care. Her sole focus was to take the expensive perfume and, following the custom of that time, pour the entire contents of the bottle upon the head of Jesus.
What was the significance? Jesus made it clear: "She has done what she could; she has anointed my body beforehand for burial." (Mark 14:8 ESV). He went on to say in the next verse, "And truly, I say to you, wherever the gospel is proclaimed in the whole world, what she has done will be told in memory of her."
So it is, all these centuries later. Mary's reverent action inspires Christians toward worship, and draws non-believers in Jesus to His love. What can you do to show your adoration to the Lord? No matter the cost, honor your Savior. Then seek to deepen your faith in the Lord through worship, Bible reading, and committed prayer. It will compel others to seek Him, too.
Today's One Thing
Write a poem or sing a song to God. Exalt Him with your words.
Going Deeper
John 11:17-44; John 12:1-11; Hebrews 11:32-40
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Faith 101
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Practice God's principles of love, and they'll carry over to your relationships.
So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love. —1 Corinthians 13:13 (ESV)
Rare and Enduring
The modest double-wide mobile home was packed for the occasion as sons and daughters, grandchildren, and relatives close and distant came together to celebrate Evelyn and Arlie. No wonder, since not many couples can boast of a seventy-fifth wedding anniversary. As the duo sat at the kitchen table enjoying their cake and ice cream, a cousin asked the obvious: "How have the two of you stayed together this long?"
Arlie grunted. "I admit I've been a terrible test for her all these years," he said. "She's going to heaven for sure." The comment earned him a quick but loving backhand slap on the shoulder from Evelyn. "Maybe. But I don't have an unkind word to say about Arlie. He's been by my side all the way. I've not always been the easiest person to live with, either."
"So what attracted you to him?" someone else chimed in. She winked. "He had a car, and the rest of the boys didn't." Arlie added. "Yep. It was a Model T Ford touring car. You kids would call it a 'babe magnet' today." The laughter was interrupted by applause as the two leaned in for a quick kiss.
Enduring love is rare these days, but it is possible as you apply today's verse, and the encouragement of all of 1 Corinthians 13, to your life. Whether it's a marriage or a friendship, put into practice God's principles of love, and they'll carry over to your most precious human relationships.
Today's One Thing
Tell your spouse or another special person how much you love them—and why.
Going Deeper
Romans 13:8-14; Ephesians 5:21-6:4; 2 Timothy 1:5-13
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Romancing Your Mate
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Find new purpose and promise as you learn of God's ways and His righteous love.
There I will give her vineyards and make the Valley of Achor a door of hope. —Hosea 2:15 (ESV)
Hopeful Twist
He didn't think he'd taken that much. Yet the garment, silver, and gold Achan stole from the spoils of the fall of Jericho were in direct violation of God's holy command. "But you, keep yourselves from the things devoted to destruction, lest when you have devoted them you take any of the devoted things and make the camp of Israel a thing for destruction and bring trouble upon it." (Joshua 6:18 ESV) When Achan was discovered, the loot was delivered to the valley of Achor, and there he and his family paid the ultimate price for his disobedience.
This sad story is given a hopeful twist by Hosea in today's verse. Here, he says the valley of Achor will become a symbol of new life to the people of Israel as He restores them to Himself. From the most unexpected of places and circumstances, God would bring renewed life and destiny.
With the Lord, there is always the possibility of hope. Has a decision of disobedience left you feeling separated from God? Are you in a valley of despair so deep you can't imagine climbing out of it? There are so many poignant stories like Achan's in the Bible. Each one can be a door of new purpose and promise as you learn of God's ways and His righteous love. Read, study, and apply: a vineyard of rich rewards awaits you.
Today's One Thing
Give God your deepest need in prayer, and listen as He gives you renewed hope.
Going Deeper
Joshua 7:1-26; Hosea 2:1-23; 1 Timothy 4:1-16
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Facing Hard Times
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The lighter side of life can help carry you over the humps.
A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. —Proverbs 17:22 (ESV)
The Lighter Side of Marriage
The DVD exercise coach was instructing, "Your heels are off the floor this whole time!" Jackie's husband, Kevin, grunted, "Oh, no they aren't."
Jackie couldn't help but chuckle. She marveled at how her husband could make her laugh even while doing something she didn't really feel like doing so early in the morning. Once Kevin had determined he needed to get healthier, she had decided to support his endeavor and exercise with him. It couldn't hurt her either.
Come to think of it, it was Kevin's sense of humor that had helped them through some really tough situations over the fifteen years of their marriage. Just when she felt like giving up, he had a way of lifting her mood with his wit. So much of life is serious and Kevin knew how to get down to business, but his ability to see the lighter side of life had really carried Jackie over some humps.
"Kevin," she huffed as she jogged in place, "Thank you for making me laugh. You'll never know just how much that helps me get through the tough stuff."
Today's One Thing
Choose something in particular to thank your spouse for and keep your sense of humor.
Going Deeper
Psalm 16:11, Psalm 126:2-3, Romans 12:9-12
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Making a Marriage that Lasts
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Reaching out to another = New perspective
As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. —1 Samuel 18:1 (ESV)
Be a Friend
Cindy had an independent streak. Especially when she got her feelings hurt, she would pull back from those around her. As she sat alone on Friday night, she began to sulk into a pity party. Nobody cares about what happens to me. Here's the proof. I'm alone. God, I need your encouragement right now.
As soon as she said that prayer, her friend Sadie came to her mind. She knew Sadie was struggling with her relationship with her boyfriend, Tim. Cindy picked up her phone and called Sadie, "I just wanted to check in and see how you're doing."
