Judy,
I subscribe to Ancestry and can probably be of help on some of these people. I've already
located Benjamin and Ida and family in the 1885 and 1895 Kansas census's. They were in
Elk Falls township, Elk Co., in 1885 with daughters M. M. age 4; Minnie age 2; and Mary(your
grandmother) age 11 months.
In 1895, they have moved to Cherokee in Crawford County, and in addition to Mabel, Minnie
and Mary, they also have Charlotte age 9; Edward, age 6 and Benjamin age 2.
I also found Mary and Fremont Malcolm in the 1920 U.S. census in Peoria , Ill. with 11 children.
If you want to discuss all this in more detail, my email is
ddurbin1@cox.net.