Fifteen minutes later, with a lighter step in her walk, Cindy was grabbing her keys to head out the door to meet Sadie for coffee. She realized her whole perspective had changed. Reaching out to Sadie had taken the focus off of herself and had even brought her encouragement.
Thank you, God, for reminding me that friendship is not just about my needs being met, but it's about choosing to be there for my friends when they're in need as well, Cindy prayed as she pulled onto the highway.
Today's One Thing
Reach out to a friend with specific encouragement.
Going Deeper
Job 2:11, 2 Kings 2:2, Ruth 1:16-17
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
4 Steps to Improve Your Friendships
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Your words matter to those who hear them.
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. —Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)
Building Up
Bertha walked into the convenience store with chocolate on her mind. She wasn't thinking about what chocolate she was going to buy, but what chocolate she was going to give away. In her car sat four chocolate crosses, each encased in an Easter yellow box, adorned with sparkling purple ribbon and a lily sprig.
Waiting in line, Bertha overhears the woman ahead of her mock the clerk after learning he's been nominated as Foster Parent of the Year. Her words of sarcasm and jest pierce the clerk's heart, as evidenced in his wounded face. The corrupt words also stab Bertha's heart—and compel her to respond.
As she is exiting the store, Bertha sweetly calls over her shoulder, "How many children do you have?" He answers, "Four. Why?" Quickly, Bertha runs to her car, returns and waits in line until it's her turn. "You're back," the clerk says. "Yep. And these are for you." Bertha hands him the bag containing the four chocolate crosses. "I think it is awesome that you have been nominated as Foster Parent of the Year. These are for your children." After being stung moments before by the words of a stranger, the clerk now beams from the words of another.
Piercing words leave behind only destruction for the hearer and others in earshot, but edifying words build up the ruins and bless all those who hear. Be aware of how your words hurt—or help—those around you. Allow God to speak through you.
Today's One Thing
Find someone who looks discouraged and speak words of encouragement to them.
Going Deeper
Colossians 4:2-6; Ephesians 4:29-5:16
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Watching Your Words
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When you unite with your brothers and sisters in Christ in worship, you make the church.
Let your steadfast love, O Lord, be upon us, even as we hope in you. —Psalm 33:22 (ESV)
Together is Better
One evening during Vacation Bible School at church, a new student was brought into Amy's classroom. The little boy, Josh, had one arm missing, and Amy was nervous that one of the other children would say something insensitive to him. At the end of the night, Amy asked the children to join her in their usual closing ceremony. "Let's make our churches," she said, putting her hands together to form the "church." "Here's the church and here's the steeple, open the doors and—"
Amy stopped, and looked at Josh in horror. She'd done the very thing she feared the other children would do. Then the little girl sitting next to the boy reached over with her left hand and placed it up to his right hand and said, "Josh, let's make the church together."
When you unite with your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ in worship, you do exactly what that little girl and one-armed boy did: you make the church. You also set the stage for the Lord to display His steadfast love to you—and anyone else visiting that day. So be caring and sensitive to one another, and praise and exalt the Lord as one! Then pray that your church will be a beacon of hope and new life in Jesus to your community, to reflect Christ in unity and declare His Word with boldness.
Today's One Thing
Invite a friend to attend church with you this Sunday.
Going Deeper
Ephesians 4:1-13; 1 Peter 3:8-15
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Taking Christ to Your Neighbor: with Francis Chan
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As you lovingly care for others in need, God will do the incredible through you.
She came and told the man of God, and he said, "Go, sell the oil and pay your debts, and you and your sons can live on the rest." —2 Kings 4:7 (ESV)
Widow Care
She really didn't know the man of God well, except that he was an acquaintance of her late husband. She did know, though, that Elijah might be able to help her. Her husband had left her with unpaid debts so large that the creditors were going to take her two sons as slaves in payment. The widow didn't know where else to turn.
Elijah did. He knew his God could do anything—so he asked the woman, "Tell me, what have you in the house?" And she said, "Your servant has nothing in the house except a jar of oil." Then he said, "Go outside, borrow vessels from all your neighbors, empty vessels and not too few. Then go in and shut the door behind yourself and your sons and pour into all these vessels. And when one is full, set it aside." (2 Kings 4:2-4 ESV)
She did as the man of God directed, and the result was extraordinary. From her single jar of oil, all the vessels were supernaturally filled! She had enough oil to pay off the creditors and save her sons from slavery, and still more leftover for her and her boys to use.
The Bible repeatedly encourages us to lovingly care for widows. They are under the Lord's special protection through us. Do you know someone who needs your help? Your church is a great place to start. Practice widow care, and you'll please God and achieve the incredible.
Today's One Thing
Set aside at least $20 and use it to help a widow or someone else in need.
Going Deeper
Luke 7:11-17; 1 Timothy 5:1-16; James 1:19-27
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Caring for Widows
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God hears the relentless prayers of parents for their children.
But the steadfast love of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear him, and his righteousness to their children's children. —Psalm 103:17 (ESV)
Nighttime Ritual
Jason snuggled under the covers while Liz leaned over. They rubbed noses. He giggled and she whispered, "I'll love you forever." A nighttime ritual. She'd just finished praying with five-year-old Jason after reading a Bible story from the book's color-brushed pages.
After tucking him in bed, Liz stretched across the family room couch. She wrapped herself in comforting thoughts envisioning Jason's strong future in the Lord. From then through his high school years, they prayed together as a family, and talked about the Lord and His ways.
Then the wild college days hit. Jason partied frequently, getting drunk with friends. Praying with his parents was nonexistent. Tears ran down Liz's face almost daily as she recalled those childhood nighttime routines and his faith. Nighttimes for her now meant tossing in bed, wringing the covers like wet clothes in a washer. "God!" she cried out. "Aren't you hearing our prayers? Save my son!" She and her husband remained relentless in prayer.
Slowly but surely, the Lord began mending their relationship. One day, Jason invited them over for breakfast. Just before eating, Jason touched Liz's hand and said, "Let's pray." The nighttime ritual was being gloriously revived, and joyous peace swept through her spirit as she again thought about those precious words: "I'll love you forever."
Children cannot ride the coattails of their parents' faith, but there are biblical principles that can bring hope on the darkest days. Pray with your children and set an example.
Today's One Thing
Commit to pray each day with your children while they are young and open.
Going Deeper
Deuteronomy 6:6-25; Joel 1:1-14; Mark 10:13-27
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Your Kids and Their Faith
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Press onward, toward holy living, by committing to learn more from God's Word.
I have applied all these things to myself ... that you may learn by us not to go beyond what is written. —1 Corinthians 4:6 (ESV)
Self Protection
It is believed the quoted phrase from today's verse—"not to go beyond what is written"—was a proverb common among the rabbis during Paul's day. As Paul wrote the letter to the Corinthians, it was certainly his desire for his brothers and sisters there to get that basic message.
While the church was gifted with talented members, it was also immature and unspiritual. Factions had developed, birthing a moral laxness within the congregation. Paul's desire was to lovingly yet firmly correct their behavior and propel them to develop a holiness of character: something that could only come through an understanding of and obedience to God's Word. Paul concludes: "I urge you, then, be imitators of me. That is why I sent you Timothy, my beloved and faithful child in the Lord, to remind you of my ways in Christ, as I teach them everywhere in every church." (1 Corinthians 4:16-17 ESV)
Paul's encouragement, and certainly his directives from the entire book of 1 Corinthians, is just as relevant today as they were then. Instability, divisions, jealousy, and sexual immorality are a sad reality in our culture, and sometimes even in our churches. Be careful to protect yourself from deception and press onward toward holy living by committing to learn more from the Bible and applying it to your life. Then find someone in your life like Timothy, and allow that person to be a spiritual mentor to you.
Today's One Thing
Commit—or recommit—yourself to a daily Bible reading time and schedule.
Going Deeper
Deuteronomy 4:5-14; Psalm 119:129-144; James 1:16-27
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Intentional Faith with Guest Ed Stetzer
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Kindness, humility, and forgiveness pave the way for a solid friendship.
Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. —Colossians 3:12 (ESV)
Friendship that Goes the Distance
As teens, Katie and Jill were best of friends. They had so much in common. A good sense of humor, a love for sailing, pennants for the same sports team—and a penchant for doing crazy activities.
As young women, they also enjoyed traveling. Occasionally, Katie would call Jill and say, "Hey, let's get a few girls together and head for San Diego this weekend. I've got lots of activities planned. Maybe we'll even tour a Navy ship." Jill was always eager to join Katie's impromptu adventures.
One day, Katie called Jill to play tennis. Stubbornly, Jill said, "No." Katie sensed something wrong in Jill's tone. "Why not?" Jill's unyielding voice said, "I just don't want to." Katie couldn't understand Jill's chilly attitude. She called her a few more times but there was no answer. Finally, Jill picked up the phone, but her news was difficult to swallow. "Everything has to be your way," Jill fumed. Their relationship was shelved.
A year later, Jill and Katie's hearts softened and their relationship was healed through humility and forgiveness. Today, a quarter-century later, these ladies remain the best of friends.
Forgiveness is difficult. It hits where it hurts most: pride and stubbornness. But with God's Spirit working, it is possible to reach out in kindness and patience, willing to listen to another's viewpoint with a heart of godly compassion.
Today's One Thing
Ask God to help you take the first step to heal a broken relationship in your life.
Going Deeper
Luke 11:2-10; Luke 17:3-19; Ephesians 4:17-32
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
4 Steps to Improve Your Friendships
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Discover a positive attitude that will keep you focused on things above your circumstances today.
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. —John 14:27 (ESV)
Positive Against the Odds
Abigail's coworker, Mark remained constantly positive and upbeat in spite of the continuous challenges at work. Their team had dwindled due to layoffs and budget cuts. That meant an increase in workload and doing more work with fewer resources. Abigail struggled when they were unable to purchase the software upgrades needed or the training they had been promised.
Abigail's heart was heavy with disappointment and yet Mark came in with a song on his lips and smile on his face—no matter how difficult it got. One morning she came into the office to find a note on the empty coffee pot stating the staff would need to provide their own coffee. She carried her empty coffee cup over to Mark's desk. "Can you believe this?" she grumbled.
Mark looked up from a book he was reading. "Oh, yeah! I saw that," Mark smiled.
"How can you stay so upbeat," she scoffed. "Nothing gets to you. We might not have a job tomorrow, you know."
Mark looked at her, suddenly serious. "Abigail, my hope is not in this job or this company. My paycheck is nice, but it is not my source. God is my provider. I have faith knowing He will take care of me no matter what."
Abigail's eyes fell to Mark's open book—a Bible, as Mark continued. "It's disappointing to see the company faltering, but I can't let the circumstances crush my heart. I can stay positive in a negative world because my joy comes from my relationship with Him."
As you spend time with God in prayer and in His Word, let your faith rise and peace fill your heart with His promises and truths, giving you a positive attitude that will keep you focused on things above your circumstances today.
Today's One Thing
Have you allowed your present circumstances to affect your positive attitude? Perhaps you need to take time with the Lord today to make some necessary attitude adjustments.
Going Deeper
John 14:15-31; Deuteronomy 31:1-8
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Attitude Check
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Servant leadership puts you on top!
Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ. —1 Corinthians 11:1 (ESV)
Leadership from a Heart of Service
Rob's frustration seethed from his face, and his friend, Brandon noticed. "Dude, what's the matter?" Rob looked down, a little ashamed.
"I just seem to have to fight for every single step up on the ladder, and you," Rob paused. "Everything seems to come so easy to you; you don't seem to struggle at all."
Rob and Brandon had been friends since elementary school. Somehow, amidst the competition, their friendship survived. Both had worked in the same corporation for the past ten years.
Brandon smiled. "I just don't believe I have to fight to get to the top. I don't have to step on others in order to reach my goals. The world lives in a "survival of the fittest" to ensure their success. Our focus is on the eternal. Jesus was clear that servant leadership positions you for promotion. Promotion comes from God."
The most amazing leaders are born from a heart of service. They are deliberate in putting others before themselves. They choose to respond instead of react. Jesus set a high standard and challenges you today to follow his example.
Today's One Thing
What can you do today to work toward becoming a better leader?
Going Deeper
Matthew 24:45-47; 2 Samuel 23:3-4
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Intentional Servant Leadership
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Through forgiveness and reconciliation with God, a bright future and a healthy life are possible.
Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved, for you are my praise. —Jeremiah 17:14 (ESV)
Almost Whole
Kristi sat on the porch swing with her mother sipping iced tea. She looked across the front yard that spanned an acre watching her eight and ten year old boys riding mini-bikes around the house. Her father had built a little ramp for them and every time they leaped into the air, she shut her eyes.
"Mom," she sighed. "I don't know how I would have survived these last three years without you and Dad. Your love, encouragement and support have brought me through the waters of disappointment. It's as if you and Dad have had a rope around my waist, guiding me in to safety."
Her mom's eyes became wet with tears, "It's been hard for all of us to see you and the boys go through the divorce, but we can see God doing a work in all your hearts."
"When things were so bad, I thought about untying the rope and just giving up, but God reached in and brought me back to the shore. He's been healing my heart slowly. Today I feel stronger than ever before. I am starting to believe there is life after divorce—for me and for the boys."
If your marriage has ended in divorce, God still has a great purpose for you. Through forgiveness and reconciliation with God, a bright future and a healthy life are possible.
Today's One Thing
Believe God to finish the work in your life. Give him access to your hurts and begin to experience wholeness today.
Going Deeper
Jeremiah 17:14-18; Psalm 34:18
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Wholeness After Divorce
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Fight for your marriage with the tool of forgiveness.
And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. —Mark 11:25 (ESV)
Fight for Your Marriage with Forgiveness
Curt and Sandy agreed to work toward becoming debt free. While Curt was overseas on assignment for six months with his international job, Sandy scrimped and saved in every way she could. She sent large payments to their debtors in hopes of being debt free, except for their mortgage, by the time he returned home. It was a sacrifice every day, but the thought of no more balances on their credit cards made her more determined.
She prayed and asked God for wisdom in every financial decision, and talked to Curt when he was available each week about the progress they were making together.
Three days before he returned home, Sandy got a bill in the mail in Curt's name. This must be some kind of mistake, she thought. How could we have a new credit card with a balance that exceeded what she'd sacrificed for half a year to pay off?
That evening she was finally able to connect with Curt via Skype. She asked him about the bill and her heart sank in deep disappointment and hurt with his words, "Honey, I'm sorry. I opened a new account. I needed a few things..."
"You've undone all we've worked for," she cried. "We made a decision—a commitment together, and now I just want to give up. How could you?"
Over the next several days, Sandy wasn't excited about Curt's return home. She dreaded seeing him. She was angry and she knew she needed to forgive him, but she didn't want to. She took some time in prayer each day asking God to give her grace to fight for her marriage with forgiveness and opened her heart for God to help her heal.
Is your marriage worth fighting for? Forgiveness is not easy, but requires a daily decision. You can fight for the marriage God desires for you to have by choosing to forgive your spouse.
Today's One Thing
Do you need to forgive your spouse? Do you need to ask for forgiveness? Are you willing to extend grace and fight for your marriage with forgiveness today?
Going Deeper
Ephesians 4:17-32; Mark 11:20-25
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Practicing Forgiveness for a Lasting Marriage
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Is there a friendship in your life in which the season is coming to a close?
For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: —Ecclesiastes 3:1 (ESV)
Friendships in Season and Out
"Mom," Cassie began, as she loaded the dishwasher after dinner, "I don't think April is my friend anymore."
Leia looked at her sixteen-year old, "Why would you say that, Sweetheart?"
"I've noticed she's not excited for me anymore when good things happen. It's like she's happy when I'm struggling, like in my algebra class, or when someone is rude to me. She's not on my side."
"Have you talked to her about it? Leia asked.
"Yep, and she said I was being a big baby. She told me I couldn't be the best at everything. She even made fun of me in front of some of the other girls when I complained about her not saving me a seat like I asked her to at the party last Thursday."
"I'm sorry. I know you two have been friends for several years. Maybe you're growing apart. Sometimes friendships aren't forever, but for a season."
Clutter in a relationship develops when conflicts that exist between two or more people are either denied or not resolved. They then become ever-present irritants in the relationship. Cluttered relationships create fatigue and frustration and it's very important to address relationship clutter, sometimes by realizing the season of that relationship is over.
Today's One Thing
Is there a friendship in your life in which the season is coming to a close? Ask God for grace to let the friendship expire in a positive way.
Going Deeper
1 Corinthians 15:12-34; Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
De-Clutter Your Relationships
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When the lost knocks on your door, how will you respond?
And he said to them, "Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation..." —Mark 16:15 (ESV)
Lost at Your Door
As church-goers entered into the church doors, different people reacted—and some didn't respond at all—to an indigent man standing next to a cardboard box just three feet from the front entry of the church.
"You couldn't miss him," one of the elderly ladies whispered to her friend she always sat with on the second row. "What makes him think he's going to get a handout, just because he's parked outside the church doors?"
"Shouldn't he get a handout from those who preach love?" one of the ushers said to her, intruding into her conversation."
"I saw Doug Ramsey slip him a $20," the pianist told the guitarist on the platform, forgetting that his microphone was already on.
The worship leader stepped forward and the service began with the first song. Several turned to see the indigent man enter the sanctuary and sit down on the back row. He was aware of the interruption he'd caused by the looks, stares and whispers across the congregation.
When the music stopped, the pastor didn't step up to take the platform, instead, the indigent man stepped toward the platform. No one stepped up to stop him, although several sounds of surprise and concern escaped the lips of many in the congregation.
He took the platform and began to speak. As he did, many recognized the voice of their pastor who had posed as an outcast to see how his congregation would respond to someone in need.
How would you feel if this happened at your church? Would you invite him in and share what you had with him—including the good news of the Gospel?
Today's One Thing
What can you do today to take Christ to the world today?
Going Deeper
Mark 16:14-20; Romans 10:10-17
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Taking Christ To Your World
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What are you doing to teach your child God's Promises?
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. —Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV)
Put the Word into their Hearts
Luke crawled quietly into his sons' dark bedroom. He loved to sneak in after the two preschoolers were in bed and listen to their sweet conversations, unknown to them. He laid on the floor to listen.
Each night as he tucked the boys into bed, he turned on their music, a collection of scriptures set to music. The songs filled the room as Lane, five years old, slept soundly on the top bunk. As Luke listened, he heard his toddler Landon, not quite three years old, singing the words. He had memorized the scriptures! He's memorized the entire album, Luke thought!
Through a habit of playing the Word of God each night in his children's room, he was putting the Truth into the hearts of his little ones.
There is a secret to parenting. The vital task for you as a parent is to teach your child about God, who will instruct your child Himself and fill in any gaps you leave in the process.
Today's One Thing
What ONE THING can you do today to ensure that the Word of God is written on the heart of your children?
Going Deeper
Deuteronomy 6:6-9; Psalm 119:9-16
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Raising Your Amazing Kid
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We cannot be responsible for the choices others make that affect our lives, but only the choices we make.
And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. —Ephesians 5:2 (ESV)
Rules or Relationship?
Sometimes the dos and don'ts of the Bible can seem like a long list of rules. But when you have a healthy relationship with the Lord, they are no longer rules; they become something you want to do to please Him.
Look at the life of Joseph. In spite of the many trials in this young man's life, he lived to please God in everything. His jealous brothers sold him into slavery over a dream, yet he loved them. He was accused of rape when he refused to sleep with his master's wife. He was thrown into prison, and even then he helped others who forgot his kindness.
Joseph's life is a demonstration of choices—one after another—to pursue only what pleases Christ. He lived for His relationship with God. His choices were not made because "God said so," but because He desired above all to do everything in His power to please God.
We cannot be responsible for the choices others make that affect our lives, but only the choices we make.
Today's One Thing
Ask the Lord to help you make choices out of love for Him, and not because He says so.
Going Deeper
Genesis 37; Ephesians 5:1-11
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Religion or Relationship
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God is with you and will help you each step of the way.
Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. —Hebrews 11:1 (ESV)
Getting Through
"John, I just don't see how this is going to turn out good," Sue sighed as she expressed her anguish over the challenges within their family.
John had no clue how all of this chaos was going to work out, but his mind immediately went to one of his favorite Bible stories, the story of Joseph. Betrayed by his brothers and sold into slavery, Joseph's life wasn't an easy one to understand. The key was that, in the end, Joseph was in a position to save his family.
"Sue," John broke out of his thoughts, "as we pray and read our Bibles, I know God will help us through this. No matter what, He is with us and will help us each step of the way. Will you trust Him and stand with me on this?"
Decidedly, Sue grabbed his hand, "Yes, John, I will choose to trust God with you."
Today's One Thing
Surrender to God what concerns you the most today.
Going Deeper
Genesis 50:15-21, Psalm 27:1
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Walk by Faith
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Look at what Christ has done and rejoice, even if you're still waiting for your miracle.
He answered, "Whether he is a sinner I do not know. One thing I do know, that though I was blind, now I see." —John 9:25 (ESV)
Everyone's a Critic
What do you do when you come up against someone who is needlessly argumentative or rude? You'd likely react like the man in John 9.
He was being interviewed by the Pharisees about his miraculous healing from blindness. Earlier, Jesus had the audacity to heal him on the Sabbath, and the Pharisees were decidedly not happy about it. The religious leaders fixated on who Christ said He was, and how He could possibly claim to be from God, and why He does not keep the holy days like they do. "Some of the Pharisees said, 'This man is not from God, for he does not keep the Sabbath.' But others said, 'How can a man who is a sinner do such signs?' And there was a division among them." (John 9:16 ESV)
They were unable to see what was right before their eyes: the man whose life had been forever changed. Certainly, his response from today's verse was born of frustration, but it was also filled with ironic truth for the Pharisees. "Whatever you may think of Him," he said, in essence, "it doesn't matter. All I know is I have my sight. What more do you want?"
Don't be like the Pharisees. Love others, don't accuse. Kill the critic within you. See what Christ has done, and rejoice—even if you're still waiting for your miracle. Know and believe God's Word!
Today's One Thing
Make sure when people look at you or listen to you, they see or hear Jesus' love.
Going Deeper
James 3:3-12; 1 John 4:7-21
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Intentional Faith with Guest Ed Stetzer
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It's important to teach children what the Bible says about seeing one another as God sees us.
If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself," you are doing well. But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors. —James 2:8-9 (ESV)
Helping Your Child Deal with Differences
Vivian walked into the kitchen carrying groceries that she'd picked up on her way home from work. Her fifteen-year-old daughter, Jessica, met her at the door. "Did you get my party invitations?" she asked.
"Yes," Vivian replied.
Jessica helped carry in the groceries and fished her invitations out of the last bag. "Thanks, Mom!" she said, kissing her on the cheek.
"I want to see the list of the girls you're inviting," Vivian called after her, as she disappeared up the stairs."
After dinner, Jessica presented her mother with her list of names. Vivian scanned them and then frowned. "I don't see Mary Kate's name."
"I'm not inviting her," Jessica said. "It's just too difficult. She won't have a good time because of her wheelchair. It's awkward."
"She's been your best friend since you girls were little...." Jessica cut her off. "Yes, Mom and she's great one on one, but in a group she just doesn't get it."
Gently Vivian responded. "I know this party is important to you. Take some time and think about the changes it could bring to your relationships—with Mary Kate—and with the other girls. Then I want you to read James 2, and see what God's Word says about choosing those with differences, rather than those without."
Teens often are unsure how to handle differences in their new social settings. It's important to teach them what the Bible says about celebrating our differences and seeing one another as God sees us.
Today's One Thing
Take some time to talk to your teen about how you've handled differences in your own life—whether that's physical, political, spiritual, cultural or some other kind of difference.
Going Deeper
James 2:1-13; Romans 14:1-4
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Helping Your Kids Deal With Differences
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Do you have a co-worker that makes it nearly impossible to work with?
If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. —Romans 12:18 (ESV)
Impossible People
Adrianne came back from break to find her co-worker, Sean at her desk with his hands in her project as he demonstrated "a better way to get the job done." Other team members had gathered around her cubicle to watch after he popped off to no one in particular, "If she would have just asked me, I could have told her how to do this. It doesn't have to be this complicated."
She bit her lip and hung back behind the others unnoticed. She wanted to make herself as small as possible. She felt hot anger boil to the top. She was certain her face was red. She held back the tears. I will not cave to the emotion and give him the satisfaction, she thought.
Sean's constant interjection of himself into her work had become an uphill battle for months. She didn't want to run to her supervisor—instead she went home every day and asked God to help. So far she didn't see any in sight, but she tried to be patient.
Suddenly, their supervisor joined the group around her cubicle. "What's going on?" she asked. Brett said, "Well, it seems Sean has taken over Adrianne's project, again," as he scurried back to his own desk to finish his own project, and the rest of the group followed his example.
The supervisor turned to Sean. "Did Adrianne ask you for your help?" Sean shook his head no, suddenly at a loss for words. "I specifically asked for Adrianne for this project. She had a natural bent for this type of creativity and I wanted to see what she could do this time."
Sean quickly exited Adrianne's cubicle. Adrianne smiled with relief at her supervisor and took her seat. "Carry on," her supervisor said.
Coworkers can sometimes make it difficult to live peaceably with one another. No matter their agenda, God is able to make all things work together for your good and choosing to respond with love and peace opens the door for Him to do so.
Today's One Thing
Is there something you need to give to God to handle for you when it comes to difficulty in the workplace?
Going Deeper
Romans 12:9-21; Colossians 4:2-6
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
When Co-Workers Drive You Crazy
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The Bible is full of people who prayed, and God answered them in life-changing ways.
At the beginning of your pleas for mercy a word went out, and I have come to tell it to you, for you are greatly loved. Therefore consider the word and understand the vision. —Daniel 9:23 (ESV)
Life-changing Prayer
The Word of God is full of men and women who prayed, and God answered them in life-changing ways. Take the story of Daniel, who walked and talked with God from a very young age. He trusted God to be with him every step of the way.
Daniel practiced obedience to God each day. His daily choices to pray allowed him to become intimate with God's will and His ways. It also allowed him to hear God's instruction clearly. Even when he was thrown into a den of hungry lions for refusing to go without the conversations he held with God, he knew that God would prove faithful. God saved Daniel by miraculously shutting the lions' hungry mouths!
God longs to spend time with you every day. Life is hectic and having a busy schedule can push into your prayer time with God. But when you learn to have those daily conversations with Him, you will find that it is time well spent and it allows God to show His faithfulness in your life.
Today's One Thing
What are you asking God to do through your conversations with Him? Let your time in prayer become a deeper connection today.
Going Deeper
Daniel 9:3-23; James 5:13-20
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
How Prayer Changed a Family
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Are you willing to be wrong?
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. —I John 1: 9 (ESV)
Accidental Apologies
Gary was an attorney whose practice revolved around defending people involved in automobile accidents. There was one principle he drilled into his clients' heads endlessly. "If you're involved in an accident—no matter what's happened—don't ever say 'I'm sorry.'" Saying sorry was an admission of guilt and could cause his clients to lose a case before it had begun. "Better to wait until we get into court," Gary would say, "and let the facts be presented. Then let the judge or jury decide who is truly at fault."
Meanwhile, at home, Gary noticed that his wife Sandra was increasingly short-tempered and often responded with a distinct lack of respect, even derogatorily. Soon he realized the problem: He had adopted his "never say you're sorry" policy himself, and had taken it home. For every shortcoming or failure to follow through, Gary had an excuse—another person to blame, a mitigating factor, a counterargument. But his successful workplace strategy was a disaster on the home front.
The healing of his marriage began with two simple words: "I'm sorry." That humble admission of guilt, Gary discovered, held more power than any legal brief or courtroom argument. Are you willing to be wrong in order to make things right?
Today's One Thing
If you need to, apologize to the one you love—without reservation and without commentary.
Going Deeper
Ephesians 4:25-32; Matthew 5:21-24
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Love and Respect in Marriage
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When was the last time you gave enthusiastic, overwhelming praise to God?
And leaping up he stood and began to walk, and entered the temple with them, walking and leaping and praising God. — Acts 3:8 (ESV)
Caught in the Act
Cripple! That's undoubtedly what people always called him—if they were kind. Most people just ignored him. Every day, he was carried to the gate of the temple, ironically called Beautiful, and left to his ugly, hopeless existence of begging. Lame since birth, he knew no other way of life. For him, even wishing he could walk seemed a waste of time.
Imagine, then, the crippled beggar's reaction when the Apostle Peter said, "I have no silver and gold, but what I do have I give to you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise up and walk!" (Acts 3:6 ESV) What must it have been like for him to go into the temple not only walking, but leaping and worshiping God? He was so excited, there was no way he could hold still!
The crowd noticed his exuberant praise, and when they recognized him they were totally amazed! It wasn't just the healing that caught their attention, but his unrestrained joy toward the Lord.
When was the last time you gave enthusiastic, overwhelming praise to God? Has anyone ever caught you in the act? Don't be afraid to joyfully worship the Lord because of what others may think. Be exuberant! Revel in the ways your faith in God has changed your life. Others around you will see His joy in you, and God will be glorified!
Today's One Thing
Praise the Lord for His miracles in your life, and don't worry about who's watching.
Going Deeper
Psalm 98:1-9; Acts 3:11-20; Philippians 4:4-13
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
How Has Faith Changed You
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Dark clouds are no obstacle to God
Moses said to him, "As soon as I have gone out of the city, I will stretch out my hands to the Lord. The thunder will cease, and there will be no more hail." —Exodus 9:29 (ESV)
Change of Forecast
You might offer up a prayer asking for good weather for a picnic. James H. O'Neill had bigger concerns than that. During the Battle of the Bulge in World War II, a terrible storm grounded air support and prevented reinforcements or supplies from reaching the front. The American forces were in great peril. O'Neill, Chief Chaplain of the U.S. Third Army, was asked by General George S. Patton to urge the troops to pray.
"Urge all of your men to pray," he wrote to other chaplains. "Pray when driving. Pray when fighting. Pray alone. Pray with others. Pray by night and pray by day...Pray for the defeat of our wicked enemy whose banner is injustice and whose goal is oppression." God responded to the prayers – the clouds disbursed unexpectedly, the battle was won, and the Nazi empire was soon crushed.
Scripture and history are all filled with proof that God often ends calamities in response to the prayers of His people. If you are under dark clouds today, rest assured that weather is no obstacle to God. The forecast for your life can be changed instantly ... when you pray.
Today's One Thing
Pray "without ceasing" by keeping Christ and His love for you at the forefront of your mind.
Going Deeper
Psalm 107:23-31; Mark 4:35-41
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
How to Keep it Together When Your Life is Falling Apart
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Be a father who will promote good behavior and maturity, not provoke.
Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. —Colossians 3:21 (ESV)
Chip Off the Ol' Block
It wasn't easy. Kyle was the most stubborn child on the planet. Okay, he probably wasn't the most stubborn, though it usually seemed that way. In most things, it was his way or the highway: from the clothes he wanted to wear that day to the food he wanted for dinner that night. It was a constant battle of wills, and it was exhausting to manage as a father.
One thing always helped Keith keep perspective. He knew Kyle was a chip off the ol' block. Keith remembered how he tested his own dad—and he recalled how his father consistently responded. Yes, he was disciplined, always given a negative consequence for his poor decisions. Yet Dad rarely raised his voice, never once yelled, and never, ever cut him down verbally. Each punishment was followed by a hug and words of teaching and encouragement.
Keith smiled at the thought as Kyle's "time out" period for arguing about cleaning his room was coming to an end. He opened the door to his son's room, ready to instruct and exhort.
Fathers are given one opportunity per child to raise a kid to become a responsible adult. Don't waste that opportunity and provoke. Promote good behavior and maturity. Let your child know you care and are there to help, not hurt.
Today's One Thing
Tell your son or daughter something they do consistently well that pleases you.
Going Deeper
James 3:3-18; 1 John 2:6-17
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Memories of Your Dad
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How warm fuzzies can jeopardize your future.
Prepare your work outside; get everything ready for yourself in the field, and after that build your house. —Proverbs 24:27 (ESV)
Cloud Nine Calamity
The couple entering Charles' office was so madly in love it was almost difficult to endure. As they sat down for their pre-marriage session they were cordial with the counselor, but made it clear they really didn't need the professional guidance. "Our pastor won't marry any couple unless they first have counseling," the smitten husband-to-be said confidently, "so here we are. But I think we know everything about each other there is to know." As he spoke the words, his fiancé gazed happily into his eyes as if she were in the shadow of King Arthur himself.
A few years later, Charles was thinking back on that encounter with the happy-go-lucky couple as he presided over a particularly grueling and depressing counseling session. He was trying to help salvage a marriage in which vitriolic complaints about selfishness, dishonesty, and countless irritations were flying from both sides.
The thing is, it was the same couple. Charles had tried to tell them, back then, that cloud nine was not a very substantive foundation upon which to build their relationship. They needed plans, and goals, and strategies for the future. They needed to develop their marriage with intention. And now the work required to repair the damage—if it could be repaired at all—would prove to be much more costly, time-consuming and painful.
In what area of your life are you "floating on cloud nine?" This is not the time to hit cruise control, but rather a moment to plan and prepare, so that future difficulties won't knock you down.
Today's One Thing
Think about a relationship you may be taking for granted because things are going well. What One Thing can you do to strengthen it for the future?
Going Deeper
Proverbs 24:27-34; Psalm 39:4-7
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
How to Avoid Romantic Chaos
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Life isn't fair, especially in the workplace.
Be angry, and do not sin; ponder in your own hearts on your beds, and be silent. —Psalm 4:4 (ESV)
Credit Thief
Outside her office was blackness—the sun having set long ago. In some distant hallway, a vacuum cleaner whined. Krystal sat alone in her cubicle under a florescent light, finishing the report her boss had demanded. Meanwhile, at home, her husband and two children had resigned themselves to a frozen pizza. The dinner out plans were cancelled.
The next morning her boss sent the report out to the executive staff. He had taken all the credit. "As my spreadsheet shows ..." he had written. As far as anyone would ever know, Krystal had nothing to do with it. There wasn't even a private word of thanks. She thought about the long hours, the family time surrendered ... and she promptly composed a vitriolic message that would set things straight. It felt good typing the missive, but she paused, thankfully, before hitting "send."
The next day, after taking the evening to pray, contemplate, and discuss a strategy with her husband, Krystal met with her boss and spoke, in measured tones, about her workload and concerns.
Life isn't fair, and that's especially true in the workplace. But a reflexive reaction or angry outburst will always do more harm than good. Sometimes you should be silent and sleep on it—that's biblical!
Today's One Thing
Before you respond in haste, make time to be silent and wait on God.
Going Deeper
I Peter 3:8-12; Matthew 26:47-53
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Being Salt and Light at Work
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Is there more to God than meets the eye?
By faith we understand...that what is seen was not made out of what was visible. —Hebrews 11:3 (ESV)
Cure For Faltering Faith
It was called "the black death of the childbed," and no one could understand why it was happening. It was 1846, and women giving birth at the Viennese General Hospital in Austria were placed in one of two divisions. In one division were the medical students. In the other,midwives. Mothers under the care of the medical students were mysteriously dying at triple the rate of what was then called "puerperal fever."
A physician named Ignaz Semmelweis discovered the cause: medical students who proceeded directly from conducting autopsies to deliveries ... without washing their hands. But at that time, the notion of invisible germs—bacteria too small to see with the naked eye—was considered crazy. Semmelweis was fired, ostracized by the medical community, and eventually committed to an insane asylum, where he died after a severe beating.
Almost everyone understands now that there is much more to our world than what is visible. Germs can't be seen, but the devastation they cause is evident. And our knowledge of how God has constructed his miraculous creation brings new discoveries every day. We now know an entire library of sophisticated information exists in a single DNA molecule.
There are those who say there is no evidence for God, but just look around you...His handiwork is everywhere! If your faith is faltering today, remember that God is working in your life—behind the scenes and beyond what you can see and understand—to make you into a new creation.
Today's One Thing
Find an open window or park bench, and take some time to enjoy, think upon and thank God for His incredible creation.
Going Deeper
Psalm 77:11-19; Genesis 1:1-27
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
Cold Case Christianity
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God promises to forgive us and throw away our guilt and shame.
As far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us. —Psalm 103:12 (ESV)
Don't Be Silly
Little Maggie didn't know what to do, she was so upset. She'd just done something that broke her heart as much as it had the object she knocked off the curio shelf.
"Oh mama, I'm so sorry!" She was sobbing as she walked up to her mother. "I broke your beautiful cup."
The mother replied, "I know you're sorry, and I forgive you." She placed her hand on Maggie's shoulder. "Don't cry." She then swept up the pieces of the broken cup and placed them in the trash can.
The little girl, though, couldn't let go of her mistake. Seeing what her mother did, she went over to the trash can, carefully picked out the pieces, and brought them again to her mother. "Your pretty cup, I can't fix it. I'm so sorry."
With that, her mother straightened her back and spoke firmly. "Take those pieces back to the trash can right now and throw them away. I told you I forgave you. Now don't cry, and don't be silly enough to pick up the broken pieces anymore."
This story was originally told by Nazi prison camp survivor Corrie ten Boom to demonstrate the reality—and finality—of God's forgiveness. When we make a mistake (and we will), 1 John 1:9 promises, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (ESV) Call out to Him first, accept His forgiveness, and throw away your shame.
Today's One Thing
Tell God you're sorry for falling short of His best, and then seek to do what pleases Him.
Going Deeper
Psalm 51:1-12; Ephesians 1:3-14; Colossians 2:6-15
Suggested Intentional Living Broadcast
The Impact of an Intentional Life
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